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 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 18
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I played dumb til he hung himself.
It truly is an art :)

From a purely psycho-social view, it fascinates me that grown men (in their 30's, 40's, 50's) who have right on their profile that they're "looking for long-term" who pull this crap with women just don't "get it".....they probably are too dumb to understand why they're still alone at home with just their hand and are likely to stay that-a-way.
Poetic is't it?
 dddiesel
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 19
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 10/4/2011 9:38:27 AM
WOW i can rarely get anyone to chat with me let alone try and talk " porn " lol
 outdoorspassion
Joined: 9/12/2011
Msg: 20
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 10/6/2011 3:08:31 AM
I must be way old fashion or rare then! I can't imagine IM -ing someone with the intent of talking dirty at all? That's just strange in my way of thinking. Someone here said they use IM to get to know more about someone and for myself, that is the whole purpose of using that form of communication.
Ladies, if someone does that to you I can only suggest reporting them to the mods. Guy's, well if that's what gets your day done I think you probably need to get a life...

Persevere ladies, not all us guys are here just to get our jollies or simply to find sex... we may be far and few but some are actually here to meet a nice lady and see where it goes.
 earthboundangel67
Joined: 9/2/2011
Msg: 21
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 10/7/2011 10:43:39 PM
thanks for reassuring us outdoorspassion , I want to believe there are nice, honest guys still around....but they are definitely far & few between....have met the odd one....but, as we know, block & delete is our friend for those times that are needed.....I too think IM could be a much more useful tool for those wanting to actually chat and getting to know the other person.....but, since there are some real twits, tend to keep mine turned off now.....same with restrictions up the wazoo! just weeds out the ones who arent really interested or all that interesting....jmho.....if you cant communicate at least a little bit by a few intelligent emails back and forth....move on....next is my favorite word!
 knoworries
Joined: 7/19/2011
Msg: 22
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 11/4/2011 10:39:48 PM
IM?

What's that?



Honestly, I'm with 'outdoorpassion'

... not that I'm really here that often (for example, this is my first time back in the forums since they re-hosted the link after removing it when the site was updated some time ago).
 funansassy
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 23
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 11/6/2011 11:53:43 PM
Can someone point me to the chat thing please....and where does one see it?....I have a few names in green and red lit up above my inbox.....Then a whole couple of rows of pictures above that with chat underneath them..
 moonox
Joined: 1/22/2010
Msg: 24
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When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 11/29/2011 7:31:15 PM
I myself haven't experienced any "porn" chat on this plenty of fish thing.
However I have heard a bunch of "corn" chat.
Who knew vegetable garden talk was so big with the fairer sex?
 a_lonewolf
Joined: 5/21/2010
Msg: 25
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 11/30/2011 9:20:18 PM

When did 'chat' become porn talk here?

About the same time when highspeed was available to the average joe. After all, how exciting did you find it when (during old dial up) dialog was the following....
~her~ hi :)
~him~ wow!! I want to............. {loading}............. and ...........{loading}.......... all over ........
 shinebrightforever
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 26
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 12/3/2011 10:03:18 AM
lots of losers on here who want to treat women like that.
block them, simple as that :)
 JoLovesDogs
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 27
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 12/4/2011 6:44:26 PM
I'm just going to turn mine off too. So many men with no photos, and they have nothing useful to say...

"hi how r u? u r hot wanna massage?"

Yea I am sitting here at the edge of my chair waiting for some random guy to message me with such an amazing offer!!!

 JoLovesDogs
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 28
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 12/5/2011 4:55:06 PM
Just had a chat request sent to me SIX times (from the same guy) while I was trying to find out how to shut off my IM. Six times I had to decline the chat! Anyway I found it (thank GOD)
 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 29
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 12/30/2011 1:16:51 PM
Good Point.....
 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 30
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 12/30/2011 1:17:42 PM
LOL, good answer.
 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 31
When did 'chat' become porn talk here?
Posted: 12/30/2011 1:20:03 PM
k, that being said,,,,,wanna talk dirty,,,,lol
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