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 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 76
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he laid pipe
ditch the bi@tch, she is already shopping else where.
and she will do it again - maybe not with this guy, maybe not with your neighbor, but soon and for the rest of any life you plan with her - your days of tappin that are now shared.
 AustinWriter87
Joined: 7/13/2011
Msg: 77
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If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/15/2011 8:29:44 AM
First off, unless you heard she's in the hospital or very hurt, NEVER call ten times. Geez. I would have cut you just for that, I've had my fair share of phone stalkers. Other than that, she obviously hooked up with him. Take it from a woman, we won't go out of our way to see you unless we really like you and there's something in it for us-I have old friends that have come into town before and drove that long, but he's gay and one of my best friends in the world. That's about it.

If they have had sex before, and, Lord forbid it's true, she got drunk around him and he got drunk too, good luck keeping them out of each others pants. She obviously had this prearranged too. I'm in school with a 4.0 but I don't push my friends away just so that I can study that week. That's lame. I get all my studying done during the day, and when I'm done, I go hang out.
 tfortune
Joined: 3/8/2011
Msg: 78
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If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/15/2011 9:22:47 AM
Sorry, But, it seems like you will always have issues with her. Dump her and find some one real. I do think she did him.
 home_osorio
Joined: 2/12/2011
Msg: 79
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/15/2011 10:38:10 AM
Yep, she had sex with that guy. Who can not succumb to that type of situation? No one can.
 Ptolemoe
Joined: 2/20/2011
Msg: 80
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/15/2011 10:45:26 AM
something happened. pack your bags dude!
 Pete2205
Joined: 3/18/2011
Msg: 82
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If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/18/2011 4:05:00 PM
Well its now over a month since Polar posted his thread ------ I wonder how its going....Or if its gone?

Will we ever know? ...Has he followed her or did she come back..Has she missed him dreadfully and come running back or has he or she or both found someone else ....?
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 83
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/18/2011 6:22:36 PM
He' probably jumpin between bangin her on a few days,and lying to her to go off to bang some other girl in some other town on the off days, and figuring out what to screw when she feeds him a line to go screw the ex again on the day when out of town girl isnt available.

Call it a 'puttin the pony out to pasture' day?



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Let's hope he doesnt show up on the "paternity testing" forum soon.



He'll be ok
 cin____dy
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 84
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/18/2011 8:31:53 PM
Oh come on!! You really need anyone to answer that? Women have been hearing those things for years. She did it and had sex with him. Come on.!!
 CrazyCanuckz
Joined: 10/8/2011
Msg: 85
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/18/2011 8:43:00 PM
Come on people the OP is gone. Account is closed.
 kcladyz
Joined: 8/7/2009
Msg: 86
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/19/2011 5:09:23 PM
Well i am still close friends with one of my ex's and i will not sleep with him if i am in a relationship with someone else so you never know what the truth is really. She could have spent the night due to being too drunk to drive.
 film101
Joined: 1/28/2011
Msg: 87
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If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/20/2011 4:27:23 PM
I was in a similar situation with a woman I met on this site. She begged and pleaded, nothing happened, this, that, and the third. However, I never fell for any of her bull shit, I simply stuck to my guns and kicked her sorry ass to the curb. Whether something happened or not was not the point. Once I do not trust you, there is no need for me to stick around unless, I just wanna get some and use it for that. What she did not expect is that I KNEW, and she also did not expect for me to to stick to my guns. It was actually kind of funny to see her texts and hear her whack messages while she did her version of high tech groveling...But the point is my friend, stick to your guns, just the kick the BAG to the curb, you will feel better about it.

Once trust is gone, there is coming back from that. You will never see her the same, and one day(like someone else posted), you will throw it right back in her face and develop a disdain for her which cannot be hidden. Trust me...

RUN FORREST RUN!!!!!!!!!
 SharkByte81
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 88
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/20/2011 6:14:55 PM
Many, many, many years ago (2000ish?) I dated this girl named, well, we'll call her Beth. We dated for about 2 months and it was fun. Beth was a raging Nymphomaniac. She HAD to have it. It was every morning before work, then we'd come home from work for lunch and have sex again. Immediately after work it was in the house strait to the bedroom and we'd go until we fell asleep. Believe it or not, you CAN have to much of a good thing. After about two months we didn't really break up because we were still friends but we both started seeing other people and we stopped having sex with each other. About a year later my roommate decides he's going to propose to his girlfriend and asks if I wouldn't mind crashing at someones house that night so they could have the whole place to themselves.

