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 CynM
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 51
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I prefer to not be distracted by fondling (or TV, or the smell of chicken wings).
But I like having my hair stroked, and listening to music - neither is distracting.
LOVE to have him watch me. Also moans, or directions, or any verbal indication he's enjoying it are real turns on for me and likely to extend play time.
 granolamartha
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 52
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Posted: 9/27/2011 3:35:09 PM
When I was young, I did it because I liked/loved the guy, not because I liked it. Long time inbetween, LTR with a woman and then finally I was with a man again. It had been 11 YEARS since I'd been with a man and boy did I change my tune. I worshipped his thing, couldn't get enough of it. It surprised me more than it surprised him. Now I think it's awesome. By all means, put your hands in my hair and be vocal but don't grope me; I want to focus on the sweet task at hand.
 garterfreak
Joined: 3/1/2011
Msg: 53
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Posted: 9/28/2011 3:16:09 PM
SexyPunkGirl..... you hit the nail on the head! I believe that is why woman whom I given oral too haved raved. If you love something it's easy to be great at it!!!!
 cin____dy
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 54
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Posted: 9/28/2011 11:27:26 PM
He should relax and enjoy--I think guys think they have to do something for the woman in order to keep her continuing. NO just relax and enjoy, that is usually something a woman will get aroused over all on it's own.
 its_me_J
Joined: 1/1/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 9/30/2011 10:39:55 AM

But every woman I've ever run into really hates it when you start caressing her nipples then start poking them in and saying "meep meep."
Or "Milk milk, lemonade, turn the corner fudge is made, stick your finger in the hole, now you've got a tootsie roll, want a bite?" while waving your thumb under their nose.


I remember you...
 thizz_man
Joined: 6/8/2011
Msg: 56
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Posted: 9/30/2011 8:18:52 PM
Wow your my kinda woman sweetheart
 thizz_man
Joined: 6/8/2011
Msg: 57
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Posted: 9/30/2011 8:20:35 PM
Gorgeous and naughty I love that wish it was me you was talking about :-)
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 58
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Posted: 10/2/2011 3:37:25 PM
I'm new to the forums and enjoy reading them, and in turn I do read and pay attention to what women want, I think any smart man would if he wants to continue recieving anyway. Theres some mixed opinions on weather women liked being touched or don't during and as always it does depend on the individual woman. I just usually lay back and enjoy the moment, If I'm getting one that's making my eyes pop out I usually reach my hands back and squeeze the pillow. Now if it's a 69 different story, I think rubbing or grabbing her ass would be ok, I usually do but if it's just a BJ I usually keep my hands to myself let her do her thing.
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 60
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Posted: 10/24/2011 8:05:17 AM

I agree with LeoBorn, definitely enjoy giving probably more than receiving, (I know its crazy, but i do), 69 or whatever. Not a quicky either, take your time, I mean chew your food and enjoy it, well so to speak, lol.


do you yourself with another guy? or? the pics on your profile look like an ad for gay male dance revue I saw on a poster once downtown
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 61
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Posted: 10/24/2011 8:05:59 AM

I agree with LeoBorn, definitely enjoy giving probably more than receiving, (I know its crazy, but i do), 69 or whatever. Not a quicky either, take your time, I mean chew your food and enjoy it, well so to speak, lol.


do you yourself with another guy? or? the pics on your profile look like an ad for gay male dance revue I saw on a poster once downtown. probably can't enjoy receiving due to testicular shrinkage from steroid abuse?
 bogan58
Joined: 12/30/2012
Msg: 62
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Posted: 2/15/2013 4:38:22 PM
kaylie is a hotti
 jbond35
Joined: 3/28/2012
Msg: 63
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Posted: 2/15/2013 10:09:55 PM
its not all that great lol jk
Im a giver i love givin oral just pleasin my partner period, if she enjoys herself i enjoy it more. As far as 69 yea its ok but if she is doing good i cant take care of her as good cause ill be stoping do to the fact im enjoyin to much. The hole foreplay thing is awsome imo exspecaily before u go down on her, u dont just stick ur face between her legs to me its all about the affection u start at the top an work ur way there. Its called specail attention for a reason ;) jus my 2 pennys
 demux21
Joined: 1/7/2013
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Posted: 2/15/2013 11:00:08 PM
Makes sence to me. Let the lady deliver what she intends to deliver. If you distract her with feelings that allow her to be selfish, that is your fault not hers.
 passion2pleaseaz
Joined: 8/23/2012
Msg: 65
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Posted: 2/15/2013 11:21:38 PM
is giving head really the right term?

