I have met very very very few, did I mention very few men? who list long term and actually mean it. They list it because they can get more women to believe they are serious...untill they get what they want, then they are off to the next profile! Why dont these men just go to an escort service or better yet, adult friend finder, that is, afterall,, all they're looking for. Then maybe the people who really are looking for long term wont have to continually weed through the slime.
Your posts are so jaded,it makes me sad to read them. :(