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 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 26
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I think this often depends on how many beers he has had. The girls do get prettier at closing time.....right guys. C, mon, you know it's true.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 10/11/2011 6:32:31 PM
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"I honestly can't believe there's a man in the world who would turn down a blow-job -- even if the chick looks like Sasquatch ... "

Let me tell'ya, The Squatch could suck the bark off an oak and lay it back with a beer.....
 dd3va
Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/11/2011 6:37:07 PM
You are so right "army mom". c'mon, let's be real, besides an older woman has more skills.
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/12/2011 7:40:11 AM

I'm sure some guys would say that but "forget it" when opportunities arise.

It's been said its the new good night kiss.


really now, probably the most sensitive, and to most guys, "vital" part of their anatomy..and you're going to put it between two sets of sharp teeth and a set of jaws that can clamp down with 'cutting' force ?

some female you barely know, who COULD be insane for all you know?

hmm?
 *army mom*
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/12/2011 8:09:26 AM
Thank you, Msg. 32 & 34 ... I've never known a guy who'd turn down a blow job. And these self-righteous guys on here screaming they would turn it down are just lying to themselves. What if there was absolutely no possibility you'd have to have sex with her? Just a blow job -- no strings attached???

There, I said it. Bash away and I'll just read and laugh at you ...
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/12/2011 8:13:21 AM

You are so right "army mom". c'mon, let's be real, besides an older woman has more skills


Although age offers the "potential" for someone to improve at something its far from being a guarantee that it will happen

some of the most "adept" women I've known in this area were around my age when I was in my late teens and some of the worst have been around my age in the last 8/9 years

So age alone doesnt really mean a thing, it has far more to do with whether a woman enjoys doing it, and whether she has any real concept of how the act might feel to a partner rather than just copying some dull repeatitive BJ shes seen in a porn film as seems to be the most common flaw with women who are useless at doing this at any age
 farmboythegreat
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 32
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Posted: 10/12/2011 10:17:15 AM
well I just one guy but if a gal aproaches me and say " I'd like to give you a so strings blow jmmm mmuhmmmm " I'd have to tell her it's not polite to talk with her mouth full
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/12/2011 10:24:06 AM
Its probably not wise to play truth or dare with a bunch of people you barely know
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 34
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Posted: 10/12/2011 11:17:32 AM

Probably the same thing that makes women change into this vengeful **** when a man does turn them down, they don't take no for an answer very well.



Thats sooooooo true of a lot of women

I've had couples where the man would usually be the one to initiate sex and a percentage of the time (often 75% or above) it would be declined with no negative consequences or bad feelings

But the absolute first time HE turned her down all hell would break loose with the worst cases causing total sex bans, seperations and threats of divorce

Even the mother of my kids who I was with for 16 years brought up the first time I ever turned her down which was 10 years into that relationship and one of maybe half a dozen times in total during our break up as being "significant" lol


Its very bizarre

And what has always puzzled me about that mindset is that when a woman does actually believe that shite why does she even bother trying to have relationships in the first place with a belief like that unless they only date aggrophobics or housebound paraplegics who arent likely to go ANYWHERE that any other women might be.

Because after all one of them "might" offer herself up for general consumption and obviously her man wouldnt be capable of saying no would he?

It was a bit unprofessional. But I have to admit I did secretly chuckle when someone who I was seeing because her partner had cheated on her came out with that belief. And I would just ask her outright why, if she actually believes that about men is she even upset about the cheating then?

Because if she believes he is "incapable" of saying no then its not actually his fault, and was bound to happen at some point if she let him go outside the house

Kind of interesting to see the mental gymnastics that question would cause with them tbh but hard to keep a straight face too


But it did also tend to be quite a common belief with many women who had infact been cheated on. Which always made me wonder whether there was a link there on some level. Whether their likelyhood of being cheated on increased if that sort of mindset regularly seeped into their comminication with their partners especially with ones who had been cheated on many times or by almost everyone they had ever had long term relationships with. Maybe coming across as acusatory in some way or something along those lines
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/12/2011 11:28:00 AM
And these self-righteous guys on here screaming they would turn it down are just lying to themselves.

You must meet some weird guys, if that seems like it should be obvious.

What if there was absolutely no possibility you'd have to have sex with her? Just a blow job -- no strings attached???

If I wouldn't want to have sex with her, I can't even imagine putting myself in a position to have a bj offered to me, but I would turn it down. I can't really imagine how such a situation could ever arise.

