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Msg: 1014
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I just tend to have a lot more in common with the guy who reads comic books and loves Star Wars, rather than the guy who goes to the gym seven days a week and never reads. Oh, and guys with glasses are sexy, imo.
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 1019
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 1/31/2010 1:52:56 AM
Why do any kinds of girls go for any kinds of guys?

Because they like them.

Plus, stunning WOMEN tend to be late bloomers. They're the girls who are smart enough to take care of themselves, and get their education so they make more and can afford good foods to stay slender.

Stupid women may be hot as the sun in high school, but pop out a kid or two with some loser, or gain the freshman 50 by drinking too much.

In my experience, women who get and stay attractive in their late 20s to 40s tends to be a sign of intelligence or good breeding.

THAT'S why stunning women like geeks. The women are geeks too!

I would know - I am a geek. Hell, I have a pic on my profile of being dressed up like a Sith at Dragon*con. Strangely enough, it's a pic with a bunch of female friends.

The more intelligent the girl, the less impressed she is with men who don't read, or can only talk about what's on TV. I feel the same about women. I like talented women with a lot to talk about that's new to me.

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 1022
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 1/31/2010 8:38:49 AM
In the world of being a nerd, one talks and has conversations about many things.
This makes women feel important and valued for their opinion.
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 1024
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Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/7/2010 11:35:00 AM
I think you have it backwards. There are shallow women who go strictly on your looks and there are deep women with whom you cannot possibly communicate. There are many intelligent women on this board and most are beyond shallow except when they want a quicky or one night stand from a studly man.

It's as though an intelligent women can think in extra dimension invisible to the less than average IQ guy.

After the first 10 or 15 minutes of being with someone new, the surface beauty disappears and the underlying person shines through. Many "geeks" are highly intelligent, sensitive to what the other person is saying, understand what is really meant and can have a deep conversation which goes on for hours.

FYI: IRL, looks attract at 50 feet in a bar, but, real long term sexual attraction is between two minds first, bodies second.
Joined: 1/29/2010
Msg: 1028
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/22/2010 4:49:11 PM
Not every guil wants a tool, some girls want someone who is smart, and a guy who knows how to treat a lady.. yet again someone who is good in bed doesn't hurt nether ...
Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 1030
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/22/2010 8:23:06 PM
Maybe those geeks have a ton of money. They are geeks after all therefore in all likelihood very smart. Bill Gates comes to mind. Beaten with an ugly stick and very much a geek yet married to a nice looking woman who probably would not of looked his way if he did not have what he has. Then again maybe the geeks you see with these woman really are great guys and these women are truly in love with them.
Joined: 1/21/2010
Msg: 1031
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/22/2010 8:45:24 PM
I probably don't qualify for stunning, but I do like geeks. I love smarts with a quirky sense of humor that surprises me and challenges me to think of things from a different perspective. A guy who doesn't have much of a filter, who speaks before he thinks, will let you know where you stand. Sometimes "social skills" are overrated.
Joined: 1/15/2009
Msg: 1033
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/23/2010 8:23:56 PM
nothing wrong with being a geek.
just be yourself and be true to yourself and someone will appreciate you for who you are.

i rather date with someone who will treat me with the same respect and kindnss in return. it doesn't matter to me.
Joined: 1/27/2010
Msg: 1034
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/23/2010 10:05:42 PM

This is fiction. Show me one example of this happening in real life and outside of adolescence. I thought it was the 'geeks' who were complaining that women only go out with good looking jocks and players?

Ok we'll leave out the RICH men like Bill Gates and Donald Trump who are both ugly as sin and managed to marry some really beautiful women because'll just claim that they are gold diggers so let's bypass that mess and go on to some celebrity couples who are BOTH making money so we can probably rule out "gold digging" from the equation:

Heidi Klum and Seal....that dude is gross...she is gorgeous...yet they fell in love, got married and started making kids.

Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones...come on seriously? Seems so unlikely, he's so old and I know that he USED to be good looking but he is NOT hot now...she makes her own money and he makes plenty of his we cannot say it's his money she's after...and let's just say for one second that it's the money she's after...why shouldn't she or Heidi be able to get a HOT guy who makes lots of money? They very easily could.

More examples:
Cate Blanchette and Andrew Upton, Julia Roberts and Lyle Lovett, Megan Gale and Andy Lee, Billy Joel and Christie Brinkley, Marilyn Manson and Evan Rachel Wood, DJ Qualls and Nikki Reed, Jack Black and Tanya Hayden...

