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Joined: 5/13/2011
Msg: 51
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I have went down on several guys before in the past. I can tell you from experience that it takes practice. The way I deadened my gag reflex was to use a popsicle stick on the back of my throat and make myself gag over and over again until I didn't gag anymore. Be careful not to let go of it though while it's back there or you can choke. Make sure you have a firm grip on it. And that was that. Ever since then, I've been able to deepthroat any size that I've encountered. And some were enormous. Largest was 10 inches. So yeah, I'd say my technique works. Plus, being a guy myself, I can tell you that deepthroating feels really incredible to the guy receiving it. My girlfriend deepthroats me all the time, and I love every second of it. Even better than a regular blow job. Plus it's a huge turn-on for me to know she can handle all 8 inches of me no problem. Me and her actually have deepthroating competitions now when we have MMF threesomes. And I'm the one who taught her. Take it from me. If you do what I said, it will work.
Joined: 11/24/2011
Msg: 52
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Posted: 1/7/2012 11:26:31 AM
idk what girls do to get good at this, but when they are good it is the most amazing thing in the world. If you get too good at it though, the guy won't ever want sex from you again, and just ask for BJ's all the time lol
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 53
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Posted: 1/7/2012 3:18:37 PM
I have never had a man tell me it's over-rated!

Do I think it's something that "has" to be done for a good BJ...
nope, not at all......

Do I think men truly enjoy the visual of it and the feeling of their dik
going into a throat.........hell yes.
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 54
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Posted: 1/7/2012 3:19:53 PM
OP - you're havent' had enough practice.

google it...

i like it when a girl deep throats me...

cuz I know she really loves suckin my schlong.....

most girls do not really give good head...

Joined: 8/29/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 1/8/2012 1:18:20 AM
I would say practice. Use your tongue to push it up toward the top of your throat instead of letting it slide in and hitting the back of your tongue first, if that makes sense. This will be hard if it's huge. If you gag, let it pass and use your throat muscles to squeeze it. That way, it's already there and not going in and out as much causing the reflex. If you do it enough, it will get easier. I gag once in a while, but just keep on going, and my man is happy!
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 1/8/2012 4:56:13 AM
There actually is a trick that my kids told me about that all but eliminates the gag reflex in most cases. It sounds ridiculous... that's what I told them but then I did what they told me to do and I could stick my finger all the way back in my throat without gagging. I do this from time to time when brushing my teeth as I would sometimes gag when hitting those back molars. I wouldn't know if it would help with deepthroating but I don't see why it wouldn't.

Clench your left hand into a tight fist. Seriously! I don't know if the hand changes whether you're right or left handed. While the hand is in the tight fist... no gag reflex!
Joined: 12/31/2011
Msg: 57
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Posted: 1/8/2012 7:42:52 AM
Go ahead and gag all you like; it actually feels pretty darn good on this end.
Joined: 2/1/2011
Msg: 58
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Posted: 1/9/2012 9:10:12 PM
Getting deep throated is irrelevant. I have numerous partners who felt that they didn't satisfy me because they couldn't "deep throat " me. To be honest no women has ever deep throated me. I don't feel unfulfilled at all. It's like putting a fire hose thru a mouse hole. Lol. What is important in receiving head is plenty of saliva a hand stroking the shaft and a good ball massage with her hands or preferably her mouth. Also licking and sucking the head is key not shoving my****down her throat as her eyes are ready to pop out of her skull. Also a women that swallows is a huge turn on. Not getting deep throated.
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 59
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Posted: 1/9/2012 9:27:26 PM
try swallowing some oil b4 u coat the entire inside of your mouth/throat
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 60
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Posted: 1/10/2012 11:07:48 AM
Hi Beave!
I personally love to be deepthroated. It is different from all the other methods and just feels best for me. I've been lucky enough to meet some talented women! But I'm not huge, either.

