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Joined: 11/17/2008
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Ha if we lived in the same area then i would think it was the same guy lol.
Joined: 10/20/2011
Msg: 52
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/23/2011 11:27:20 AM
My worst date equals all of them; but here is one that stands out:

I met a woman online, for the second time since I started experimenting with this online dating thing. We talked for about a week and were having a lot of great conversations and laughs over the phone before I finally asked her out on a date.

I went to see her the following weekend, she lived in another city so it took me awhile to get there. The first date felt very awkward; she seemed extremely tense and I could tell it wasn't just because of the date. I met her at her apartment before we left for our little adventure around the area; but, before departing I took a quick glance around her place and noticed some things that caught my attention as being very peculiar.

So we hope into her car while she drives me to her dads lake house where we go swimming and hang out in a hot tub till the evening, chit chatting the time away. On the way home she started to become overly sexual towards me; a normal guy might not have thought anything of it; but, it seem totally random and out of place to me. Not going into too much detail; but, she started heavily flirting and making advances, touching and rubbing on me periodically.

When we get back to her place she starts drinking one beer after another. She kept offering me a beer every time she had one; but, I refused because I'm a cautious man and like to stay sober in case I need to escape. It wasn't long before she started to pull her cloths off and attempt to have her way with me. I admit I almost fell into the the trap; but, I quickly gathered my senses and pulled her off me. I said, it was waaaay to soon for that as respectfully as I could; which she agreed and understood. That was the end of the first date.

Now the second date is when it gets really really odd!

I went back to see her again the following weekend for round two. We met up at a coffee shop before we hulled butt back to her place late in the evening. We show up there and chatted for a little bit before one of her "friends" called; which, transformed into an emergency. So we end up driving across town to go see her friend, who I found out on the way is a lesbian and who was having a frantic melt down. We get there and I walk in the door I immediately get a cold look from the said friend and they walk into the bedroom and close the door as they start arguing.

It didn't take me more than 5 seconds to realize what was going on. They were ex-partners and she was going bonkers because the girl I was with was with a man.

So after listing to a lesbian quarrel for a few minutes through a wall, my date came back out and was ready to leave. She suspected that I didn't catch onto what was going on; but, I saw red-flags all over her apartment.

We head to a restaurant where we sit down at this random table in this secluded area. I though, hrmm this is odd; but, oh well. We started casually talking about the evening and out of nowhere she drops a bomb on me. She says, "This is the table where my husband proposed to me". I thought she was just being funny at first; but, I realized quickly she was not joking. Needless to say the evening took a rapid downward spiral and I quickly left town.

I left out a bunch of parts; but, I think you get the general idea.

I found out later she ended up leaving her husband and went full blown lesbian for awhile; but, I guess that life style was a little too frantic for her; because she went back to guys again about 8 months later. I was fortunate to have control over my hormones; she was very attractive and hard to resist, especially while naked; but, I used my better judgment and got out of that train wreck before it went over the cliff.
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 53
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 2:26:15 AM
Just yesterday the guy turns up 5foot two inches, fat and balding.....claimed he was a warlock and could cast spells.......He says on profile he is 5ft 7in ches and plays sports of all kinds, not with that gut he doesnt.......I had a coffee but made my excuses.
Hope he doesnt put a curse on me lol....
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 54
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 2:35:32 AM

Why on earth would you get into his car on the first date or even the second.
Women amaze me the risks they take.....he could have taken you anywhere and done anything..... It sounds like a disaster all around.
I like you have been in a dilemma a few times about how to exit gracefully and I think the next time I will choose a vantage point where I can see him before he sees me.
THen get away.. When they lie about their looks, their height, their weight etc
they deserve to be stood up, I have decided.....
Joined: 10/12/2011
Msg: 55
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 9:07:24 PM
I just went on a date with a guy on POF and it was just awful. He was too pushy and couldn't take no for an answer. I told him to meet me at the restaurant and he kept asking to pick me up. Finally I got it through to him that I would drive myself. He had a nervous annoying laugh. I listened to it the entire 2 hours we spent together and I wanted to scream after awhile. He went to the bathroom during dinner and came back saying "that felt good". He constantly repeated himself and laid it on thick telling me how cute I am, that I have nice eyes and blah blah blah. There was awkward conversation at times during dinner. At the end of dinner I offered to pay and he accepted which is fine, but his profile said he would treat a girl on the first date. Talking to him though he seemed stingy. He is a car salesman so I felt like he was in car selling mode and he certainly wasn't selling me.

