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Joined: 7/17/2012
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no...we must always think about sharing even in our most intimate moments that being said......howeven she obtained her experience depending on what we(me and her) plan to do going forward it is best to enjoy the experience .
Joined: 5/13/2012
Msg: 237
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Posted: 11/3/2012 1:44:36 PM
We can always gain experience from the past. Some people are natural, and can do things without instruction and being dirt and selling their souls to devil. she might be clean. Never judge her, all she wants is to make you happy.
Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 238
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Posted: 11/3/2012 1:57:18 PM

OMG what is this concern about women being sluts? Men are sluts so get over it. If a woman likes sex just be happy and stop playing the double standard. Arent you guys ever happy?

The double standard will be obsolete the day that men too can become pregnant, and bear the same costs of reproduction as women.
Joined: 8/12/2011
Msg: 239
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Posted: 11/3/2012 4:55:36 PM
If a woman gives good head

-She probably likes it

-She is likley not worried about whats about to happen

-she has likley had honest consrtuction critisim or open comunication from a partneter,

-Most woman 80% do not give good head, even very experianced women.. So talk to them. Most guys lie about how good it was..............
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 240
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Posted: 11/11/2012 4:35:13 AM
wow, you must be a horny dog.....blowjobs are not all good, just like a man going down on a woman, there are techniques, timing, skill, talent and passion that go into a good bj....bottom line is this quality versus quantity, I can tell you at least 5 to 10 things that make a good bj over a bad one....

1. start of slow, tease, licks,

2. the suction needs to be just right, too little is not good at all, too much can hurt.

3. dont use the hands, while this is a good technique on its own right, a bj is a bj not a handjob.

4. the amount of moisture is key, wet is best

5. sounds of sucking is a huge turn on, sliding it in and out without suction is well not a good bj.

6. different positions helps for pleasure - and watching, looking into each others eyes can be powerful

7. simply, skill, talent, lets face it, just like kissing, not all woman are good kissers, but a skillful talented orally inclined woman ....well defines a quality bj.

8. varying the technique, licks, sucks, not ignoring the twins, like long forplay.

9. never hurts to touch and stimulate the nether region at the same time

10. finally, the climax.....pulling out...well, that is not good unless you want to see the money shot, that can be fun and erotic too, however, not stopping, continuing the strong suction, even stronger when climaxing and turning the head often making more climax a typical man can take it harder, faster and not stop after its all ejaculated

11. bonus, to hear a woman moan in enjoyment versus a silent woman, well, huge difference for the man.

Sorry bud, I think there is a huge difference between a good bj or a bad one, its not about just the orgasm
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 241
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Posted: 11/11/2012 5:24:26 PM
Most woman 80% do not give good head, even very experianced women.. So talk to them. Most guys lie about how good it was.............

I agree with this 100% especially because the only one's who do it best are those who were paid to. Most could care less how a man feels. Kind of why I look solely for a woman who has an oral fetish for a lover because at least I know she will take care of things at home and I will never roam.
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 242
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Posted: 11/11/2012 11:40:14 PM
If a girl is giving a proper blowjob... I'm not thinking about ANYTHING. He insinuated that she was a slut because he probably got the blowjob really easily.
Joined: 2/18/2011
Msg: 243
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:19:10 PM
Some people are just naturally good at it. I got rave reviews from the first couple I ever gave. it helps to enjoy it, though. If you're only doing it because the guy wants it, then you're probably not going to do better than the woman who really likes to do it.
Joined: 1/3/2012
Msg: 244
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:27:25 PM
No...Not at all......She could have been taught how to in her previous relationship.
Joined: 11/9/2010
Msg: 245
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:33:15 PM
Well put, great answer!

Lets put this one to rest.
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 246
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:41:05 PM
NOT AT ALL!! if she's good she's good maybe she watches porn and learns tricks from there. or just very sexual and really enjoys sucking c*ck. You're always better at anything when you're good at it no?? same with guys. If a guy is good at going down on a girl, doesn't mean he had practice.
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 247
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Posted: 11/12/2012 6:02:36 PM
Man, if ya can find fault with this then you'll find something.
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 248
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Posted: 11/12/2012 6:29:26 PM
I agree spartgirl. Most, if they are just doing it to do it or trade off. Aren't worth the spittal they put in to the effort. You are just with the wrong person. In order for it to be anything, it should be done with love or not at all. I prefer not at all than a horrible experience with someone just swinging from me like I am a vine till I mess myself. Totally worthless.
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 249
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Posted: 11/12/2012 10:12:15 PM
Abelin.....good response! :)
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 250
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Posted: 11/13/2012 4:19:33 PM
BLOWJOBS should be a mandate ie: MANDATORY for those who don't know what a MANDATE is.....
if your date doesn't blow ya then she should be held guilty in a court of law and punished by giving you several bj's.

