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 *army mom*
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 26
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The worst date I ever had was with this dude who apparently decided half-way through the date that I wasn't really his type and he tried to ditch me by introducing me to the bartender ...
 brown_eyed_girl_60
Joined: 8/14/2011
Msg: 27
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Posted: 10/12/2011 1:11:02 PM
I've had a few for sure but I think all of yours especially Rusty and the guy who saw the "crack"...lol

I needed this laugh at the end of my day!

I don't even want to divulge what mine were...because a couple of them were from on here and in case they stalk...lol

I am sorry though for everyone's bad dates....but at least we know we're not alone~!

I'm still laughing at the guy who responded to Rusty with the emoticons!!!
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/12/2011 5:27:05 PM
That emoticon is colon 38 colon with no spaces in between.

Just helping Rusty out. We posters have to stick together.
 dark_mistress
Joined: 9/4/2011
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/12/2011 8:48:22 PM
i feel for the most part i to attract the weird ones. what i would not give to date a normal type of man.

worst date i been on would have to be a tie between where i went to see incubus play at the pnc center. near the end of the concert the guy claimed needed to use the bathroom and never came back.when tried to call him seems he turned his phone off. left me stranded thankfully i figured out how to get home.

the other was more recently with a guy from on here who kept trying to get me to go back to his apartment. few days later i stupidly agreed out of pity to see him again at a bar to hear a band play. the place was great but the band was terrible. the guy kept bobbing his head to the music like a****too and drumming his fingers. made comments on every little thing i did and other half of the time was watching a baseball game. of course true to nature he once again tried to get me back to his place with an excuse of checking out his wine bottles. when all i really wanted was to get home. this time i did the smart thing and blocked him.
 EddieFreddie1969
Joined: 3/23/2011
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/13/2011 9:45:38 AM
Went on a first date with a girl I met on here to a local pub. Was a nice girl and the conversation was going well until, all of a sudden, she has a boogie. What made it even worse it was one of those breathing boogies...you know, the ones that keep going in and out of your nose as you breath. Obviously I was way distracted at this point and scared to death that it would fly out on the next exhale, right into my drink.
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/13/2011 10:40:27 AM
when on a first date and she asked me where's my car. I told her it's parked why? so you can drive me and my 2 kids around. While walking down the shopping strip she's asks again where'd you park. I say down the street it's not that far. Then she's like I'm going to go shopping, I'm like I'll stay and wait for you. While she's shopping I pull up with my car and wait for her, she's outside talking to some next dude. I smile and say hi and drive off . Learning experience of dating, act right and she wouldn't have to be downgraded.
 jan1025
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 32
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Posted: 10/13/2011 2:38:58 PM
Worse than a dog, but a date with a humping man: NOT FUNNY then, but funny now:

Just got to the beach, standing there catching the sunset, and others where there also standing at a distance. He started humping my right side of my hip.

I looked at him, he stopped.

Turned watching the sunset again, and he started to hump my side of my body (my hip).

I moved away from him. Looked at him.

Started watching the sunset again. He put his arm around me, and started to hump my hip again.

By this time I couldn't take it anymore and I said, "what is your problem?" He said, nothing.
I was like ok, let's go.
We get in the car, drove a few feet away, and he (we) ran out of gas.
I get home (after I paid for his gas).
My daughters boyfriend had to put a new battery in his car. Got to be kidding me!
When the battery didnt fit, we had to go back to the store (we had ten minutes to get to the store before it closed), because he bought a motorcycle battery by mistake It's true!

He did find his reciept in the parking lot, so that was good. (I'm not making this up!) It's true when I took him to the store to buy a battery, I waited in the (running) car (if we turned it off, it wouldn't start again) while he ran in to buy it, when he came out he threw the receipt in the parking lot, un beknowing to me!

Get back to my place, my daughter's boyfriend put the battery in his car for him, and he finally left.

Called me the next day, and asked me out again. I was about to hung up on him when I told him I didn't think it would work between us, so then he asked me if my daughter was interested in dating him?

OMG, I could not get rid of this guy!