So dinner wasn't completely awful, but I knew I wasn't interested and I don't like to be a jerk so I agreed to spend a little bit more time at a casino. We drove seperate to the casino then he insisted on holding my hand. I kept pulling my hand away every chance I got. Then he kept trying to put his arm around me and I would move away. We ran into my brother and I refused to introduce them so he took it upon himself to introduce himself. After he proceeded to tell me how he likes how I interacted with my brother. We kept walking around the casino and I told him I don't gamble but he could so he would sit at a machine and try to get me to sit next to him and he didn't seem to understand that you are not to sit in the chairs unless you are using the machine. He sat at numerous machines but never played. I finally told him I'm not going to continue walking around like an idiot. We went outside and he asked to go back to my place and I declined so he asked to sit in the car and talk so I said fine. We sat in his car and he bragged to me about his brand new vehicle his work provided for him and pays the insurance for, but yet didn't pay for my dinner which turned me off. He then told me how much he liked me and he wants a relationship. I said I need to take it slow. He kept trying to kiss me and I pulled away. He said oh come on it's okay. I just kept pulling away. Finally I told him I was tired and needed sleep. He said he would call me when he got home. I said fine.

The next day I decided to break it to him I wasn't interested. When I told him his exact response through text was.. "Im devastated.. after all we've been through how could you do this to me" I refused to respond. Then he sent one more text and this was the kicker. He wrote "I drove all that way to come see you.. and treated you to dinner" hahaha how is me paying treating me? I honestly saw some mental instability in him by the way he acted and talked. Glad that's over. I was texting the entire date too and he just didn't seem to get I wasn't interested.
Joined: 11/4/2009
Msg: 56
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/24/2011 9:26:05 PM
I just had to tell you that I have been LMAO reading your post. These dating stories are even funny with a couple of glasses of wine. Thanks for sharing, you made my night, laughing is good for your health.

Joined: 5/4/2010
Msg: 57
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/25/2011 2:55:00 PM
Wow, I can't even make up half of these stories... I haven't been gotten a date through here yet, but please tell me this is NOT the norm.
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 58
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/25/2011 3:30:55 PM
Oh Well, thought I'd stop back and share a few more! Ah yes, all these came as a result of women I met here:

The Steve story,

Again started emailing a woman on here, we seemed to hit it off. It went to the phone, pleasant exchanges, so we set a date to meet for dinner. Now she had a great smile had a nice personality, seemed I had a winner! Then it happened, the waiter came over and she asked for a refill and turned to me and said "steve do you want another one?"

I was a little confused but let it slide. Then as the evening progressed she started to say things like "steve said this" "steve said that". We went to the bar where a band was playing and she turned to me and asked "steve do you want to dance?"

So finally I had to ask, "who is steve?" The answer poured out of her mouth so easily, "oh that's my boyfriend". Ok bartender, please close out the check! Then gone!

the female dine and dash,

Another woman, same ol same, email, phone agree to meet. She selected the restaurant, not too bad a place, but she knew the menu by heart. "why don't we start with the lobster, crab and shrimp app?" "Sure" I reply, she then orders soup, fills in on bread. Now the fun starts!! The waiter shows up with the entree's, hers is wrapped.

I look strangely(but have the sinking feeling, yeah I know my fault, for a dinner date) and she explains, "oh I am sooo tired and have an early day tomorrow"(in my head the bell goes off) I say"it's a little after 7?" She say "oh I'm just going to bed early, we must do this again reall sooon!" Yeah right!!

Not to worry, I only have about 7 more, but it's others turn!
Joined: 9/26/2011
Msg: 59
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/25/2011 3:57:27 PM
Sorry to spoil the fun for you liberum. I'm sure that there are a few good women on here. Finding your soul mate will not be easy. A task that is equivalent to solving the unified theory in physics. Next the Nobel Prize. LOL!!!!
Joined: 11/17/2008
Msg: 60
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worst date u went on
Posted: 10/25/2011 4:11:12 PM
Yes most likely you won't find your soul mate on here but you will find someone to have fun with while you are trying to find your soul mate. That's what i'm doing
Joined: 2/26/2011
Msg: 61
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Posted: 10/25/2011 6:15:33 PM
Actually, that may be a common tread these days. Had a friend tell me a similar story, only it was a pitbull and the lady sat there for over an hour laughing about it, never once telling the dog to back off. lol. So dont feel lonesome, it happens. Maybe next time bring some treats for the horny lil guy and maybe he'll leave your leg alone.
Joined: 9/26/2011
Msg: 62
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Posted: 10/26/2011 9:03:12 AM
Ok... worst date...