the world doesn't have to be difficult....just ask me.......
Joined: 11/4/2012
Msg: 251
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Posted: 11/13/2012 4:27:35 PM
If she's dd free, I don't care how she got the practice. She's with me now and i would like the best quality blowjob.
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 252
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Posted: 12/9/2012 12:39:26 AM
It appears it's too much of a job for women to be interested. Most are more interested in the job you do for them, to buy them things and to make them like you because you buy them things. Then when they discover the guy they picked has no personality, but looks good and can buy them things, they leave him for another one of the same kind of guys.

When enough of that has gone on they swear there are no good men. When actually, they just suck at deciding who to have sex with. If you get a good woman it's rare. Most want eye candy with plenty of spending cash. They say they want a good guy when they are desperate. Don't get as much attention as the one's scamming for things bought for them to bribe them to sleep with you.

I don't settle, never have. I am looking for someone who loves this because it's who she is and she wants a man to share it with because she loves to do that. Otherwise, yea, it's just a job. A Blow Job, and most of them can't even do that right. They think most are so hard up they will take what they can get. Sorry, no banana.
I know quality and I would rather be celibate than settle.
Joined: 7/8/2012
Msg: 253
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Posted: 12/9/2012 2:40:11 AM
maybe she just likes doing it.
Joined: 8/3/2012
Msg: 254
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Posted: 12/12/2012 3:38:43 AM

You must be married, very few feel that way!
Joined: 2/22/2006
Msg: 255
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Posted: 12/12/2012 12:05:24 PM
I believe it's not due to excessive experience, rather the particular lady's enthusiasm & enjoyment in performing whatever the sexual act may be.
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 256
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Posted: 1/12/2013 5:25:57 PM
The worse for Bj are the one's who think they are 'the best'. Those who love it and can't wait, I have found, are the perfect women for this. Those who flout their own ego and think they are all that are the one's you have to stay clear of. It's like being with Jane swinging through the forest and your appendage is the vine. They don't get it. It might be hard, but it's anything but steel. It has billions of nerve endings in there and what most know they learned from a porn. Which means they are brutal and abusive. The amount of sympathy or empathy most humans have for men where this is concerned can be seen by their reactions to a guy getting kicked in the groin, falling on a bicycle wrong, a fence wrong, or anything pulverizing a man in the balls, until he can't walk and they are in tears from laughing. A man can die or be crippled for life from such a blow, but society has been brainwashed in to believing that it's funny and not to care about how men feel and IF men feel they are homosexual or gay.
Joined: 9/7/2012
Msg: 257
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Posted: 1/13/2013 8:07:33 PM
I never liked getting oral but I love giving it.
Freddy Prinze gave me my insight on it in a comedy album before I'd even started.
He said the noises that women make when you're "doing them" is like a parade in your honor.
Who doesn't want a parade in their honor? (Rhetorical)
Also I never want to finish when I'm in the throws of passion because it flips a switch that turns me off.
I'd rather go home with blue balls and a hard-on I could dock a boat to after multiple "parades in my honor" than finish up snoring.
When I was married we never had any problems in the bedroom... although I did end up snoring, simply because I had learned that it is better to give than to receive.
If some woman insists on giving head... I say screw her!
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 258
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Posted: 1/13/2013 8:22:53 PM
Thirteen pages of discussion about blowjobs? Really? Wow!!!!!
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 259
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Posted: 1/14/2013 10:31:50 PM
Absolutely! I speak from personal experience. Besides, since when do girls ever exert any extra blowjob energy when in long-term relationships?? :-P If it looks like a duck and smells like a duck, it must be dinnertime.
Joined: 1/14/2018
Msg: 260
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Posted: 7/6/2018 3:38:30 AM
In any way it is hard to find a woman who seems to enjoy giving....and if she does under any circumstance I have called it a experience would be nurses are better at that....does it mean they are sluts absolutely not!......My ex was good and she wasn't. If a woman wants to give oral then it does take time on both sides and a learning curve....and of course if she's serious she can go to the web....plenty of teaching there....
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