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 OyVay...
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 76
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OK I'm back for one more!! Let's call this not a worst date, but strange and difficult.

Introducing Joanie 9 words!

About 2 years ago, I met Joan on here. Since I had just started this online thing, I was new to the game. I became very attracted to this woman(or at least the profile) quickly. We exchanged emails, had some great phone calls(this is the part that still stumps me).

Finally we get to the date. We met outside the restaurant and everything was good. She was exactly like her photo, great smile. We went in and sat down to dinner. After drinks and dinner were ordered, I started to talk about how it was great to finally meet, how much she looked like her photo, that I thought it would be a fun night and how fantastic she looked in the dress she wore! She said "uh-huh".

I looked at her a little puzzled. But went on to explain, that this was my favorite restaurant, probably the best in the area. I wondered what kind of food she liked. Did she get out much, or was she too tired from her job. I explained I was from NYC(again) how it was quite different than Atlanta. She responded "uh-huh, chinese food".

With the exception of the phrase "no I'm having a great time" in response to my question. She used maybe 15 words in the whole 90 minutes. It's tough to get excited by 15 or 20 "uh-huh's" on a date. Not to mention when I stopped talking the silence was deafening.

Who said silence was golden? Certainly not on a first date!
 Nyte2008
Joined: 12/29/2009
Msg: 77
worst date u went on
Posted: 11/9/2011 8:43:55 PM
Met a gal from POF, chatted for a 2 or 3 weeks prior to meeting up.

We arrange to meet at a subway station. I see her waiting by the stop and walk up to her. Before she even says "Hi", she walks up to me and says (roughly) "Stephen, I'm sorry I didn't tell you sooner but I felt like I should tell you now, I'm so sorry but I have herpes."

I swear to god that happened, sounds like something from a funny movie. But when she told me that, I was frozen for like 10 seconds. I told her something like "oh wow, you're very honest, thanks for telling me, hey you know what, let's walk and talk".

So we crawled on over to the nearest pub, grab a drink, and talk a bit. About an hour in, I left with some generic parting words "good luck to your future, I'm sure you'll find someone, you're honest for telling me that etc.".

But in the back of my mind, I'm always wondering... did she REALLY have herpes, or did she pull off the greatest lie to mankind (in response to seeing me in person for the first time and not "digging" the package).

GAAAAAAH, boggles the mind.
 NolitaFairytale
Joined: 10/4/2011
Msg: 78
worst date u went on
Posted: 11/10/2011 8:20:21 AM
I dunno, I almost think that was a cop-out since she wasn't attracted to you in person. Or, she's kind of crazy. lol. Who walks up to someone and goes 'I have herpes?' There is a chance though that she just didn't have the courage to tell you before, but when she saw you 'in the flesh' she felt too guilty for keeping it from you (it's easier to keep secrets from a person you've never seen in the flesh over the computer) and spit it out. Haha.
 KiloBravo1
Joined: 9/20/2010
Msg: 79
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/1/2011 9:49:14 AM
This started to be a date but ended as a sibling grudge match.
Meet a woman on another site, had emailed and talked on the phone on an off for months before deciding to meet.
Was to meet at a nice restaurant, she call's an ask if her sister can join us I say OK.
They arrived late, these are women in their late 40's with advanced degree's, looking good, having fun laughing but they were in some childhood hold over unresolved issue thing between them. Then the competition for attention kicked in after awhile it was getting to much for "date" who was going outside to smoke between downing shots and the sister's talk about BJ's. "Date" decides to point that out loudly that she has the larger boob's so while we had the waiter and most of the other patrons attention it was a good time to ask for the check. While I did enjoy a lot of the night, it ended badly.
Got an email the next day saying how the sister makes her crazy.
 attitude17
Joined: 10/8/2011
Msg: 80
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/1/2011 4:56:07 PM
A few years ago I met a man on here that seemed like quite the catch. Beautiful voice, we had a nice dinner and made plans for the following weekend.

After dinner, we went back to his place...Very flirty, very attractive man, with that wonderful Virginia silk voice.

He makes us a drink and some snacks and I took off my dress and got into the hot tub with panties on, figuring he would join me..

Well, a few minutes later, he comes sashaying out and parades around the hot tub...WEARING MY DRESS! Im 5'4, he was 6'4, so needless to say, there were things showing (for some reason, he was naked under MY DRESS), that I wasnt comfortable seeing, sticking out of the bottom of my dress.