What girls do you know other than "proffesionals" that offer NSA blow jobs?

What a professional charges for that could hardly be considered NSA.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/12/2011 11:51:48 AM

I've spoken to female friends about this and they all say the same thing, men cannot turn down sex with any woman, so why is it women need to believe this line of crap? Probably the same thing that makes women change into this vengeful **** when a man does turn them down, they don't take no for an answer very well.


Oh, please. I didn't say that. I was kidding...but don't try to tell me there isn't alot of truth to the beer goggles. It's not like it's hard to find people ( men and women both) who went to bed with someone good looking...then woke up beside someone who could scare the cheese off a pizza.
 *army mom*
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/12/2011 11:56:38 AM
OMG ... you got that right yew4ics. Back in my drinking days when I was much younger I made many mistakes on those drunken nights. I'm actually surprised I still have both of my arms ...
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
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Posted: 10/12/2011 12:12:45 PM
It's not like it's hard to find people ( men and women both) who went to bed with someone good looking...then woke up beside someone who could scare the cheese off a pizza


But lets be honest here

That can happen very easily when youre sober too

You pull a Jennifer Anniston lookalike and when the push up bra, tummy, thigh and hip shaping pants, blemish hiding hold ups, optically misleading outfit designed to highlight assets whilst hiding the imperfections, false nails, foundation, hours worth of hair styling and carefully applied make up come off you end up waking up with someone who looks like a a plague carrier with some kind of muscle wasting disease

So its not just beer goggles you have to watch out for, false advertising also plays a large part in that particular morning horror show scenario
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 39
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Posted: 10/12/2011 12:53:45 PM
Actually on reflection I probably WOULDNT turn down a BJ from a sasquatch


If rumours are true they have massive claws, can rip cars to pieces with their bare hands (bear hands even?) and have huge teeth

So I'd probably not want to piss one off by declining its sexual advances





A woman I didnt find attractive on the other hand? Nah

I'd rather just wait till I got home and resort to either hand
 Laha Math
Joined: 7/15/2010
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/12/2011 1:34:54 PM
Waiting for strange women to offer free blow jobs so I can turn them down.
Or Sasquatch, I'm not fussy about who I turn down.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/12/2011 8:37:06 PM
I would rather have sex than get a blow job so my answer is no...if the woman isn't sex-worthy then I don't want a BJ from her...likewise, if I don't like her in some way, I don't want to have sex with her either!
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/13/2011 9:48:42 AM
never known a woman to turn down a guy with a fat wallet
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 10/13/2011 11:05:35 AM
Again......I will say this..........It DOES make a difference who it is, what they look like, and where I am to even consider it!!

Just because we are male, does not mean that we think with just our small brain, and I for one, take pride in my selection of who has me in their mouth, and why!!

cd.................
 BrockLee74
Joined: 9/9/2011
Msg: 44
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Posted: 10/13/2011 11:32:51 AM
Getting a BJ is not even in my top 3 sexual desires. They are great, but my personal pleasure is very much secondary.
 kirbs86
Joined: 11/12/2010
Msg: 45
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Posted: 10/13/2011 12:44:56 PM
lol come on we have some standards lol
 dondea
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 10/13/2011 1:06:13 PM
Would you turn it down if you could put it in a glory hole? Some men might not, but I would. I gotta see the lady 'cause you never know what's behind the curtain or wall!

 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 47
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Posted: 10/14/2011 8:32:07 AM
to me a p*ssy is a far, far better thing than a mouth..at least what I have experienced .

also it's something unique to a woman.. a guy who loves BJs mostly, could get them as easily from a guy -some claim (well gay guys anyway) they give better than most women
 swallowsallcummers
Joined: 4/5/2011
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/14/2011 9:08:46 AM
either or both are great
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/16/2011 4:35:52 PM

Unless she had me tied to a cactus, somewhere..


KINKY! ...I'm sure there's a fetish for that!
 MissyTrouble
Joined: 3/21/2011
Msg: 50
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Posted: 10/16/2011 4:56:17 PM
Oral sex is useless unless you are in a monogamous relationship.. (and tested)

I mean.. all of you imagine.. Oral sex with a condom on.. Oral Sex with a dental Dam

At least with intercourse.. a condom seems like a good idea.. eh?


and IN a monogamous relationship.. i Love the oral stuff.. cuz its a sure thing.. :D
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