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 NWFY1979
Joined: 12/3/2010
Msg: 226
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ladies take note the way to a mans heart has never been through his stomach. it has always been and always will be through his****nothing better than a gal going down on your shaft one more tip swallow
 DomG79
Joined: 3/12/2011
Msg: 227
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Posted: 10/27/2012 7:07:53 PM
What a stupid thing to complain about. I know girls who act like sluts who can't suck**** There's something to complain about right there.
 Haganracing1
Joined: 10/22/2012
Msg: 229
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Posted: 10/28/2012 7:54:59 AM
I wouldn't say the girl is a "slut" or had "too much practice" because she's good at giving head. She could be a quick learner or just knows what to do.
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 230
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Posted: 10/29/2012 6:30:44 PM

there are deffinately bad blow jobs,,,,,when a woman is not really interested in doin it ,an it shows,,she gives you teeth not throat,,,ouch


I totally agree. When it's a trade off like I do you then you do me or 69 or they just don't care and want to get you off. It's like they are swinging from a vine or something.
 Camper2Camouflage
Joined: 3/3/2012
Msg: 231
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Posted: 10/29/2012 10:01:37 PM
I just don't get it! I hope the women I spend the rest of my life with has had plenty of practice! More double standards? If my partner has given a thousand blowjobs, so what, I only hope she enjoyed them all. Just my 2 cents
 jodylyn2012
Joined: 5/5/2012
Msg: 232
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Posted: 10/30/2012 8:49:28 PM
i can not answer for all women, but for me when a man cums from recieving a blow job its a huge turn on. Every woman wants to know that shes making her man happy and that shows instant gratification
 jodylyn2012
Joined: 5/5/2012
Msg: 233
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Posted: 10/30/2012 8:54:01 PM
so cowboy explain to me the best way to give a blowjob
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 234
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Posted: 10/31/2012 2:48:27 PM
Best way to go about fellatio is make it last long and love every minute of it or forget the mechanical porn part and just don't do it at all. Get what you want but don't just go through the motions. Be true to you, if you love it, then love it, if you do it for something in return. Find someone okay with that because we aren't all like that.
 passion2pleaseaz
Joined: 8/23/2012
Msg: 235
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Posted: 11/3/2012 2:08:43 AM
well at least we all know this will never be a verbal debate about blow jobs.i doubt anyone could understand the grunts and muffled noises anyway.
 urstr8up
Joined: 7/17/2012
Msg: 236
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Posted: 11/3/2012 8:27:56 AM
no...we must always think about sharing even in our most intimate moments that being said......howeven she obtained her experience depending on what we(me and her) plan to do going forward it is best to enjoy the experience .
 dkabbiah1
Joined: 5/13/2012
Msg: 237
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Posted: 11/3/2012 1:44:36 PM
We can always gain experience from the past. Some people are natural, and can do things without instruction and being dirt and selling their souls to devil. she might be clean. Never judge her, all she wants is to make you happy.
 patrick28t
Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 238
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Posted: 11/3/2012 1:57:18 PM

OMG what is this concern about women being sluts? Men are sluts so get over it. If a woman likes sex just be happy and stop playing the double standard. Arent you guys ever happy?


The double standard will be obsolete the day that men too can become pregnant, and bear the same costs of reproduction as women.
 NiceLondoncouple
Joined: 8/12/2011
Msg: 239
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Posted: 11/3/2012 4:55:36 PM
If a woman gives good head

-She probably likes it

-She is likley not worried about whats about to happen

-she has likley had honest consrtuction critisim or open comunication from a partneter,

-Most woman 80% do not give good head, even very experianced women.. So talk to them. Most guys lie about how good it was..............
 Rromantticman2011
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 240
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Posted: 11/11/2012 4:35:13 AM
wow, you must be a horny dog.....blowjobs are not all good, just like a man going down on a woman, there are techniques, timing, skill, talent and passion that go into a good bj....bottom line is this quality versus quantity, I can tell you at least 5 to 10 things that make a good bj over a bad one....

1. start of slow, tease, licks,

2. the suction needs to be just right, too little is not good at all, too much can hurt.

3. dont use the hands, while this is a good technique on its own right, a bj is a bj not a handjob.

4. the amount of moisture is key, wet is best

5. sounds of sucking is a huge turn on, sliding it in and out without suction is well not a good bj.

6. different positions helps for pleasure - and watching, looking into each others eyes can be powerful

7. simply, skill, talent, lets face it, just like kissing, not all woman are good kissers, but a skillful talented orally inclined woman ....well defines a quality bj.

8. varying the technique, licks, sucks, not ignoring the twins, like long forplay.

9. never hurts to touch and stimulate the nether region at the same time

10. finally, the climax.....pulling out...well, that is not good unless you want to see the money shot, that can be fun and erotic too, however, not stopping, continuing the strong suction, even stronger when climaxing and turning the head often making more friction....at climax a typical man can take it harder, faster and not stop after its all ejaculated

11. bonus, to hear a woman moan in enjoyment versus a silent woman, well, huge difference for the man.

Sorry bud, I think there is a huge difference between a good bj or a bad one, its not about just the orgasm
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 241
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Posted: 11/11/2012 5:24:26 PM
Most woman 80% do not give good head, even very experianced women.. So talk to them. Most guys lie about how good it was.............

I agree with this 100% especially because the only one's who do it best are those who were paid to. Most could care less how a man feels. Kind of why I look solely for a woman who has an oral fetish for a lover because at least I know she will take care of things at home and I will never roam.
 db00000
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 242
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Posted: 11/11/2012 11:40:14 PM
If a girl is giving a proper blowjob... I'm not thinking about ANYTHING. He insinuated that she was a slut because he probably got the blowjob really easily.
 spartygirl121
Joined: 2/18/2011
Msg: 243
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:19:10 PM
Some people are just naturally good at it. I got rave reviews from the first couple I ever gave. it helps to enjoy it, though. If you're only doing it because the guy wants it, then you're probably not going to do better than the woman who really likes to do it.
 Lorenzobabycakes
Joined: 1/3/2012
Msg: 244
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:27:25 PM
No...Not at all......She could have been taught how to in her previous relationship.
 dare2c4yourself
Joined: 11/9/2010
Msg: 245
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:33:15 PM
Well put, great answer!

Lets put this one to rest.
 sachmo16
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 246
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:41:05 PM
NOT AT ALL!! if she's good she's good maybe she watches porn and learns tricks from there. or just very sexual and really enjoys sucking c*ck. You're always better at anything when you're good at it no?? same with guys. If a guy is good at going down on a girl, doesn't mean he had practice.
 Slate56
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 247
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Posted: 11/12/2012 6:02:36 PM
Man, if ya can find fault with this then you'll find something.
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 248
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Posted: 11/12/2012 6:29:26 PM
I agree spartgirl. Most, if they are just doing it to do it or trade off. Aren't worth the spittal they put in to the effort. You are just with the wrong person. In order for it to be anything, it should be done with love or not at all. I prefer not at all than a horrible experience with someone just swinging from me like I am a vine till I mess myself. Totally worthless.
 kjay41
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 249
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Posted: 11/12/2012 10:12:15 PM
Abelin.....good response! :)
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 250
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Posted: 11/13/2012 4:19:33 PM
BLOWJOBS should be a mandate ie: MANDATORY for those who don't know what a MANDATE is.....
if your date doesn't blow ya then she should be held guilty in a court of law and punished by giving you several bj's.

the world doesn't have to be difficult....just ask me.......
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