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 Venerable58
Joined: 9/2/2012
Msg: 176
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No way.
I only care about what WE have together.
If WE have great oral sex, I'd have to be pretty insecure to criticize it.
 dartmouthjames
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 177
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Posted: 9/10/2012 12:10:25 PM

I ask you: If a girl gives really good bj's, do you assume she's had "too much practice"?

No.
 mark777771
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 178
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Posted: 9/10/2012 2:41:44 PM
I cant understand why this is such an active thread. lol
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 9/10/2012 4:38:27 PM

If a girl gives really good bj's, do you assume she's had "too much practice"?


I would assume she is a sensual person who is good at paying attention to detail and can put herself (mentally) in the place of her partner, a characteristic of all good lovers.

Would you be happier if she were bad at it?
 fuzzywuzzywuzzabear
Joined: 9/2/2012
Msg: 180
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Posted: 9/10/2012 5:45:44 PM
if you're getting your dikk swabbed with female saliva, warm, wet lipz pistoning up and down like a high performance motor with a nice suction and you're thinking of her previous involvements then you don't deserve her.
 TD625
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 181
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Posted: 9/11/2012 7:09:20 AM
That's a ridiculous statement. Some woman are much more uninhibited and sexual than others and aren't afraid to do what feels good to them. Before you blow up my inbox with storys of woman who gave terrible head (isn't bad head better than NO head? lol) I am fully aware of that. That's exactly what we are talking about here. Between doing what we want to do it's very easy to take clues from the man on what is working for him. For the men that complain that their S/O gives terrible head I have only this to say to you. IF she/he isn't doing what pleases you and you say nothing to show/help/demonstrate (banana or like object) then it's ALL on you. If the man I was seeing wasn't happy with what I was doing and didn't say anything to me then I would figure I was doing exactly what he wanted. We are not mind readers (same goes for woman)
 goodaysunshine
Joined: 11/10/2011
Msg: 182
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Posted: 9/11/2012 9:50:38 AM
There is no such thing as too much practice.
 goodaysunshine
Joined: 11/10/2011
Msg: 183
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Posted: 9/11/2012 9:51:40 AM
Good point!! I agree with you.
 rcot
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 184
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Posted: 9/11/2012 1:34:38 PM
Hey Folks,

Unless your dating a 15 year old, Be Happy that your partner is able to please you that way. And remember as we get older our partners tend to be older and more experienced. Most men are too insecure if they have to worry about their partner past. They're with you now and if you think about this too much, You'll lose them.......
 Bobster999
Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 185
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Posted: 9/11/2012 6:19:20 PM
No i just think she needs to keep practicing starting now!
 Lint Spotter
Joined: 8/27/2009
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Posted: 9/12/2012 4:28:38 AM

I had several messages waiting for me this morning from women around the world referencing my post in "The BJ thread" and wanting me to teach them the secret to giving great BJ's.
I think it's wonderful that you're willing to share your secret to giving your boyfriend great blow jobs.

I think you should post it publicly... oh wait, that's right... this is your way of getting mail. My bad...
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 187
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Posted: 9/12/2012 9:50:16 AM

Unless your dating a 15 year old, Be Happy that your partner is able to please you that way.

