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 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 76
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^^^^^^Well, there's different ways of looking at it....you could be getting twice the attention...if done well, each of the three is the focus of attention at some point....its a flowing dynamic until all are satisfied.
...unless its agreed that its one persons treat that time...
 sleepsafe
Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 77
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/25/2011 4:31:02 PM
Yes.......if you count my right AND left hand
 Southern.pride
Joined: 7/2/2011
Msg: 78
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/7/2011 6:35:13 PM
Yes ex swinger and I loved it!
 singleous
Joined: 7/23/2011
Msg: 79
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/7/2011 7:34:28 PM
I had a 3some with two guys, it was somewhat difficult because one guy could last longer than the other.. so it always ended up being a twosome.. Sort of took most of the appeal away.
 singleous
Joined: 7/23/2011
Msg: 80
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/7/2011 7:35:44 PM
On another note, 4somes, are a completely different story...way too much going on.
 musical_turtle
Joined: 3/11/2011
Msg: 81
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/8/2011 9:11:39 AM
I've never participated in a threesome.
I don't plan on it either...I'm selfish, and enjoy my partner being with me only lol
 xxawesomexx
Joined: 10/17/2010
Msg: 82
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/11/2011 12:06:11 AM
I was in a relationship with a married couple. There was no jealousy we were all open and honest. It was extremely loving. We rarely had sex with each other on our own because we lived together and enjoyed spending time all 3 of us. As a woman it was fantastic to explore another woman's body, the taste, the smell, the feel, the look, the similarities and the differences . It gave me great confidence in bed and with my own body in general. The sex was mind blowing every time and I put this down to trust and communication. I should also add that hearing the cheeky whispers of your lovers adds a whole new realm of sexy.

I am not saying I would get into that kind of relationship again or even have another 3some fling. I believe that he had was unique and special and a treasured memory. For us it was not sleazy and what I learnt from it was that I am worthy of love without barriers.
 Needsagoodlady4ever
Joined: 10/14/2011
Msg: 83
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/30/2011 9:05:45 AM
I only have two hands.....does that mean I need to use a foot?
 shodingerscat
Joined: 9/28/2011
Msg: 84
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/30/2011 9:33:39 AM
been in several of them over the years. both fmf and mfm. first was with a couple that was quite a bit older than myself who i worked for. most have been with people that were good/close friends. only one was with a couple i met of the net. i guess i have been fortunate enough to have great experiences. there have never been any emotional issues afterward.
 laughingcoyote
Joined: 9/22/2011
Msg: 85
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/30/2011 5:24:36 PM
Hmm.. Yes, I've participated in a lot of threesomes, some FMF, some MFM, and even larger groups. It's a great time for all if it's something you're into. My primary partner and I are non-monogamous and we have a great time with our sex life.

How would I rate the experience? Awesome. I love threesomes.

I get asked routinely to be part of threesomes, but don't get involved with strange couples to fulfill their FMF fantasies.

Will I try if invited into a threesome? Yup.
 BigJ_78
Joined: 2/15/2011
Msg: 86
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/31/2011 5:28:11 AM
Had a FMF threesome for the first time in a long time this weekend...

So hot..Always fun havin 2 horny lil freaks sharing my****and going wild on each other ...
 taoistrunner
Joined: 9/6/2011
Msg: 87
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/31/2011 7:23:43 AM
I have participated in a few and always had a great time. No jealousy on the part of either partner and it was usually with friends. I would say that if invited to do it again, I would absolutely participate as long as my other agreed.

