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 CBGB77
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Posted By: Soulmate.. on 4/20/2018 841 AM
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Message: Well, you are half right. I am 70 years old and I have been dating the same woman for 3 years. We met on a dating site. We got laid on the second date and it was a blast. I was an old geezer trying to get laid. She was my 32nd meet up date. After a while sex at this age is not as important as you may think but many older men have not been anywhere near an intimate relationship in many years. There are quite a few women older than 55 years old who are not interested in sex ever again. That is a problem for all of us older men. Intimacy and sex are real issues and if sex is important or not important to either party that issue needs to be addressed early on in the geriatric dating world. Sex is a given for younger people so everything else is simply foreplay. It is a very different game for us. Many times much effort may be expended on foreplay only to find out that the foreplay never ends! I have several geriatric female friends, married and not married, who never want to have sex again. Blah! My two cents worth.


Thanks Soulmate,you hit the nail right on the head. That is the one thing I like about Okay C***D. They have those questions for people to fill out on their profile that lets you know where they are at with sexuality.
 Cryptofabulous
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Posted: 4/20/2018 9:36:44 AM

Thanks Soulmate,you hit the nail right on the head. That is the one thing I like about Okay C***D. They have those questions for people to fill out on their profile that lets you know where they are at with sexuality.


Agree with you CBGB and Soulmate...

Some women have put themselves "out to pasture" once they hit their 50's...
... and they're looking for men that have "retired" from sexuality like they have.

I can say I'm NOT going to be a good match for her... LOL
 MsMicki
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Posted: 4/20/2018 1:49:34 PM
Funny.....a few years ago when I was actually single and looking....I was having the problem of finding a man my age that still enjoyed sex more than once a month! LOL

I had no desire to date younger....still don't for that matter.....because I truly believe that "mature" sex is the best sex I've ever had!!
Luckily, me at 55 and my guy at 61, share the same sex drive and love for the journey of sex ... I think at this age we tend to enjoy the slow, Sunday drive kind of sex where the destination isn't as important as the ride there!!
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 4/20/2018 9:49:23 PM
MsMicki, I'll never forget my gf telling me she had to "work" on a guy that was only in his later 50s. It sounded horrible. An older guy better offer something more than sex. They better have excellent personalities☺
 MsMicki
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Posted: 4/21/2018 5:13:05 AM
I assume by "work" on a guy.....she meant it took some effort to get him hard - or get him off.
Geez.....men having been working hard to get women in the mood and get them off most their lives!!

Big difference between a man that has no interest....and a man that just needs some extra attention!!

It's just part of the aging process, things don't just spring to life as fast as they used to (for some, not all, guys).
I just keep the mind frame that is is a challenge....instead of an obstacle!!

And guess what....they tend to not get off as quickly....which should thrill you instead of frustrate you!!
B!tch half your lives they cum to quick....then b!tch that they don't!!
No wonder men find women brutal!!

I will stick with my age group - I just relate better with someone that has been through as much life as me....
if we have to put a little extra effort into our recreational activities...then that is part of it. (Besides, there is a little blue pill that works wonders)
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 4/21/2018 7:51:53 AM
If she was in a relationship with the guy where things waned, that's one thing, but it was basically a bad one night stand. She was in her 20s, and never encountered or knew about aging penises. I agree, though. It's just part of the aging process and should be expected and accepted.
 ohenryx
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Posted: 4/21/2018 6:51:42 PM

CBGB77
That is the one thing I like about Okay C***D. They have those questions for people to fill out on their profile that lets you know where they are at with sexuality.

For any woman who has answered a few hundred questions, you can get a really good feel of whether you’re likely to get along. A woman messaged me on Ok*Cupid yesterday, said she was going out dancing last night and I should meet her at the place she was going with her girl friend.

I looked at her profile, and a few of her answers, sorted by what is important to me. Her profile states very loudly and clearly, “No casual sex” and her answers reveal that she thinks “evolution should not be taught in schools”. So no casual sex, and zero chance of a long term relationship, swipe left!

And on top of that, to add insult to injury, the joint she wanted me to meet her at is C&W!!! The horror of it all!!!

But I was polite, I responded,


Thanks for the message, it’s always nice to hear from someone.

I’m afraid we’re not a match, but good luck in your search.

I really really do like it when women have the nerve to send an initial message, and I want to encourage any woman who does so.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 4/23/2018 5:23:53 PM
This week I had a beautiful woman the same age as me sent me a message which read in part "anyone who likes the Replacements, Robert Johnson and Mozart can come sit next to me." Have a date to meet her tomorrow. Can't hardly wait!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wigclcg3stc
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 4/25/2018 11:28:42 PM
CBGB, what happened with that other woman you had been dating? How did the date go with this new woman?
 Braylen99
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Posted: 4/26/2018 7:39:25 AM
Lol, a woman once messaged me inviting me to join her and her girlfriends dancing.

I asked her how she would introduce me to her friends.

No answer, lol

‘This is Danny Doormat from Betamale dot com. He’s going to buy our drinks tonight because he’s desperate for female attention’

Uh, i dont think so
 browneyesboo
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Posted: 4/26/2018 7:47:20 AM

Lol, a woman once messaged me inviting me to join her and her girlfriends dancing.

I asked her how she would introduce me to her friends.


Wouldn't she just introduce you by your name?

