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 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 21
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oh, yawn.. that tired old cliche about "Dental floss" that has been floating around for decades..as if people who ate p*ssy in the 1970's & before all had locks of hair stuck between their teeth


wow talk about up tight. I guess sarcasm is still a lost concept to some.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 22
OK, tried it, hated it, never going back.
Posted: 9/21/2011 1:19:03 PM
@ nam and divin

Divin my BF complains of the same thing if i let it go for more then 24 hours. Im like really? How is it that bad? I thought he was being a drama queen till he lost his erection because it was so uncomortable.

nam. were you full grown in? Maybe thats why no partners complained. It would of been softer and probably not a big deal. But if its shaved and there is stuble starting to grow in, then its a dif story.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 23
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Posted: 9/21/2011 1:33:00 PM

That's not equivalent at all, actually.


nam..I suspect the author you are referring to has only read about such things.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 24
OK, tried it, hated it, never going back.
Posted: 9/21/2011 1:45:33 PM

I could never imagine asking a man to shave his giblets for me



why not ??

i have shaved cooches for girls before...


quite erotic actually...
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 9/21/2011 1:58:01 PM

What do you say? Why or Why not? People appear to have really strong opinions and preferences about it. Let's just get it out there so matches can be made compatibly.

No chia pets allowed. Me or him. I've been completely bare for so many years that the upkeep is almost non-existent and my exhusband was bare long before I was. It's what I know and what I prefer. If there is a question of stubble (on someone not my own self) I'll suggest it disappear, I'll offer to make it disappear or I'll likely disappear. It's that serious for me. To each their own. JMO
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 9/21/2011 2:06:40 PM
Trimmed nicely or off is ok with me and for me...... I am not into the "bushy" thing on women and never have been.

In return, I think we, as men, should take the hint and trim ourselves too. It does not mean that we need to shave it all off, unless our significant other prefers that, but why have a forest when you are trying to grow a tree.....so to speak.....

I know that it is time for me to trim my chest when that special person can not lay comfortably on my chest because all the hair is in the way, and I think it would be the same if she is working her way down my body to my tree as well........ Trimmed and neat, or gone is how it should be, will be, and enjoyed by me, and the one I am with.

cd............
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 9/21/2011 2:44:17 PM
OK Deac, chest hair is where I draw the line! So many of you men today are shaving it all off? What's up with that? Nothing like lanquishing in bed after, or before for that matter, running your hands through his chest. I just don't wanna be doing that in his Netherlands!
 bhill1954
Joined: 8/29/2011
Msg: 28
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Posted: 9/21/2011 2:58:09 PM
its what works for you if the other doesnt like it >> get a different other
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 9/21/2011 4:21:39 PM
I prefer something there.
Certainly keep it trimmed to fit inside a bikini.
Completely shaved looks too close to little girly
and is a turn off.

but that is just me.
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 30
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Posted: 9/21/2011 4:32:41 PM

seems, to me, to be a generational thing .


true, I doubt that anyone under 30 has likely been up close & personal with an unshaven p*ssy, or even seen one in real life (not in film/photos/porn)
 oralservice
Joined: 9/8/2011
Msg: 33
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Posted: 9/21/2011 5:28:20 PM
would most people reject a great house because they dislike the shrubbery in the front yard?
 ForumFlashLight
Joined: 5/16/2011
Msg: 34
OK, tried it, hated it, never going back.
Posted: 9/21/2011 5:41:07 PM
But the question is:

Do you want a category on POF for it just like eye color?

This thread wasn't asking people to once again state whether they are in BareNaked Camp or Velvet-Pelted Camp. (by the way, take a look at velvet some time, we are not talking 70's shag carpet. We are just NOT talking naked and rashy.)

That has been stated over and over in other threads.

Would you fill out the category on POF for it and let your partners choose? Or would you go back to the "Prefer not to say" option.

THAT is the question. Are you going to get all outraged about having a POF category on your profile? Or do we just provide information so people of whatever camps can rapidly identify each other and even put it in their search parameters?

I'm nothing if not practical about this. Whatever people want, let people have.
 ForumFlashLight
Joined: 5/16/2011
Msg: 35
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Posted: 9/21/2011 5:43:19 PM
Well, with size and girth....We could say.....Regular Joe......Hefty Joe....and Paul Bunyan!!!
 wvwaterfall
Joined: 1/17/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 9/21/2011 6:24:17 PM
I'm completely indifferent to knowing in advance the follicle count down below, but if such a question were to show up in the ever growing list of required profile categories I'd suggest not only current condition but also willingness to modify.

