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 mddog
Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 77
Bed Jumpers over Girls with MoralsPage 7 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)
that might not be why they get sick of you .......just saying ....
 picmenc
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 80
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Posted: 9/12/2011 6:43:22 AM
Mature guys are not the same !
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 82
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Posted: 9/12/2011 3:32:05 PM

Mature guys are not the same !


really???

then why did someone only 1 year younger than you say the above ^^^^^ ???



i've had more rude, crude and raunchy emails from men in their 40s, 50s and 60s than the 20- and 30-somethings during those times when my age restrictions were off.
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 9/17/2011 11:35:24 PM
I like jumping on beds
OOPS wrong thread
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 88
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Posted: 9/17/2011 11:39:04 PM
Ok on a serious note:
If a man is not willing to wait he will find what he seeks.
I feel there are plenty of men with just as strong morals and wouldn't bat an eye at the thought!
Stay true to yourself.
 muckball81
Joined: 1/21/2011
Msg: 91
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Posted: 9/18/2011 12:09:14 PM
you have an intersting profile
but pic's are worth a thousand words....
what do your pics say about your intentions???
 Doxiegirl
Joined: 12/3/2006
Msg: 92
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Posted: 9/18/2011 12:17:22 PM
I'm with you, stick to your morals.....you'll be free of low self-esteem, jerks and stds.
 romeoproductionz
Joined: 8/9/2011
Msg: 97
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Posted: 9/19/2011 7:41:15 PM
@ poster

I mean really the real is this...those guys dont see you as worth waiting for...But if you were a super model that same guy would wait...

as a man when i see a woman 87% of the time the most i'd want from you is sex, or head..Other then that what do i need you for? I mean i make my own money buy my own stuff so all you can offer me is sex..If i wanna do the love crap i do it with a dream girl..not a basic chick...so theres a 100% real answer

now i know some guys here will bash me or say im not like that...chances are they are not that cute and cant get the super model type of women...Now im not saying all guys just want sex...but i am giving u a answer to ur question in a blunt honest way
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 99
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Posted: 9/20/2011 10:09:38 AM

Employees at Walmart will tell you that the restrooms in the back of the store are always cleaner than the restroooms in the front of the store, less people use them.


not if the ones at the front have *just* been cleaned and the ones at the back haven't been for an hour, or more ? has to be some point in time when the front ones are cleaner?
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 100
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Posted: 9/20/2011 10:10:49 AM

Employees at Walmart will tell you that the restrooms in the back of the store are always cleaner than the restroooms in the front of the store, less people use them.


not if the ones at the front have *just* been cleaned and the ones at the back haven't been for an hour, or more ? has to be some point in time when the front ones are cleaner?

analogy: some people may have sex with multiple partners and be very *CAREFUL* ..because they acknowledge 'risk'..while some monogamous ones may not..because they THINK they "know" their partner is monogamous..and s/he may NOT be..
 kasandroid
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 9/20/2011 11:57:38 PM
BOOOOOOOOO what a bunch of haters.

It's just page after page of Bullies on these forums, so she offended you, BIG FAT DEAL, now go reread all your own posts where you offended her, are you any better? Then you gotta all come back and recap again with your BULLY boring drivel just so YOUR RIGHT and once again she can be in the wrong..............HOLY IS THIS A COURTROOM? You all a bunch of lawyers or what?



Give it up, she's 21, you never said the wrong things at 21? You were all perfect at 21 were you?

I tell ya, if a 21 WHO DRESSES LIKE EVERY 21YR OLD WHO HAD THE GREAT MISFORTUNE OF BRITNEY SPEARS and other GREAT INSPIRATIONS teaching her how to dress; upsets you so much with her 21 year old judgements on morals, well BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO get some help now.

AND APPLAUSE FOR 21 year old with a BRAIN who hasn't POPPED OUT A BUNCH OF BABIES YET.

What a bunch of CHERRYPICKERS around here.

CHILL BILL AND JILL

 musicmaker003
Joined: 4/25/2011
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Posted: 9/21/2011 8:02:48 PM
I disagree. So does wearing a bikini at the beach tell a guy you want to sleep with him? Tell me what the difference is between what you wear at the beach and what you wear in the streets? Location. That's it! If she wore what she is wearing in her pictures at the beach people would think she was crazy and had too many clothes on and if she did the opposite people would think she was a slut for walking the streets in her bikini. It is the mentality of the man who ASSUMES she is willing to lay down for him because she is showing cleavage or her ass. This is the only country were showing skin is grounds for rape and other male atrocities! Men will be men no matter what we wear. Some think girls with tight jeans is an invitation or ball gown. Like is said it's the mentality of the man. They'd probably hump a dog if she looked appealing enough.
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 124
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Posted: 9/23/2011 12:27:57 PM
^^ what about women who want that? let's not be totally sexist here & pretend that men are all "one way" & women are 'the opposite' ?

females today are much more sexually liberated & demanding, it is more common for them to 'demand' sex from dates or b/f's and the guy to decline
 PurposedWomen
Joined: 7/10/2011
Msg: 125
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Posted: 9/23/2011 4:27:47 PM
Thanks for the response, because I was wondering what is going on with men today. It seems they want to have sex and make out as soon as they meet you. Then they try make you feel like you have problem if say HECK NAW!
 PurposedWomen
Joined: 7/10/2011
Msg: 126
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Posted: 9/23/2011 4:30:44 PM
I wish it was as easy as reading the profile : -) Maybe, I should start making announcement we can meet, but PLEASE NOTE THERE WILL BE NO SEX. It is funny because there is nothing in my profile that reads I want to sleep and make out with you on a first date.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
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Posted: 9/23/2011 5:31:24 PM

I have a buddy who has complained about that for the last couple of years. He's a great guy, retired early with money and property. He's got the looks and the personality. He has turned a few down already because he simply felt that if they'd boink him on the first date, they'd probably done it with numerous other guys and he's not desperate enough to just fcuk them simply because they're available...