I got out of the hot tub and told him to take off my dress. He did, and followed me bare assed naked out the front door apologizing.

I just could not see me going out with a guy that looks better in my clothes than I do!
 rec_diver
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 81
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/1/2011 6:07:53 PM
I met a woman on this site a couple of years ago. She had a dozen profile pictures posted, a real beauty. Thin, sexy.. the whole nine yards. The profile description read "I'm real, my pictures are recent and I expect the same from the guy". Or words to that effect.

We started messaging, then chatting on the phone.. she sent more pictures to my phone, to my email. One was a closeup of her licking her lips. I said something about it was like she was ready to eat a marshmallow. She held off on our first meetup for a week.. to court me.. seduce me.. lure me in to her trap. It was working.. I was falling for this 2 dimensional picture collection and a nice sounding voice. She'd read to me from her "love journal". She'd tell me she was "keeping the twins warm for me under her blanket" and she was not talking about her two children, she reminded me that she likes to wear high heels to bed...nice...

The "big" day finally arrived. I had bought a bag of marshmallows and discarded all but one. It was in a gift box, all wrapped up to hand her as an ice breaker. I was ready to watch her lick it...

Her car pulled up.. this "Thing" got out and started lumbering toward me. I felt like I wanted to run but I was frozen in place. My hand reflexively came up to present the gift wrapped marshmallow.. I think it was more of a defense mechanism than anything else, as one might do if they were about to be impaled by a charging rhino but they were glued to the spot. Later I realized I had risked my entire arm, she could have eaten it in one mighty gulp!

I was in a state of shock. Numb to the core, I proceeded with the date in stunned silence. I kept expecting this beast to split open and the girl I had "fallen for" to come out of the carnage and yell "Surprise!".

It never happened. We went to a winery as planned and did some wine tasting. I kept looking at her. I kept rubbing my eyes thinking she would shrink. Finally I said "I need to take you home". "Why?" she asked. "Because.. you aren't what I expected". You are "more" than I expected.. At which point she got all indignant and said "this never happened to me before". Riighhhhhttt...

The ride home seemed like an eternity. It got out and slowly lumbered away, small children scattering in it's wake..the pavement buckling under its mighty gait.

Nowadays when ever I see a fat person I crawl up in a ball and suck my thumb.

I need therapy
 briabear19
Joined: 11/19/2011
Msg: 82
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/2/2011 1:20:39 PM
The worst date i went on started off with him being late then when he gets here he asks what i wanna do i tell him to choose so he picks to go to the park and chill i say fine we get there and all he wanted to do was get in my pants i tell him to wait cause im not easy so he takes me to dinner and we chat and eat then when we are finished he takes me back to the park thinking that will boost his chance and i still tell him no then he kicks me outta the car and drives away leaving me to walk home i was so upset i stayed in my room and didnt come out oh and then a couple days after the date he has the nerve to message me asking me out again im not stupid
 TuffGuy666
Joined: 11/22/2011
Msg: 83
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/2/2011 1:27:55 PM
At least she didn't puke in your mouth while you were kissing her.

That would have been much worse.


 dogatron
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 84
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/3/2011 12:28:26 AM

I just went on a date with a guy on POF and it was just awful. He was too pushy and couldn't take no for an answer. I told him to meet me at the restaurant and he kept asking to pick me up. Finally I got it through to him that I would drive myself. He had a nervous annoying laugh. I listened to it the entire 2 hours we spent together and I wanted to scream after awhile. He went to the bathroom during dinner and came back saying "that felt good". He constantly repeated himself and laid it on thick telling me how cute I am, that I have nice eyes and blah blah blah. There was awkward conversation at times during dinner. At the end of dinner I offered to pay and he accepted which is fine, but his profile said he would treat a girl on the first date. Talking to him though he seemed stingy. He is a car salesman so I felt like he was in car selling mode and he certainly wasn't selling me.

So dinner wasn't completely awful, but I knew I wasn't interested and I don't like to be a jerk so I agreed to spend a little bit more time at a casino. We drove seperate to the casino then he insisted on holding my hand. I kept pulling my hand away every chance I got. Then he kept trying to put his arm around me and I would move away. We ran into my brother and I refused to introduce them so he took it upon himself to introduce himself. After he proceeded to tell me how he likes how I interacted with my brother. We kept walking around the casino and I told him I don't gamble but he could so he would sit at a machine and try to get me to sit next to him and he didn't seem to understand that you are not to sit in the chairs unless you are using the machine. He sat at numerous machines but never played. I finally told him I'm not going to continue walking around like an idiot. We went outside and he asked to go back to my place and I declined so he asked to sit in the car and talk so I said fine. We sat in his car and he bragged to me about his brand new vehicle his work provided for him and pays the insurance for, but yet didn't pay for my dinner which turned me off. He then told me how much he liked me and he wants a relationship. I said I need to take it slow. He kept trying to kiss me and I pulled away. He said oh come on it's okay. I just kept pulling away. Finally I told him I was tired and needed sleep. He said he would call me when he got home. I said fine.