I don't really see anything nefarious about this?
Unless you are just expecting the worst?
 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
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Posted: 4/26/2018 8:51:48 AM
the only oddness I see is, why would someone contact a stranger and ask the stranger to come out with their friends? maybe the friends are lame, maybe they indeed want Danny D. Doormat. on the flip side, if the cover charge wasn't outrageous, going might just be interesting. Its an excuse to be someplace, rather than going there alone and standing out as Lonely Dude With No Friends. maybe one of the friends would turn out to be interesting...or have a single sister who is.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 4/26/2018 9:49:34 AM

Posted By: Newyorker58 on 4/26/2018 142 AM
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Message: CBGB, what happened with that other woman you had been dating? How did the date go with this new woman?


Thanks for asking Newyorker58, I have a date with the other woman(Cat Woman) tomorrow,we are going to go for a walk in a big park near where she lives an then have dinner at an organic restaurant that is nearby.

My date with the new woman went really well.She is really nice and we have alot of interests in common. All though she is smaller than me she could probably take me in a fight:Her hobbies are kick boxing and yoga. She knows karate too but broke her hand befor she got her black belt so she gave that up.

We met at a coffee shop inside a Barnes and Noble bookstore and ended up talking for 4 1/2 hours. I could tell that we had "chemistry".I was a little awkward when I walked her to her car to say good night.I leaned in for a hug I was expecting her turn her head like the other woman does but she didn't. I guess she was confused as to whether I wanted to kiss or hug and she seemed to be open to either.

I feel a little weird dating both of them at the same time but figure it is ok since I haven't even kissed either of them yet.
 Cryptofabulous
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Posted: 4/26/2018 1:47:35 PM
^^^ Sounds great CBGB77
When it rains, it pours!! LOL
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 4/26/2018 5:20:33 PM
CBGB, look at you juggling women! Sounds like it was a really good date. The upcoming date sounds good too.

Yeah, there's always that awkward end of the date scenario. So now you know what date #2 is ready for. Date #1 is also. I think she may be ready to skip to sex.

It always seems that more women show up after someone starts dating.
 Cryptofabulous
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Posted: 4/27/2018 12:11:27 AM

Funny.....a few years ago when I was actually single and looking....
I was having the problem of finding a man my age that still enjoyed sex more than once a month! LOL


There has to be a way to corral the born again virgins together with the monks... LOL

For every woman who was singing praises that "Viagra saved our marriage/sex life"
there was another grumbling "damn Viagra - he wants to have sex now!"
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 4/27/2018 12:32:00 AM
When people are aging and sex drives may be declining, men taking Viagra late in life will make them predators. Of course pharmaceutical companies want to say everyone is dysfunctional, so they can sell them drugs. If I was in a relationship with a guy that was slowing down, I'd accept it, and not want him to take harmful drugs.
 Braylen99
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Posted: 4/27/2018 7:41:07 AM
I bet you have strong jaws New Yorker! Your boyfriend is one lucky fellow.
 CBGB77
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Posted By: Newyorker58 on 4/26/2018 733 PM
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Message: CBGB, look at you juggling women! Sounds like it was a really good date. The upcoming date sounds good too.

Yeah, there's always that awkward end of the date scenario. So now you know what date #2 is ready for. Date #1 is also. I think she may be ready to skip to sex.

It always seems that more women show up after someone starts dating.


It's weird tho because I kinda want to keep Date #1 at arms length so that I can get to Date#2 without feeling guilty.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 4/27/2018 10:49:49 AM
Maybe I can get them both together for a swinging party?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMQ0xIPTOUI
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 4/27/2018 11:05:24 AM

When people are aging and sex drives may be declining, men taking Viagra late in life will make them predators.

That is a complete imaginary fabrication. Viagra does not increase your sex drive one iota. You don't get a hard on out of nothing, either. You're just Able to get one, when you (or anyone else) plays with it. If the ability to get a hard-on makes one a predator, then everyone should take their daughters out of junior high & high school! Especially that, because that has hormones to go along with it, which old people still lack!
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 4/27/2018 4:40:17 PM
CBGB, why not break up with date #1? This is why I wouldn't knowingly date someone that's dating someone else. 1. I'm not going to be in competition with another woman. #2. The guy isn't going to make a commitment based on liking me, but rather choosing me perhaps as an upgrade from the other woman, which then means he's always looking around for what he considers another upgrade.

NG, whether in school with natural hard ons, or medicating for the ability to get one, if you're targeting those that don't want sex, that's predatory behavior. The problem is not a waning sex drive, it's why a person doesn't want to age gracefully, and being self-indulgent at the cost of others (women). There's a mental issue going on there.
 prettybrwneyedone
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This troll is disgusting.
Posted: 4/27/2018 5:24:28 PM

I bet you have strong jaws New Yorker! Your boyfriend is one lucky fellow.


Brainless/Trollboy:You're fking disgusting!
 Molly Maude
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Posted: 4/27/2018 6:15:12 PM
... long ago when I was "into" dancing with a bunch of friends ... if a man asked me out and I didn't know him from having socialized with him in the past ... I'd invite him to join me and my friends as we did our bar-hopping dancing thing ... no one ever expected anyone else to pay their way, drinks or otherwise ... it's just safer in a group than meeting some stranger alone ... quite often, they'd end up dating one of my friends from our group which was a great outcome ...
 MsMicki
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Posted: 4/27/2018 6:22:12 PM
Good Lord NG.....you go from predators to being self-indulgent to mental issues!!

I don't even know where to start!! LOL

There can be many physical reasons a man can no longer maintain (or even get) an erection....are you seriously saying that he and his partner should just say "oh well, we've reached that age we can no longer have intercourse"??
And he is "self-indulgent" because he wants an erection not only for himself, but for his partner??

And just what mental issues are equated to wanting a fulfilling sex life??

You act like a man takes a little blue pill and turns into rapist!!

Me thinks you just like to hear yourself talk....whether you are right or NOT!!
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