I wanted to comment on this earlier Mr. Church? If I may? At our age, if one was to meet someone whom you say is handsome with a lot on the ball, perhaps ladies do wish to offer up their "goods" so to speak. It doesn't necessarily mean they do it for all? And I guess I don't mean boink on first date but hint at it down the road? God, dating is so much more difficult now than it was way back then! lol...I just think your friend, should he meet someone he thinks he likes, and if she is willing, hold her off and then make a move? He could be passing up someone really great? jmho
 BigJ_78
Joined: 2/15/2011
Msg: 128
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Posted: 9/24/2011 4:21:46 AM
I think the debate on this topic is somewhat misguided, as it relates to POF, ...Online dating is a lot different than old -fashioned dating..

A lot of times, when I meet a women from online, we will have talked for maybe a week or two, if not more, online, before we are able to schedule a meet.... in chat, on the phone and through texting..We've seen each others pics and have a good idea of what each others personalities are... I'm a highly sexual & flirtatious type of man, so usually the flirting and sexual talk gets ramped up to a fever pitch before we even meet...often, a few non-POF type pics are even exchanged, if you get what I'm saying, lol...

SO yeah, by the time we meet , both of us are pretty sexually charged, .....and sometimes, yes we wind up doing the deed that same night, because that "first date", really isnt even like a first date at that point, after all the time we've spent talking and getting each other worked up....
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 9/24/2011 6:22:00 AM

At our age, if one was to meet someone whom you say is handsome with a lot on the ball, perhaps ladies do wish to offer up their "goods" so to speak. It doesn't necessarily mean they do it for all? And I guess I don't mean boink on first date but hint at it down the road?


I have turned down sex from a woman I briefly met, and suffered the wrath of a crazy.
That was one of the reasons why I turned down the sex..my gut instinct told me.."wait, something isn't right here". I wasn't wrong.

And, I truly believe that if two sane, consent adults want to get it on after the first, third, sixth date..have at it. It does NOT reflect that someone is easy, someone is a tramp. Or that someone has low morals..it simply means that the two people connected.
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 131
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Posted: 9/24/2011 10:14:18 AM

) Maybe, I should start making announcement we can meet, but PLEASE NOTE THERE WILL BE NO SEX.


funny thing is, most women who make that pronouncement really early on.. WANT to get jiggy on the first date.

watch what they DO................ NOT what they SAY
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 9/26/2011 6:30:09 PM
omigawd! she's got a 3rd screen name with an X in it AND she's back to the pics showing her boobs off!



[sarcasm on]yep, she really was willing to learn...[/sarcasm off]
 CnstrcnGuy
Joined: 1/29/2010
Msg: 141
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Posted: 9/27/2011 11:14:19 AM
If he's really into you he will wait......TRUST ME. if he needs it that bad and he has the option, he will get a booty call till your ready.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 9/27/2011 4:47:27 PM
now, now, JCO, don't you know that's "stalking" her and "following her every move"?



somehow i am not surprized that she doesn't realize what stalking really is...


make comments critisizing the question


i did.

you didn't like it. too freaking bad, eh?

as for not criticizing you... YOU are the one suggesting that other people don't have morals when they have sex on their timetable instead of the one you set for yourself. that's pretty damn critical AND hypocritical of you.

so what happened to not wanting your boss to see your profile with your boobs hanging out?

 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 145
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Posted: 10/2/2011 2:50:34 PM
I have to say...some of the men in here say we have to have sex with them on the second date? Really? I will pay for my own dinner/drinks and keep myself to myself tyvm! I don't appreciate a man putting a "timeline" on when I am supposed to have sex with him. What an emotionally immature attitude. If two people meet and the connection is there, "charged" so to speak, whatever happens happens. I don't hold out the golden couchie so to speak, but will do if a man comes across with his demands....
 henley2011
Joined: 9/17/2011
Msg: 146
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Posted: 10/4/2011 2:56:07 PM
I bet they stay in the health clinics. people have forgotten about std's. They think condoms protect them from everything but they don't. I laugh at men like that because i know that they will soon get an std or hiv for dealing with bed jumpers instead of women with morals.
 milehiguy12
Joined: 5/9/2012
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Posted: 5/15/2012 4:52:10 PM
I'm sure this discussion has been carried out since the time of the caveman. Look at any time in history and there have been women interested in enjoying their sexuality and others claiming they were immoral because of it. To me it comes down to you and what you want. Do you want to express yourself sexually with willing partners or do you want to wait for your right moment. The choice is yours and only yours and there is no wrong choice.
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