I'm a low maintenance, natural look kinda guy, both for myself and my partner. Her hair preferences on ANY part of her body have never been an issue for me, one way or the other. As for myself, I'd be game to do a bit of trimming, but not about to make it a daily chore. I mow my beard about once a week and that's about as often as I'd take on any other hair control duties.

As for asking us to provide length and girth stats, I'm confident they'd be as accurate as the "few extra pounds" category tends to be....

Best bring along your own tape measure, ladies.
 wvwaterfall
Joined: 1/17/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 9/21/2011 7:19:56 PM


I have to live in my body 24/7...there are some modifications I'll make for a man, some I won't.


I hear ya. Met a gal on here once who seemed quite excited to meet me but asked that I shave my beard first. Date never happened.
 Malley
Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 9/21/2011 9:09:41 PM

two women it was a relationship breaker because i refused to shave my chest lol.


WTF?? Too weird!!

Obviously the options shouldn't stop at the nether regions?? They'll need to be expanded to include a section for chest, back, legs, pits ...

While we're at it, perhaps it's just as well to state upfront whether we've been spayed or neutered? like oral? swallow or spit? most recent dental check? original teeth? breast or butt implants? botox or no? number of previous partners(inc. performance ratings)? whether you eat red meat (and how you like it cooked)? lap or desk top p/c? modern/retro/antique furnishings? condo/apt/house? rent/mortgage/own? right or left side of the bed? ..... Profiles will take a week or more to fill out ffs!


excited to meet me but asked that I shave my beard first.


OMG!!

I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change.

What happened to take me as I am? I come as is.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 9/21/2011 9:12:01 PM

I have chest hair and every woman i was ever with hated it off the bat except one

Also a generational thing I suspect.

I like a lightly furry chest on a man. And hair on his legs and arms. Not a fan of back hair.. but I can deal. The exception being the full shag carpet or wool sweater look.

I have my preferences for my partners. I'm flexible with them. I would prefer them not have totally bare genitals, especially if they are hairy everywhere else. Why a man thinks it's ok to have shaved genitals and hairy legs and torso and not think it looks funny is beyond me.

Stubble down below is the opposite of a turn on for me, as is facial stubble. Keep it cleanly shave, or soft regrowth/stubble. Grow a mustache, goatee or beard.. I don't care... as long as it suits your face/style and I don't have any contact with the area during the crucial regrowth period.. so from about 8 hrs after you last shaved to about 5 days.

Oh.. and I'm gonna put it out there... I refuse to shave for anyone.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 9/21/2011 10:16:38 PM
jco....

GOOD list.... the last addition would be

polished marble....... the most durable/long lasting for extreme service and extremely slippery when wet...... LOL
 motorcyclescott
Joined: 3/18/2011
Msg: 41
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Posted: 9/22/2011 5:15:48 AM
Clean - clean please....

Looks good, feels good, taste good. I love it.
 ZXTTTT
Joined: 5/10/2010
Msg: 42
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Posted: 9/22/2011 6:51:20 AM
Women, for once, will you lot leave things alone.
Only pedos like a bald one. The rest that say they like it just think they are being trendy.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 9/22/2011 7:14:27 AM
Hmmm I beg to differ with you ZX! Again it is all about personal preference. And the preference goes both ways...Women do what feels good for them, either natural or shaved...and the men either like it or they don't. Just because one shaves all and another loves it, does not make them a pedo for God's sake....
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 44
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Posted: 9/22/2011 7:48:21 AM
No matter how you groom it or not .... just have it clean, fresh and ready to play is all that is needed for me...
 ForumFlashLight
Joined: 5/16/2011
Msg: 45
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Posted: 9/22/2011 9:51:27 AM
jco wins the spangly disco ball prize for sure.

Quoth he:
[BTW the full list would be:
shag
berber
throw rug
linoleum
hardwood (hardwood requires waxing!)]

This thread was hilarious but along the way a few people responded in a way that reaffirmed our humanity, thanks, BigSpoon and others, for recognizing that we are, indeed, more than the vag AND more than the vag 'do.

But at the moment all I can think of is Austin Powers wondering how can anybody shag without some carpet, Baby!
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