All examples of the not so attractive with drop dead gorgeous women. It happens in reality.

and in reference to the geeks being the ones to complain about women only going after jocks and players...well...both the OPs assertion and your comment are simply what people to do complain about why THEY aren't getting a has little to do with their postulate being true in any just as to do with why they personally can't seem to get a date with someone they deem attractive. Time to take a good look at one's self and see what the problem might be. Hint: it usually has little to do with how one looks and more to do with attitudes.
Joined: 1/27/2010
Msg: 1040
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/24/2010 8:37:49 AM
Yes those women are rich but so is the husband...if the case is that both the husband and the wife are rolling in dough...why would she not choose another man rolling in dough who is HOT instead of the funky looking dudes that some of them are dating? What makes that guy attractive to her that she would be willing to overlook or totally not regard appearance when both of them are rich and there is a plethora of available hot looking rich men out there? It has to be about something other than money...he makes her laugh? Perhaps she thinks he's less likely to cheat? Or is more humble and less full of himself? I don't know I'm just speculating.

I can't really provide a list of Joe Schmoes that I know where the girl is hot and the guy is not ...cause well, you wouldn't know who the heck I was talking about...but I've seen it happen. Happens a lot in my church actually. Really beautiful women who are with guys who are short and round or balding or geeky nerd boys. I know why they are with these guys and it has nothing to do with money or looks. It's about their spirit. They are looking for a man who is after God's own heart and who walks the walk and talks the talk of a Christian man. These guys aren't chasing after them because of their looks, because they want a hottie arm candy trophy wife...or to just get them into bed....they share the desire to meet a person who worships and believes in the same God and doesn't just go to church but lives their lives according to biblical principals. I know a lot of you think this is crap but I've seen it, I know these people and I get it. It makes perfect sense to me why they are together and why their relationships seem to be working out. It's not based on something as superficial as how the person looks which will change once they start getting older.
Joined: 1/29/2009
Msg: 1041
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/24/2010 9:17:25 AM
Why make the assumption that all geeks are ugly and unattractive? That's really a hurtful stereotype.

It's all about self-confidence. Many of us geeks are good-looking, attractive, intelligent, witty, charming and confident.

Not only do we understand advanced calculus, quantum physics and string theory, but we also sweep the ladies off their feet with ease!

OK, well maybe I'm exaggerating a bit with my analysis but you get the point!
Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 1042
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/24/2010 9:41:25 AM
It isn't just about looks or money. I, like many women, need mental stimulation. The quickest way to get to me is to be intellegent and open-minded. Geeks arent afraid to be themselves and it is refreshing to be around that. To let your hair down and have fun and not worry about what other people think is very liberating and a blast. Also, geeks can be the best lovers. Why? Because they do their research, they know the erogonous zones on a womans body and take their time pleasing a woman. They care about our feelings and arent afraid to open up about themselves. I would take a geek anyday...oh wait...I already did!
Joined: 11/21/2009
Msg: 1043
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/24/2010 9:46:01 AM
Damn lets see, I need to either have lots of money, fast car, big mansion on beach or be a geek. Dang I am screwed I have none of those, no wonder I can't find anyone who even wants to have a conversation LOL I am screwed...
Joined: 1/27/2010
Msg: 1045
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/26/2010 12:15:33 PM

They might care more about a man's income, social status, fame, power etc than his looks. That could be one of the possible reason(s) why their boyfriends are rich or famous. But not overly attractive.

which was my point to begin with...when the playing field regarding MONEY is even....she makes a truckload of money...he makes a truck load of money...then we cannot simply assume that just because the guy is not good looking (by whose standards anyway?) that she is with him simply for his money. There could be OTHER reasons...which is why I am wondering...if she makes a lot of money and there are plenty of SUPER RICH MEN in the dating pool for her to choose from....why go for the "less attractive" guy vs the really hot hunka burning love? Was just pointing out that it's not all about MONEY like some guys and gals) like to assume.