In a nut shell. I forgot to mention the police that had to come while we were broken down, and that the reason why I even paid for his gas and took him back to the store to return the wrong battery he bought was because it was a holiday and he had to get to his mother the next day.... she had cancer and was dieing.

That was the worse date ever! I wish I could tell you all the inbetween mishaps that are too long to go into because if I could you all would be laughing your arses off!
 RT_2
Joined: 11/5/2010
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/13/2011 4:28:40 PM
Background: met a girl who was just about to end her last semester at a local university, spent a couple hours with her, had a great time. About a week later went on a date with her that lasted several hours, mostly good though she lashed out verbally a few times, she called that night realizing her behavior had been inappropriate. She and I weren't compatible long-term (she was eager to have babies), but she seemed good for a summer romance; she would probably move out of the area within a few months.

The bad date was with her at Shakespeare in the Park, her idea and she was upset I didn't suggest something to do within 5-10 seconds after she asked. The reason I had nothing was she had just told me she did not graduate, had to take a class over the summer! I was stunned she wasn't be able to complete/pass a basketweaving class! Knew her summer class would cause her possible stress and her studies should take priority over any romantic activity. Agreed to go with her to the play on opening weekend.

Early afternoon the day of the performance, I called her to arrange the details. We agreed I would drive to her apartment, then we'd go together in my truck. Both of us would have already had dinner. When the play was over I'd drive her back to her place, then ... ??? She sounded quite enthusiastic on the phone. Cleaned my truck. Called her again just as I was about to walk out the door. Her demeanor had changed. Now she wanted us to drive there separately. Sounds like she got cold feet. It would be wiser if I had asked if she wanted to go some other night (a similar situation occurred this year and I was able to break it off because this year the girl was even colder). Would have been easier for me if she had already gotten cold the first time I called in early afternoon, then I could have postponed the date and found something good to do.

Didn't have trouble finding her even though she looked different: her hair color changed from the first two times we were together. When I arrived, an usher was standing close to her so I sat rather far from her on her blanket. She didn't seem to want me near her. I remarked how I had to move my feet back when other attendees were walking by - the typical response would be for her to pat the ground next to her and say to move up close to her. Instead, she made a bitter sarcastic remark of "Oh, that's so rough!" As a whole, the conversations we had before the play and during intermission were polite/civil, but she made a few other intent-to-wound sarcastic jabs, and she also tried to make me feel guilty about some things, and she let some conversations die. She also told stories showing her dysfunction, for example she didn't attend a friend's recent wedding because they forgot her birthday! Not only that, the previous Saturday she didn't attend services at her synagogue because they were honoring the couple's marriage.

The performance (Merry Maids of Windsor) was good enough, but the wicked female characters seemed mild compared to my date! She seemed to be in a mini-breakdown. When the play ended, I offered to walk with her to her car; she declined. Next day I emailed her asking if she got home safe; she replied yes and wished me well on the new job I was about to start. Never saw her again (shrug). Admission was free at the event, but my opportunity cost for going on the bad date was high - it was Memorial Day weekend and there were plenty of better things I could have done. My bad for not cancelling at the first indication she was going to be a head case. This year it was Taming of the Shrew and if I hadn't bailed out, this year's head case (who I never saw again) might have been much more of a shrew than the one in the play. I'm 0 for 2 on Shakespeare dates; will probably suggest something else next time a girl wants to go on one!
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 34
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Posted: 10/13/2011 5:54:49 PM
This thread is great!

EddieFreddie1969, that story made me want to retch.

When I was with my last ltr and that kind of issue appeared with him, I’d just hand him a tissue and walk away for a while. He was cool with that.
 Glenoran1
Joined: 3/1/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/13/2011 8:10:55 PM
RT_2, whatever you do, don't invite the next one to MacBeth! (grin).
 tsmith26
Joined: 2/16/2010
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Posted: 10/13/2011 9:59:10 PM
My last date talked the whole time about her History of Cocaine use, selling cocain, her miscarried child due to drugs... and how she got pregnant with her second child because of her ex "dead beat boyfriend" Then she told me about her mom that has Aids and is a Lesbian. I mean come on can you really top that!!?? Plus my stupid ass took her out to a fancy ass restaurant! Not good!
 CKM_ATX
Joined: 7/15/2010
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/13/2011 10:08:45 PM
You sound like you were the perfect gentlemen--and they're hard to find! She was at fault for not controlling the dog. Period!!!
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 10/13/2011 10:38:55 PM
@tsmith26: Never take a first date to a fancy restaurant. Your story proves my point.
 EddieFreddie1969
Joined: 3/23/2011
Msg: 39
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Posted: 10/14/2011 6:10:52 AM
This thread is great!

