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 masterotaku
Joined: 7/20/2012
Msg: 151
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I've had a threesome once, at the suggestion of a bi girl I dated a number of years ago. Sexually it was quite the experience. But the sexual is almost always an easy slam dunk when it comes to mere enjoyment.

Emotionally and philosophically it wasn't an arrangement that appealed in any long term sense. As complicated as it is managing a relationship with one person, it is even more complex to manage adding people to it. Not something I'll discount, but not something I have a need to seek either.
 milehiguy12
Joined: 5/9/2012
Msg: 152
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Posted: 9/18/2012 3:21:43 PM
I have enjoyed many threesomes and still do. I have been invited to join several couples in bed and it is always a great experience. In fact I have never had a negative experience from a threesome. I know it all depends on your partners. For me it's all about the sex and making sure that everyone is included. When I'm with a couple the other man and I focus on the woman to make sure she gets twice the attention. If everyone is open minded and doesn't bring a lot of emotions into the fun it is a great experience for everyone.
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 153
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/18/2012 3:33:11 PM
I have a hard enough time trying to please myself, let alone two other ladies....
 eve1962
Joined: 12/26/2009
Msg: 154
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Posted: 9/19/2012 10:55:04 AM
Yuk. If you or your partner can enjoy watching you having sex with someone else, then something is definitely lacking in the relationship.
 Submissive92
Joined: 7/20/2012
Msg: 155
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/19/2012 11:49:44 AM
When i was 16 i particapted in one with 2 girls it was so sensual and amazing. Nothing quite compares to scissoring all nigth long. I would love to particapte in another.
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 156
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/19/2012 1:18:32 PM
Yeah, if you can't handle sharing a guy, then don't bother. I think a threesome should be all together where everyone enjoys sex with each other. Not two chicks fighting over the guy's attention. Play a little :)
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 157
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/19/2012 2:16:08 PM
Sure Ive been in several over the years and its always been a fun adventure !!
 joey4fun69
Joined: 8/14/2012
Msg: 158
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/19/2012 3:07:44 PM
yes i have and its lots of fun with the right folks!!!
 BourbonStDuo2
Joined: 9/16/2012
Msg: 159
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/20/2012 2:48:53 AM
We have indulged on several occasions and it has been incredibly intense and erotic for us both. Our method of play may have had something to do with that tho, lol....think 50 shades of gray.......
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 160
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/20/2012 8:14:35 AM
well actually me being multi-polar ..every time i have sex its at least a 3 some .. many times its an orgy ..for me even masturbation involves a crowd .. but i just tell people to get to know me ..your sure to like one of us
 lugnutt55
Joined: 1/31/2011
Msg: 161
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/20/2012 9:41:25 AM
Yes,in many combinations. 4 some swaps,mfm threesome,mmf 3 sum,mff 3sum,enjoyed them all
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 162
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/20/2012 10:02:16 AM
somewhere I read once said that having multiple personalities is not a problem ..your only insane when you can not control which one is present

might want to check into that Teslanerd
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 163
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 8/2/2015 1:59:53 PM
Someone please take my internet privileges away from me.

Just until the desire to post passes.
 StarClassic
Joined: 9/29/2014
Msg: 164
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 8/2/2015 8:55:16 PM
^^^ NO!

OK my input.

Does my dog sticking his nose in my butt count?
If not, then no.
While the idea is intriguing I don't think I could go that far with a woman I'm seriously involved with. I know for certain another man wouldn't be involved.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 8/2/2015 10:11:44 PM
Threesomes are fine when none of the participants is in love or serious about the other. Otherwise it can be fraught with danger and very risky with jealous feelings etc. Most men prefer two women and him and not so keen on two guys with the one girl..... which I would prefer, as a woman.
 chigammaiota
Joined: 6/5/2015
Msg: 166
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 8/3/2015 2:59:28 PM
Had them inside and outside relationships... prefer them outside because it eliminates the possibility of jealousy, hurt feelings, other weirdness, blah, yadda, etc.


i was actually thinking after looking at some profiles on here about swingers and open marriages about this...has anyone actually participated in an actual threesome and if so how would you rate the experience?
 sigungq
Joined: 1/4/2013
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Posted: 8/3/2015 6:33:50 PM
The only thing I've ever participated in is a onesome..........
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 168
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Posted: 8/3/2015 8:02:24 PM

Does my dog sticking his nose in my butt count?
If not, then no.

LOL
 MaleFeasance
Joined: 3/13/2015
Msg: 169
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Posted: 8/4/2015 4:11:18 AM
Threesomes are fine when none of the participants is in love or serious about the other.
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Or the girlfriend is bi.

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Otherwise it can be fraught with danger and very risky with jealous feelings etc.
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If the women aren't bi, it's way too much work. Trying to keep two straight women busy is like herding cats.

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Most men prefer two women and him and not so keen on two guys with the one girl..... which I would prefer, as a woman.
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With a bi girlfriend, two women is fine and so is being the third with a couple for an mfm (as long as there is no male-male contact). Don't think I'd want to do the mfm thing with my gf, though. Fortunately, most women I've met who were interested in threesomes also were more interested in the two females variety. I never really understood why most women seem to like the fmf version over the mfm version, but since that works better for me, I'm not going to question it too much.
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 8/16/2015 8:38:15 PM
Yes, but really, I prefer one on one. I get very, very focused on the person I'm with and trying to integrate two people is difficult.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 8/17/2015 9:17:39 PM
Fantasy is always better than reality of course, but I always wanted to be part of a FMF threesome. It is one of those bucket list items that a lot of guys have.

My fantasy has always been a threesome with a voluptuous woman and petite woman. Don't really know why...choices maybe lol
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 8/18/2015 11:03:40 PM

If the women aren't bi, it's way too much work. Trying to keep two straight women busy is like herding cats.

I think that IS herding cats! :)

I always wanted to be part of a FMF threesome. It is one of those bucket list items that a lot of guys have.

Yeah. I've put it in my letters to Santa Claus every year for decades. The rat ba$tard has never given me that as a present. All he does is break into my house and raid my fridge for cookies & milk. Damn Canadians.
 karlov289
Joined: 8/13/2015
Msg: 173
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 8/22/2015 12:29:21 PM
what would you like ro kjnow
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 174
has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 8/22/2015 3:52:50 PM
Multiple times. Mostly MFM. A few times it was FMF.


Threesomes are fine when none of the participants is in love or serious about the other. Otherwise it can be fraught with danger and very risky with jealous feelings etc.


Sometimes. But I had 3somes with couples that are still married or dating.
 Witnesstomythoughts
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 175
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Posted: 8/24/2015 2:40:30 PM
^^^^^ Yeah, I once did an MFM with a woman I was casually seeing and it was exciting, sort of like watching her in a live porn right in front of me but to do it with someone I had feelings for ? I doubt I could handle it....Maybe that's a good thing ?
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