I met a lady on Match spring 2010. We did the first date. All's well. Second date was nice. Dinner, and a nice, rather long, kiss goodnight. Third date... saw a movie and back to my house for... ahem...
After a few hours of great... ahem... she asks me if I'd be able to pay her next mortgage...! What do you say to that? We were naked in bed! No says I. Anyway, we both fell asleep. Next morning the mood wasn't too good. She left before finishing her coffee, taking the $50 with her that I had in my wallet on the counter in the kitchen! (she had her car as we'd met at the movie house).
I called her and she flatly denied everything. I didn't follow it up, except for some pretty nasty comments on her Match profile!
Joined: 9/26/2011
Msg: 63
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Posted: 10/26/2011 9:17:00 AM
My other worst date...

I mer her on POF. We chatted on the phone for a while. Had a few rather sexy conversations. Anyway, the date is set. But she told me she had a limp due to a car accident some years back. We met at a Pinera Bread place and she definitely had a limp! After a short while she told me the story. She had actually lost her leg! She only had the one! I felt bad, but also felt that I'd been lied to. Yes losing a leg would give a girl a limp, but tell your date before you meet him! To make it worse she had booked a hot tub suite at a local hotel, just in case the date went well. Needless to say it didn't.
Girls, honesty really is important when it comes to missing limbs!
Joined: 12/20/2010
Msg: 64
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Posted: 10/26/2011 10:09:35 AM
OyVay ...or should I call you Steve? I was wondering if the thought ever crossed your mind to tell the waiter to change that to two bills? I know I say it here and probably would never do it myself but that is just so flagrant that any behavior would seem to be appropriate.
Joined: 5/7/2011
Msg: 65
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Posted: 10/26/2011 1:22:56 PM
Worst date I went on from pof was with a guy who looked nothing like his profile (as in, he used a really hot guy's pics and he was, let's just say less than hot). We met at Starbucks for coffee. When I showed up he had the audacity to then tell me that he was very "impressed" with how I look and that he was actually expecting some "fat pig" to show up because in my profile I say I am a few extra pounds and that I actually look better in real life. In my mind all I could think was "ummm wish I could say the same about you buddy." Not that I am shallow, I just think people should be honest and realistic about how they look in their profile. Anyways I just politely drank my latte and engaged in courteous conversation(mostly listening to him complain about his mother) for about 15 minutes.

Then I tried to cut the date short and said I have to go now. He kept suggesting we go to the beach for a walk or maybe window shopping in the mall and can "buy me something." I said no thanks. Seriously, this guy would NOT take no for an answer. So I got up while he was still talking and walked to my car and he followed me, then grabbed my arm and tried to pull me into his van (yes, it was a van, with tinted windows and everything, how cliche I know). This resulted in quite the physical struggle in the parking lot, him yelling that I was a "wicked b*tch" (wtf?) and a bunch of other profanities. A little old lady literally had to intervene and beat him off me with her purse and this gathered a larger crowd of people who gawked and took videos with their cell phones. Then he drove away like a maniac, squishing a garden on the sidewalk in the path of his wrath.

The experience made me not want to date ever again, but luckily no one else has ever been that close to psycho-van-driving-mother-hating-guy. I take pepper spray with me now... just in case.
Joined: 1/16/2009
Msg: 66
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Posted: 10/26/2011 3:11:21 PM
omfg, sorry to hear that
Joined: 7/13/2011
Msg: 67
worst date u went on
Posted: 10/26/2011 3:59:19 PM
lol i feel your pain
Joined: 5/4/2010
Msg: 68
worst date u went on
Posted: 11/2/2011 10:40:04 AM
What the heck is wrong with these guys? No is no. Sheesh. Boggles the mind. Boggles the mind. Sorry to hear about your very scary date incident.
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 69
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Posted: 11/2/2011 1:01:42 PM
Rawr said:

Thus why I didn't even take her offer on the condoms and got my own haha. Hell I was more worried after it all about what coulda happened to me in my sleep. lol