EddieFreddie1969, that story made me want to retch.

When I was with my last ltr and that kind of issue appeared with him, I’d just hand him a tissue and walk away for a while. He was cool with that.

Well I did keep rubbing my nose hoping she would get the hint. Even excused myself to go to the restroom, hoping when I returned it would be gone. Nope, still flapping along.
 MelissaSK
Joined: 8/24/2011
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/14/2011 3:33:06 PM
These all make me feel a lot better about my terrible dates. I've had two so far, both bad ones from here. The first was a guy I was on my second date with. The first date went really well and I thought he was a sweetie. On the second date, all of a sudden he started talking about women's roles, and how women should be "barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen" basically, and that's why he liked dating foreign women, because they're much more submissive than American women. At another point I was talking about the fact that I;ve always wanted to take kickboxing lessons and he said quote "Do you seriously think a guy would open the door for you after knowing you take kickboxing lessons? The only lessons women should take, if at all, are like, ballet lessons." Neanderthal.

The second one was even worse. It was again our second date. I thought he was a little odd on the first but decided to give it a second try. We were going to a carnival type thing in another borough, and he got lost on the way, but then proceeded to tell me he didn't really care about being lost, and would rathger find a hotel to go f*ck in or a quiet place to park his car, and have sex there. How romantic. I obviously said no, he stopped the car and said "Listen I really have no desire to talk to you at all. Are we going to have crazy bamboo monkey sex or what?" He apologized immediately after but still, it freaks a girl out.
 jan1025
Joined: 3/23/2009
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Posted: 10/14/2011 9:19:21 PM
January:

Thank God/Spirit the universe you made it home safe and weren't raped!

You were one of the lucky ones!

I can't imagine it... I wouldn't want to!
 computergeek361
Joined: 6/3/2011
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/15/2011 5:27:48 PM
I met this woman on another dating site. We decided to meet at a local bar. I showed up and she had 6 of her friends with her and 'surprise' it's her birthday! So I bought a round of drinks for everybody and tried to talk to her a little, but by the time I got there she was pretty wasted. Eventually she spilled a drink all over me and passed out. Her friends really liked me and tried to make excuses for her, but that was the last time I saw her.

I went on a date with another woman who was into numerology. She asked me my birthdate, the number of people in my family, etc. I went along with it for awhile until she pulled out a picture of Abraham Lincoln she carries in her purse, and told me she was numerically equal to Lincoln. Then she asked if I could give her $50 so she could pay her rent. I took her home before we went to dinner.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 10/15/2011 7:13:44 PM
@computergeek361: Numerically equal to Lincoln means $.01 or $5, not $50 I would have told her.
 ripcurl77322
Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 10/15/2011 8:02:58 PM
The other night, I paid both our cover fee for bar/band ten each buy each a drink, first meeting, the entire time shes on her iphone probably on plenty of fish. Granted Ive been on dates when I wasn't into the person I am looking at, but it was so rude. I was shocked, didn't know what to say. I shouldve walked out on her when I went to the bathroom. hour and twenty minutes we were there and she was on i phone internet 40 minutes. She wasnt even hot..Ive dated girls a lot more attractive. just an ass I guess. Not even a thank you for the money spent. I feel bad for the next guys that will waste money on her.
 Nice7Girl1977
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 45
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Posted: 10/16/2011 8:21:59 AM
Rawr773, your story might not be over yet.

Couple of years down the road you might end up on a Maury episode called "I slept with 10 different guys on the same day and I am in desperate need to find out who is the daddy so I can milk him for money." Just something to look forward too.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 10/16/2011 8:43:19 AM
As long as Maury says the magic words..."You are NOT the father!"
 Nice7Girl1977
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 47
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Posted: 10/16/2011 9:02:44 AM
I suppose it all that matters!
 tsmith26
Joined: 2/16/2010
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Posted: 10/19/2011 7:07:57 PM
@tsmith26: Never take a first date to a fancy restaurant. Your story proves my point.