I wasn't seeing anyone at that time and I hadn't seen Beth in quite a while so I bumped into her at work, mentioned that I needed a place to crash that night because my roommate wanted the house to himself to propose to his girlfriend and she politely suggested that I should crash at her house. She told me to come over around 10pm because she had a date that night with this guy she had been trying to get to pay attention to her for a few months but knowing him, she figured she'd be home by 9pm... At 10pm I knocked on her door, she let me in and as I was walking in her date was walking out. I made some kind of comment like "Thanks, I appreciate you letting me crash on your couch tonight" or something like that which definitely made him seem to feel better. He was probably one of the most socially retarded people I have ever met. His complete and total awkwardness was what drew her to him. She wanted to "fix him" As soon as he was out the door and it closed behind him she was pulling me into the bedroom talking about how she had been thinking about me all day and it was driving her crazy. That night was probably one of the hottest nights I ever spent with her.

In the case of the OP's post, I would assume the same thing happened. If you are ok with her shagging past boyfriends once in a while, you trust her and every partner she has ever had and really don't believe she's going to give you the Gyno-encephalital Herp-a-clap then by all means, stay with her and live happy in blissful ignorance. If you are really afraid she did something like that and you are not ok with it then I'd dump her like a bad habit.
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 89
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/21/2011 2:10:49 PM
God; I hope she showered first



Cause ya just never know......


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 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 90
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If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/21/2011 2:23:18 PM
An other one bites the dust now I have no closer...

YES the answer is Yes...op where did you go I need to know.
 kailania
Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 91
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/22/2011 3:39:59 PM
isnt there anything to life other than sex?
hasnt anyone ever spent the night with an ex and slept on the couch?
the thing here is that she lied.
 sbnnpro
Joined: 6/19/2011
Msg: 92
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/22/2011 3:59:46 PM
i think she did him and lied to uAhhhh girls ...
 joethebull
Joined: 5/29/2009
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If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/22/2011 8:26:28 PM
I would say she did him.. :(
 NobadeeFTW
Joined: 10/20/2011
Msg: 94
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 10/23/2011 10:49:47 AM
I'm in agreement with others on here, she went for the booty call. This doesn't mean don't trust women; just that should proceed with caution in the future. Most people put on a display of red flags long before they actually do something to violate your trust, you just have to take the love goggles off for a second and pay attention to the little details.
 allintime1987
Joined: 9/14/2010
Msg: 95
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 11/22/2011 11:20:09 AM
OMG my skank radar just went off in case you didn't know all girls have this, denial is not a sexy quality to have
 Blah_User_Name
Joined: 8/27/2011
Msg: 96
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 11/22/2011 11:37:17 AM
My gut reaction is you think she slept with him but you KNOW she lied.

Don't let her drag you down. You cannot build a relationship without trust. Trust is the very foundation of a relationship. Even if you can forgive her, you will never fully trust her again. Why choose that for yourself ?
 Bkrast
Joined: 2/9/2011
Msg: 97
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 11/22/2011 12:01:42 PM
My first impression was "Damn that is one long run-on sentence" . Then I thought maybe he should trade in a few commas for a period or two. Finally, I thought he probably drove her to a flight response.
 DrumminD
Joined: 2/3/2011
Msg: 98
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 11/22/2011 3:34:37 PM
Ask her if they did it. If she says "yes," say "You're done," and walk out and don't talk to her for at least a month. If she says "no," press her on it, and if it still seems a lil shady, break it off easy and say something like "I just don't feel I can trust you." She'll come back fast if she means it.
 cutenperky2
Joined: 8/2/2011
Msg: 99
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 11/22/2011 4:12:00 PM
Do you really need to have someone tell you what happened inside you know
 sensualsandie
Joined: 11/19/2011
Msg: 100
If you were dating a woman and this happened
Posted: 11/23/2011 12:32:33 AM
She may just want more sex or different.....Seeing if there any spark from the old relationship....etc.... After all divorced couples get it on all the time.. It is kind of illicit and naughty and adds excitement.... After all men do this kind of thing all the time. So why not women..... She is still attracted to him obviously and now that trust is gone I would be dumping her. Up to you though...
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