There is certainly nothing wrong with it if there is no pressure and everyone is agreed as to the rules and parameters.
 bigdogric
Joined: 10/20/2005
Msg: 88
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/31/2011 8:19:54 AM
good choices will make you a lot more appealing
 apple_jax05
Joined: 8/29/2011
Msg: 89
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/31/2011 8:31:42 AM
I have and it wasn't the best experience ... I tried it once and it sucked tried it again thinking I'd give it another shot (different people a couple years later) and it still sucked both times the other female got upset for one reason or another and ruined everything! the first time was all girls and one of them got up and walked out so wasnt much of a threesome after that lol and the second time it was a couple the wife got upset and said she no longer wanted to do it.. the husband did and they started fighting in the middle of it all so this time I got up and left! So boo to that idea... fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me!
 taoistrunner
Joined: 9/6/2011
Msg: 90
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/31/2011 8:32:03 AM
Very true! Good point. The mutual choices that you make leading up to it will make or break the experience.
 chromelove08
Joined: 11/17/2008
Msg: 91
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has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 10/31/2011 10:46:04 PM
I don't share my men. Can't just let him have sex with another girl and me not get jealous about it. i like to have him all to myself and i value sex also. I love it and think its important to just do with someone you really care about. i have had a couple of fwb's in my past but that was experimenting and i found out that i am not good with those. would rather have a relationship.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 92
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/15/2011 11:12:40 AM
Yeppers I have been to threesomes ,foursomes ,.fivesomes ,swingers parties ,orgies ,,70s rock concerts ,and I have been to a religious compound in Texas ,,, these things all had their place in my life ... but now I'm back to one on one..for the most part..really thinking back the most erotic experiences I ever had were .well we didnt have a name for it then .. they now call it soft swing ..its kinda like when two couples have sex in the same room but you only have sex with your partner ... kinda like live porn .. this is really a liberating experience for people with the attitude ..this I would do again
 Cougar673
Joined: 12/2/2011
Msg: 93
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/15/2011 11:34:14 AM
Yes. Before I was married, it was in one with two other girls and it was really hot. After I was married, I was in one with my husband and, well really a foursome, and another couple. It was weird and uncomfrotable and no one had any fun and it never went past kissing and oral sex. Then we all looked at each other and laughed. I will never do it again if I'm in a relationship but wouldn't mind a big old pile of girls again. LMAO
 Agallah005
Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 94
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/17/2011 2:36:28 PM
no, I don't like sharing myself nor my woman, :D
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 95
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/19/2011 10:25:48 PM
^^^^ Yeah and nothing beats a juicy steak either but I still enjoy burgers now and then....
 lovefun99
Joined: 6/14/2010
Msg: 96
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has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/20/2011 11:08:15 AM
in my younger days did a couple of FMF, no relationships involved, just fun sex. A few years ago a married chick picked me up at the bar, introduced me to her hubby, then we headed to a motel for some MFM action, after the "no sword fighting" ground rule was established. It was great hot sex we pleased her and she pleased us. Never saw them again...

I would hesitate to have a threesome while in a relationship, I certainly have no desire to see my GF pleasuring/being pleasuredby another dude and I have no desire to boink another chick with her watching. (Although I would be in to watch some hot FF action between her and another hottie but I digress)
 luckycharmes20
Joined: 6/4/2011
Msg: 97
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/20/2011 11:28:11 AM
yeah you got a girl in mind tho
 Mr4real45
Joined: 11/6/2011
Msg: 98
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/20/2011 12:18:47 PM
I have been married to 2 bi-sexual women & I have had several 3somes. They are great as long as there are rules & they are obeyed. Threesomes are not overrated & withthe right partners very erotic.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 99
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/20/2011 12:31:01 PM
I ALMSOT did. The logistics and attitude of my girlfriend at the time were too much of a hassle for me to even bother with it. Besides, I dont believe in that stuff anyway, I think if you want to break up a couple in the short to medium term, threesomes are the way to go.
My gf at the time knew this cute girl from high school, she always told me she was bi-curious a bit, so she suggested a threesome. She showed me the girl in question, whom she knew, and all three started talking together. Me and the OTHER girl ended up getting p*ssed at my gf, because I could screw my gf, but not the other girl. That pissed me off, cos that kind of defeats the concept, and the other girl, because she wanted some c*ck too! So I ended upbeing like ah, screw that....
Ironically I did, as when I dumped my gf me and the other girl had crazy out of this world, in all the rooms of the house sex for several years LOL!
 jeffkratzberg
Joined: 10/9/2009
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has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 12/23/2011 9:40:07 AM
hell yes had many i was with this girl for over 9 years. And we had lots and lots of them . We had men and women dont worry am not gay but it turned me on so bad to see her get off over and over and over agan.wow never did get mad at her for that. IT WAS SOME OF THE BEST SEX WE EVER HAD. SO PLZZ DONT KNOCK TILL U TRYED IT
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