Your right about not taking a 1st date to a fancy restaurant!! I'm never doing that again.....
 SharkByte81
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/19/2011 11:31:04 PM
Well, the only one that comes to mind right now really wasn't nearly as bad as some of the ones told above but oh well. :)

The first girl I went on a date from who I met on POF turned out not quite as expected. I live in North Las Vegas, she lives in Henderson (South las Vegas) so we met half way in between at a casino on the strip. I got there, dropped my car with the valet and walked inside to head to the place where we were going to get a drink and chat before heading off to see a show and I bumped into her window shopping one of the stores on the way through. She was beautiful in her pictures on the site but she was even more beautiful in person. We said hello and chatted for a few minutes then she dragged me over to the window, pointed at the dress on the mannequin and asked if I liked it. Considering the $500 price tag how could I not like it. She then suggested I should buy it for her. I figured she was playing but for just a brief moment she actually looked ticked when I didn't pull out my wallet right then and there.

So we made our way to the bar talking as we went and based on her line of questioning it quickly became obvious that she was looking for a guy to finance a very lavish lifestyle for her. The main thought that was running through my head was "gold digger". We got to the place, ordered drinks and talked for a while as her questions about my finances, how big is my house, what kind of car do I own how much does that watch I'm wearing cost rolled on. I answered as politely as I could without giving any real information away. I'm far from rich but I do ok for myself and I am happy with what i have because I worked hard to get it.

Exactly one hour after we were supposed to meet two of her friends "happened by" saw us and immediately came over to say hello. They invited themselves to sit down and we all chatted for a few minutes. It was obviously the "save me" crew coming to find out how things were going and decide if she needed to be pulled out of the date. I was actually glad she had thought that far ahead because I was looking for my exit strategy. It was pretty obvious to me that I wasn't interested in her. She may be beautiful but she'd have me bankrupt in about a month. By this point it was pretty obvious to her that I wasn't interested in being her sugar daddy. So I politely suggested that since she "hadn't seen these friends in a long time" she should spend some time with them and we could always catch up at some time in the future. I thanked her for the conversation, we said our goodbys and I headed for the door.

I went out and handed my ticket to the valet to get my car then noticed a guy I had talked to at a different casino a few weeks before waiting for his car at the other end of the valet area. I didn't actually know the guy, he's just someone I met while waiting on the valet and talked cars with for a bit. As I was talking to him, the girls walked out, saw us and went strait to the extreme opposite end of the valet area to huddle up and talk. About this time the valet brought his bright orange Lamborghini Murciélago around. My dates jaw just about hit the floor. Stevie Wonder could have read the WTF on her face. We continued talking while he put the top down on his car and the valet brought the black Corvette convertible I owned at the time around. I dropped the top, we chatted for a few seconds longer as all three girls looked absolutely perplexed and we both got in our cars and pulled out. I wasn't even at the end of the drive when I got the first text from her. "I had a great time, we should definitely do it again!" There were about 10 texts on my phone by the time I got back to my house.

I just don't have it in me to be mean to people who don't deserve it but I knew what she was after and I wasn't interested. Even after she "knew" I wasn't what she was looking for she was still friendly so she didn't deserve to be treated badly. I tried to be nice. I was careful not to lead her on and told her flt out that I really wasn't interested in going out with her again but it still took me a full week to get her to stop texting, calling, e-mailing and leaving voice mails. In retrospect I probably should have just told her thanks but no thanks right away but hind sight is 20/20.
 irish eyes6565
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 50
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Posted: 10/20/2011 5:30:59 PM
Ha! that happened to me too. I talked for a few weeks with a guy on the phone, decided to meet in a town in the middle of our two towns. I couldn't find him at first then when I did I had to go to the bathroom, he suggested a gas station. I went, came out and then he decided he wanted to sit by the lake and talk. He took off and lost me. Never heard from him again. Then he had the nerve to email me again and again saying he wanted to see me. What the H??
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