And if you are, only be unhappy that she's had too much practice. Don't worry about the age difference, age is just a number, right? ;)
 Drawesome32
Joined: 6/26/2012
Msg: 188
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Posted: 9/13/2012 1:18:50 AM
not at all. i think its a gift for some people. the best i ever had was from a girl that had only given a bj to one guy before, her ex boyfriend. i also knew a girl that had never done it before, and was very good. a lot of it has to do with attitude too. some women hate doing it, others are ok with it, and some love doing it. who do you think will be better at it?
 youcanwatchitwalkaway
Joined: 9/9/2012
Msg: 189
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Posted: 9/13/2012 7:30:57 AM
help me out here cowboy. I want to be excellent at blowjobs. No joke. can you tell me what they did that was so great. I want to make a guy see god, but I m not a sword swallower, you pickin up what I'm layin down?
 picmenc
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 190
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Posted: 9/13/2012 7:40:41 AM
Too many women don't know how to give a good BJ. Have to make love to it, massage the sac, like ur really enjoying it. Conversley the guy should do the same when licking a women.
Do both know how massaging a womans G spot is great ?
 Tony Montana Sr
Joined: 12/2/2009
Msg: 191
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Posted: 9/20/2012 11:15:35 AM
I wouldn't assume she had too much practice... I think someone that does that has security issues.
 ElleKing
Joined: 7/24/2012
Msg: 192
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Posted: 9/20/2012 4:34:50 PM
Nothing better than making a guy moan and groan and then he goes and tells his ex girlfriend how bad you were. Then she goes and tells her ex and he tells the chick who did the dirty deed. pretty professional
 LukeMM23
Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 193
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Posted: 9/21/2012 11:26:29 PM
Frankly, I don't think like that. I don't judge women as "sluts" for being sexually active, as long as they are honestly safe. I love a woman with experience. A love a woman who likes to please a man, during sex. In my experience, that is getting rarer and rarer.

I've learned everything I could about giving cunnilingus to a woman, by watching porn. Does that automatically make me a pervert?? I hope the woman I'm with, isn't so narrow-minded as to think like that. Sheesh.
 Sparklejoy18
Joined: 3/17/2010
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Posted: 9/22/2012 12:50:07 PM
In that case you should have taken her to a Hypnotist to get past her subconscious beliefs. Sounds like you had a pretty dull sex life.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
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Posted: 9/22/2012 1:36:27 PM
Can't say I have ever had a "bad" blowjob. There have been some where the talent was exceptional!!!!
 Googleplus
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 196
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Posted: 9/22/2012 7:46:48 PM

Can't say I have ever had a "bad" blowjob. There have been some where the talent was exceptional!!!!


Lucky you I had a very bad blow job. She really sucked and top of that when I asked her to gently bite she bit too hard. I am not sure I want to do that again.
If I get a blow job from a woman I don't care how many blows jobs she gave. Maybe she practiced on something like a Popsicle.
 PosiREP
Joined: 6/8/2012
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Posted: 9/22/2012 7:49:19 PM
only one...but it was in a moving car and she was always good before and after that.

Hehe.
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 198
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Posted: 10/7/2012 8:22:34 PM
I prefer to be with a woman who is almost exclusively into making oral love to her man. I have been with a woman who, she and I were at it for over 36 hours. She was a fellatrix and she loved fellatio. It's what I look for in a lover. I am not one who is in to cunnilingus but that is okay because we are all allowed to like and dislike what we want provided we are not involved and it is being demanded of us to perform something we don't have a predilection for. Some people love it and swear by it, some don't care for it at all. I know a lot of women who don't like cunninglus and I know equal parts who don't like fellatio but love it when a man goes down on them. It's all out there, various combinations of both. Both are allowed to exist. Why not? I would much prefer to have a Linda Lovelace type lover because we all know how intoxicated men are and aroused by just about any female image in front of them. It would be awesome to meet a woman who becomes intoxicated about her lovers loins with the same ferocity. I had a couple of long distance relationships that died due to the distance, like this. If we had lived closer they would have been ideal. But they could not keep their face out of my pants. That, to me, is ideal. There is a little known engagement called sleep suckling. It's like they are sleeping with a thumb in their mouths. This is the extent of my involvement with female oral artisans and what kind of lover I will eventually end up with.
 cocopuffguy2012
Joined: 9/13/2012
Msg: 199
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Posted: 10/8/2012 3:03:27 PM
As a former track coach once said to me...."you can never run too many practices" :)
 cricket1014
Joined: 1/24/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2012 6:10:21 PM
I agree. Practice makes perfect.
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