The next day I decided to break it to him I wasn't interested. When I told him his exact response through text was.. "Im devastated.. after all we've been through how could you do this to me" I refused to respond. Then he sent one more text and this was the kicker. He wrote "I drove all that way to come see you.. and treated you to dinner" hahaha how is me paying treating me? I honestly saw some mental instability in him by the way he acted and talked. Glad that's over. I was texting the entire date too and he just didn't seem to get I wasn't interested.


Maybe he's an idiot and a bad date but you're a dumb ass too. You're mad cause you paid? You stupid gold digger. Are you out to have a free meal?
Texting throughout a date is rude, wtf were you thinking? Even if you weren't interested. phucking leave. Plus he was complimenting you on your eyes and looks... say thank you than **** about it.

Overall, you were the bad date, not him.
 teehnah
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 85
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/3/2011 1:51:44 AM
wow, you are hilarious...LMAO
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 86
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worst date u went on
Posted: 12/3/2011 9:04:27 AM

briabear19:
The worst date i went on started off with him being late then when he gets here he asks what i wanna do i tell him to choose so he picks to go to the park and chill i say fine we get there and all he wanted to do was get in my pants i tell him to wait cause im not easy so he takes me to dinner and we chat and eat then when we are finished he takes me back to the park thinking that will boost his chance and i still tell him no then he kicks me outta the car and drives away leaving me to walk home i was so upset i stayed in my room and didnt come out oh and then a couple days after the date he has the nerve to message me asking me out again im not stupid


Wait a minute -- according to your profile, you're 19 years old, and you're looking for a woman to join you and your boyfriend for a threesome. Have I got that right? But you're upset because some young man took you out and hoped to have sex with you, is that right? Hmmmm.......
 AnEvilgenius
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 87
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/3/2011 10:13:31 AM
March 15, 2009.

It was only about 30 out and then the ice rain started before it turned into a 9 inch snow storm.
 imaleo
Joined: 3/2/2010
Msg: 88
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/3/2011 12:02:02 PM
I say we create a Facebook page to share our experiences from the dating sites. Some people need to be warned beforehand, especially if there are predators on this site. I especially feel bad for the flight attendants. I know specific predators on this very site who search out flight attendants to pay their way; and no, I'm not a flight attendant. However, someone I know who visits this site searches for women with money to pay his bills, pay his food, etc. He starts out by telling the women he can't give them his last name because women have stalked him in the past. Then, by building up their curiosity, the ladies become intrigued and "bingo", he has them hooked. He actually bragged to me his strategy. I know him because I shared a boarding home with him, so he felt he could share this with me. I was disgusted. He claims to be a grocery manager, but in fact, he is a stock boy. Ladies, WATCH OUT!
 OyVay...
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 89
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/3/2011 12:25:40 PM
Well imaleo, while that may sound fine, I'm not sure POF management wouldn't have a problem with a FB page, or for that many other POF members. The problem is always one and the same, who's to verify the voracity of the accusation?

Some one could post up a story about you, that sounds horrendous, but is in actuality innocuous. Your reputation would be impaired, to people you do(FB) and don't know. We unfortunately never know people's reasons or temperment, and a grudge by a person you rejected in some way, say not reading their email could lead to accusations.

If as you say, you know of someone on here of a predatory nature, by all means report him to the site.

OT: as a side note, I think this thread was created to share stories, of dates we had, that turned out to be "worst". Some are terrible, others are funny, but in the spirit of the thread, I think arguing over whether members are right or wrong, will only stop some from sharing. Just a thought.
 ravenhair4u
Joined: 8/13/2011
Msg: 90
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/3/2011 1:06:19 PM
Her car pulled up.. this "Thing" got out and started lumbering toward me. I felt like I wanted to run but I was frozen in place. My hand reflexively came up to present the gift wrapped marshmallow.. I think it was more of a defense mechanism than anything else, as one might do if they were about to be impaled by a charging rhino but they were glued to the spot. Later I realized I had risked my entire arm, she could have eaten it in one mighty gulp!