I was also trying to point out that there were plenty of examples of this happening in real life where a prior poster was trying to say this never happens, that the nerdy guys are always complaining that the hot women go for hot guys and they don't have a chance...well yes...that happens too...but to say that hot women never hook up with guys that not what everyone would deem conventionally attractive is just false as we have plenty of examples among celebrities.
Joined: 10/11/2009
Msg: 1048
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/27/2010 2:16:08 AM
I must say, I am impressed. An obvious troll post has over 1000 responses.
Joined: 1/2/2010
Msg: 1050
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/27/2010 9:58:57 AM
sometimes the geeks of this world wind up where they arent seen as real and as to the bank account thought,well, the president of microsoft,bill gates, is laughing all the way to the bank and so is his wife who more than likely,saw what he had as to brains, and figured,better jump him before some other girl does.
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 1051
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 2/27/2010 10:47:58 AM
I read somewhere that women typically date down (in terms of looks) where you'll have a gorgeous woman with an avg looking guy, and apparently the reasoning in a study was that the gorgeous guys are far more prone to cheating, so subconsciously the women pick men who are more likely to appreciate being with someone "better looking" then them, and not as likely to take them for granted. This is usually after they've been with a gorgeous guy and been cheated on themselves.

Granted you've got to have other things going for you, career, hobbies, passions, etc.
Joined: 3/19/2010
Msg: 1053
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/25/2010 5:53:08 AM
I honestly couldn't refer to myself as a "geek". I have been involved with some amazingly beautiful women and I can honestly say, I am not classified as a geek.

Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 1055
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/26/2010 2:54:46 AM

I constantly see tons of the most gorgeous women all with guys that must have been beaten with the ugly stick constantly from birth. Does this mean there are shallow women out there who are just interested in money.

Because they're brilliant, clever, nice and have a big powerful brain which strategically knows how to lure and get what they want.
A big brain to compensate for the lack of muscles
Actually there are a lot of hunky sexy geeks out there too.
you just have to know where to look.

Why arent there any shallow women only interested in sex

you must be blind or something... of course there are women out there only interested in sex just as some men are too.

On topic: Different women are drawn to different kinds of men, for a variety of different's both wrong and inaccurate to make a generalization like the OP does.

Yes exactly... you're judging too quickly
Joined: 11/7/2008
Msg: 1056
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/26/2010 9:51:29 AM

Why do stunning women go for geeks?

'Cause brains are HOT !!!!!!!!!!!
Joined: 1/5/2010
Msg: 1058
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/27/2010 7:58:55 AM
Wow, I'm a complete nerd and have never had this experience? Am I doing something wrong?
Joined: 1/22/2010
Msg: 1059
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 3/27/2010 9:30:03 AM
Well, I'm definitely a techie nerd geek computer guru and I date what many men consider attractive woman. It's just a theory but I think it has something do with "Talking to them"? Not quite sure about this but if I spend a few minutes humoring them and having good conversation most woman will be interested. Furthermore, the upside to conversation is I can learn pretty quickly if she's "psycho girl!"

What works for me is this. I work in tech helping people with their 'puter problems and this affords me all sorts of opportunities to meet people while they're at work. Here's poor distressed Sally, her phacking 'puter is a POS and I get to ride in and rescue the day. Now I'm in Sally's office and I learn what interest her, books on the shelves, pictures on the wall/desk and whatnot. Also, Sally is much more open to conversation and I get to put on my best charm without having to contend with 50 other drunk guys pawing at her.

Now here's the tricky part. I ask Sally if she would like to go out for drinks, or possibly rob a bank? Phew, get past that now I go big and ask her for her phone number! Then I call her. Seems to be working so far..... but then again I to can suffer from an occasional ID 10 T error.

Joined: 10/15/2010
Msg: 1066
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 11/23/2010 11:54:25 AM
Why in the world do geeks go for stunning women? That's the real question here.
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 1068
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 11/23/2010 12:12:53 PM
Quite possibly, the ability to conversate about things NOT related to:
- Sex
- Lifting weights
- How many beers were shotgunned last night
- Slow pitch softball triumphs
- Cars/motorcycles/quads/boats/etc.
- Binge drinking exploits
- Traveling to a beach to binge drink and little else

That's a start, anyone got anything else to ad?

I'm the new-age engineer: mathematical smarts with a jock bod
Nice. I run every morning and lift here and there; then go to work as an engineer where I spend WAY too much time on here. Thankfully, I'm starting a new job soon that will be more interesting than this, the boringest of all engineering jobs EVER!
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 1070
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 11/26/2010 7:42:30 PM
Stunning women go for geeks because they know how to put phasers on stun!

I'm a geek, I've gotten stunning women. I think its the fact they like nice guys who are devoted. Oh and geeks tend to be stable and undramatic, and you won't catch them cheating.

Why does anybody go for anybody?
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