how about taking head

a blow job is not the right term blowing does nothing for me

how about suck job

LOL
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 66
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Posted: 2/16/2013 7:36:20 PM
I'm sure I'm not the only fellow reading thru this post with only one hand on the keyboard :) I think I just fell in love a few times back on page one...

I'm also a tad disheartened some ladies would prefer not to be distracted by touching. Myself personally, my mind tends to wander if I'm just lying there (not the ladies' fault, my mind perfers to keep busy). While my first response would be, "anticipatory foreplay is as fun as the orgasm", I can understand a poor lady's jaw might get sore...
 Hamilton12345
Joined: 3/29/2012
Msg: 67
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Posted: 2/16/2013 8:00:39 PM

I'm also a tad disheartened some ladies would prefer not to be distracted by touching


I find it a little too distracting. Touching or tugging my hair is one thing, but touching other than that tends to distract me from what I am doing. I find the competing sensations too much to handle and get overwhelmed.
 mike.s2012
Joined: 1/2/2013
Msg: 68
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Posted: 2/17/2013 12:12:13 AM
I think it works to change it up. Sometimes I like to finger her while she does it, as having us both cum at the same time is very hot. But other times just laying back and enjoying it is nice too.
 dartmouthjames
Joined: 12/15/2012
Msg: 69
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Posted: 2/17/2013 8:01:00 AM
This is probably one of the most useful threads I've seen on this site. I'll be sure not to distract future ladies.
 lovablehugable58
Joined: 12/14/2009
Msg: 70
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Posted: 2/17/2013 8:21:31 AM
just dont distract me,i cud be fatal lol
 Aintnothang__
Joined: 2/12/2013
Msg: 71
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Posted: 2/17/2013 10:56:18 AM
Depends on the day and on my mood! I like getting my partner off randomly without being touched and other times I like to be touched as much as I'm touching. How that for a non-committal answer for ya?
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 72
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Posted: 2/17/2013 11:24:52 AM
i like to get between his legs and go down on him so that he can watch me live porn lol
 B-Right01
Joined: 12/7/2012
Msg: 73
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Posted: 8/28/2013 2:58:48 PM
why not at the same time? i say :P
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 74
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Posted: 8/28/2013 8:04:06 PM
This is why I've ne er cared for 69. Both partners miss out x2! You can't relax and enjoy what's being done to you nor can you give your partner full attention. As part of foreplay 69 and/or caressing during oral works fine.
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Posted: 8/28/2013 9:38:07 PM
What a funny thread. I thought women claimed to be better multi-taskers? A lot of posts state that a woman is so easily distracted by any touch when going down. Gee wiz. One track mind? I didn't know that it took so much concentration, that it was so hard. Pat your head and rub your belly at the same time, you can do it. How does this translate to me touching a woman here or there while she's riding? Does it distract her so much then also? This seems more realistic to me -

Personally, can't stand when a guy just wants to lay there and do NOTHING. Make some noise, say something, grab my hair, and more. That's how I know I'm doing it right and it turns me on. I will get bored FAST if he is not reacting in some way!

And that's how I almost demand that a woman be If I'm down on her - she needs to 'take' it from me as much as 'receive' it. Playing dead and just receiving while doing nothing makes it sound like a 'job' that she's performing, instead of something fun and interactive that they share together. Being distracted so easily like this makes it sound like someone's just in the completely wrong mindset, showing a lack of connection and intimacy.
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