The ride home seemed like an eternity. It got out and slowly lumbered away, small children scattering in it's wake..the pavement buckling under its mighty gait.

Thanks for all the hilarious stories, I've been laughing out loud, really enjoyed this thread, thanks for sharing everyone!!
 Jim07
Joined: 1/6/2006
Msg: 91
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/3/2011 1:16:11 PM
met her here and her profile said 'a few extra pounds'! Well we met at a restaurant and she had to turn sideways to get her ass through the door! dam was that a joke on me.
 Jim07
Joined: 1/6/2006
Msg: 92
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/5/2011 6:33:16 PM
had to get that 'meal', huh?
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 93
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worst date u went on
Posted: 12/5/2011 6:54:58 PM
^^^ Few extra pounds? Sounds like she was a few extra people!
 chromelove08
Joined: 11/17/2008
Msg: 94
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worst date u went on
Posted: 12/6/2011 9:44:40 AM
You guys are mean....big people are cooler anyway.
 Irish Eyez
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 95
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/6/2011 10:51:10 AM
I went one ONE date with a guy who did absolutely NOTHING all evening, but talk about himself. Not once did he ask me a question and when I tried to speak, he would over ride me with more spew about himself.

I don't give a damn if he was nervous...I never bothered with him again.
 rec_diver
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 96
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/6/2011 12:50:06 PM
chromelove08
Message: You guys are mean....big people are cooler anyway.


If that was true then why do big people advertise falsely?

It has NOTHING to do with their weight and EVERYTHING to do with the deception.
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 97
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/6/2011 1:26:47 PM
Worst date I have went on was with a guy from here. Went out to eat and he barely talked. I thought that after dinner, we would part ways because he wasn't acting a bit interested. So after dinner, he wanted to go to a movie. I said why the hell not and went like an idiot. Watched Rango, with children all around. Felt me up throughout the whole movie. His breath smelled like poop. After movie, he ended up in my passenger seat wanting to make out. I wasn't feeling it at all. Gave him hints that I wasn't interested, and I ended it.

Not extremely bad, fortunately it was the only worst date that I have had.
 walkingtall38
Joined: 11/16/2011
Msg: 98
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/6/2011 1:38:40 PM
Worst least in recent memory was one I met from here. Met at a pub that was her idea but worked for me because they have a lot of things to do there besides drinking.

1. Said hardly anything no matter how I tried to start conversations

2. Proceeded to get in an argument with the waiter because she ordered something they didn't make anymore. Regardless she was insistent they make it because clearly they must still have the ingredients for it.

3. Got in an argument with a couple next to us because she mistakenly thought the lady knocked her purse on the floor. Instead of apologizing when she realized it wasn't her purse her response was, "Oh, well I was gonna say. If it was my purse you and I were going to have a problem."

4. Proceeded to text to whomever throughout the date on her phone.

5. Finally opened up and started conversing towards the end to fill me in on the history of her entire relationship with her ex

...and so on.

I almost fell out of my chair when we went to leave because she wanted to set up a second date. I was going to politely decline but I was so taken aback that she somehow enjoyed herself on this fiasco that I was taken by surprise and apparently my facila expression adn that I accidenatlly let, "Really???", slip that the message apparently got through.

XD

God, I literally just about ran to my car from that joint.
 rec_diver
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 99
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/6/2011 2:12:30 PM

christyis4real : Message: Worst date I have went on was with a guy from here. . Felt me up throughout the whole movie. His breath smelled like poop. After movie, he ended up in my passenger seat wanting to make out. I wasn't feeling it at all. Gave him hints that I wasn't interested, and I ended it.


Why would you allow a guy you never met the opportunity to get in your car with you and why would you allow him to feel you up during a movie if you weren't interested?
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 100
worst date u went on
Posted: 12/6/2011 2:52:04 PM

Why would you allow a guy you never met the opportunity to get in your car with you and why would you allow him to feel you up during a movie if you weren't interested?


Remember, this was after going to dinner. So it was not like I had just met him 5 minutes before.

I didn't "allow" him to feel me up. He just did it. I didn't reciprocate and I didn't give him to impression that I liked it. As far as getting into my car...it was raining. I said thank you and went to my car. He jumped in the passenger side at nearly the same time. I didn't give him a kiss, hug, or anything giving him the impression that I wanted to continue. I couldn't physically get him out of my car. He was 6'o 220+ pounds.
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