If you weren't too into this chick and thought her body wasn't very nice etc etc etc..why in the hell did you have sex with her? Then stay the night etc etc..yada yada. That's what I don't get about men. lol
Joined: 8/27/2009
Msg: 70
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Posted: 11/8/2011 2:32:14 PM
And the lesson is, never get into guy's car when it is just first date. Your exit would have been more perfect if you didn't have to rely on him to get you back to your car safely !!! Worst date I have been on was from this site. Guy's profile stated he was widowed. I got talking to him, texting etc then we agreed to go out. Talked about him being widowed and I said how sorry I was. He said she had died from breast cancer. Not a bad date but not the best either. Week later my mobile rings and yes you guessed it - the wife ringing from beyond !! Turns out when talking to her that she almost died from breast cancer. I do wonder if she ditched him. I hope she did
Joined: 5/22/2011
Msg: 71
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Posted: 11/9/2011 3:02:38 AM
OMG so funny........
 motown cowgirl
Joined: 6/30/2010
Msg: 72
worst date u went on
Posted: 11/9/2011 6:35:31 AM
gosh i feel like i'm missing out on life. the absolute worst date i ever had was not all that terrible. it was with a fellow pilot. we went out for dinner and he proceeded to brag about his flying skills. it's pretty much all he wanted to talk about. then he explained how he was interested in me because i'm "a real pilot" (WTF) and how he had written to many other women on dating sites before who only CLAIMED to be a pilot, but he would always ASK TEST QUESTIONS about something like flying an instrument approach, and when they couldn't answer that's when he knew they were lying. come on, like women were lining up to date this blowhard and telling lame stories for their big chance??? i don't think so!... so at this point i guess i was giving him a bunch of OMG blank stares or sneering, because he suddenly took his wallet out of his pocket, threw it down on the table and said, "we're splitting the bill." the end.

i am sure i was somebody's worst date once. it was ages ago, i think i was about 26 at the time; hadn't been divorced for very long; your typical mess. met this cute guy and we seemed to hit it off immediately, blah blah blah. but after 2 days we had a disagreement about something. for the life of me i don't remember what it was about or even what i said, but it was something REALLY stupid. he got mad or weirded out and stopped talking to me. i was so mortified that i called his answering machine at least 20 times the next day to apologize. i was sure that if i apologized enough, he would be impressed by the mountains of contrite sincerity and take me back. the truth was, OH HELL NO, but he did finally leave a message when he knew i wouldn't be home to say..... "it's okay. goodbye".

oh, the shame.
Joined: 9/23/2009
Msg: 73
worst date u went on
Posted: 11/9/2011 6:48:03 AM
First date from the internet....really nervous. Started drinking baily's with my morning coffee. Tequila shots throughout the day...*sigh* Didn't have anything in my stomache, too nervous to eat. He picked me up for dinner around 5 o'clock, I was feeling pretty confident by then. Went to a really cool joint and ordered a bottle of vino and a couple of appy's. I still couldn't eat a thing, too nervous and no appetite by then. A second bottle of vino....*sigh* I remember ordering B52 shots for dessert and leaving a tip and with a doggy bag. I fell out of his truck and into my door, literally!

Apologized profusely the next day when my head got straight....never heard from him again, go figure..........*sigh*
Joined: 6/15/2011
Msg: 74
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Posted: 11/9/2011 7:01:37 AM
Worst date I have ever been on hmmm one that I got super bored because there was zero connection or attraction or anything we shared in common, it was so ackward. I seriously regretted it the whole time and was felt like I was being tortured the 3hours we were out.
Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 75
worst date u went on
Posted: 11/9/2011 8:09:23 AM

First date from the internet....really nervous. Started drinking baily's with my morning coffee. Tequila shots throughout the day...*sigh* ...

I know the feeling, did the same stupid thing had a date with an old friend that I had had a crush on for years, it was "My opportunity to shine". I was nervous so I had a few drinks before she showed up, we were going to a party a company was throwing for some of the girls that had just finished a huge fashion show, lot's of important people, "for her".
Needless to say the few drinks on an empty stomach before hand, a few after we got there I was well on my way. Now, I'm usually a pretty fun drunk but this night nothing went right, I made a fool of myself and of her, spilled drinks, knocked over a table, seemed no matter what I did I somehow ended up with egg on my face, well she finally got sick of it took me home never to speak to me again.
Yup, I shown like pile of $hit on a moonless night.

If only we could have a few do overs in life...
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