They pretty much all said:
1) Stick out your tongue like you're trying to lick his balls and keep it out
2) Breathe OUT through your mouth and nose, then just your nose while sliding it IN
3) Use the gag reflex to swallow the head

Seemed to work for them. Good luck to you and your man/men.
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 61
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Posted: 1/10/2012 1:13:14 PM
raini65. that is true, most of the sensations is in the tip. But if you can get the knob down into your throat when the man comes, then the throat muscles contracting on the tip can make some men pass out. I should know.

I have read that most people can do if, but it does take practice. A few people have too strong of a gag reflex.

I would suggest taking it slow and easy. My first experience with this (deepthroat) was with my first GF 30 years ago. We were both virgins and one time she was so eager to get it all in she threw up on me. I never pushed her, I was enjoying the learning curve too much, and what did I know anyway?

The first year of our relationship we did nothing but oral, so we both got pretty good at it.

But the very first time she sucked me she used a lot of teeth, and actually drew blood from my shaft. Being as this was my first time and I was young, no way was I going to ask her to stop because of a little pain.
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 62
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Posted: 1/10/2012 1:35:52 PM
k456t, I don't think I have ever tried that position. I don't particularly like standing, I tend to want to let go of my leg muscles so I can better focus on the sensations. But I was going to give this a try.

It also seems like some guys might get too carried away, can't a lady get hurt in that position?

Try laying on your back on the bed, with your head hanging slightly over the edge. Have him standing beside bed and try it that way!
Joined: 1/2/2012
Msg: 63
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Posted: 1/14/2012 3:56:12 PM
my ex was too big to DT, but I always tried. Since I have been dating again and been with men who weren't porn star status, it got easier. Try eating ice first, he'll like the cooling effect and it will numb your throat a little. Go slow, use Cepocol for sore throats before to numb it, it's cheaper and the same stuff that they sell in porn stores. Get really good at giving head, there's lots of books out there. I find that if he's lying down DT is harder. I prefer if he's seated in a chair or on a couch and I'm on my knees, the angle is easier to control. Remember practice makes perfect and he'll be so happy that you're willing to try that he probably won't even care that you can't get it all in.
Joined: 11/24/2011
Msg: 64
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Posted: 1/14/2012 4:16:35 PM
To me deep throating doesn't mean that you go ALL the way down lol, you just go down as far as humanly possible, and get it as deep in the throat as possible. Yea, it's pretty awesome :D!
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 65
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Posted: 1/14/2012 9:57:49 PM
Raini you are the first one to post here who made any sense. Of course it's all in one area near the tip, and any woman can accomodate her guy if she is willing. Besides, if a man wants to feel fully enveloped, he should stick to conventional sex. Seems to me any desire to be deep-throated would only reflect the need to dominate the female. Am I wrong?
Joined: 11/17/2008
Msg: 66
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Posted: 1/15/2012 12:10:29 PM
Put your tongue back there as far as it will go. Most guys won't realize it is your tongue and they will think it's the back of your throat lol.
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 67
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Posted: 1/15/2012 1:12:05 PM
When you feel a gag coming on, don't get anxious, just calm down and breathe in through your nose. Try keeping it there till the sensation of wanting to gag goes away. Practice makes perfect!

Or, just gag on his c0ck. Guys love that. :)

Or, try the 69 position with you on top. It always seems to go down smoother that way IMO.
Joined: 1/13/2012
Msg: 68
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Posted: 1/18/2012 10:27:34 AM
A voice student gave me the greatest tip for deep throating your partner. You must open the back of your throat to get over the gag reflex. To do this, sing "la la la la". This simple excercise opens the throat and helps. Go ahead, do it now! You can feel your throat moving into a different position. It may take a few times of practice to get into the nack, but it does work. Good luck.
Joined: 12/11/2011
Msg: 69
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Posted: 1/19/2012 7:02:20 PM
Pretty sure that "eagerbeaver69" is a male pretending to be a female. All of the tell signs are there.

[X] No pix on profile.

[X] "19 years old."

[X] Every post is of a sexual nature or in sex threads.

[X] "I am just wanting to have a little no strings attached fun with some or all of you Estevan and area girls..a girl knows what a girl wants..dont knock it till you try it!!"

I could go on, but...
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 70
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Posted: 1/19/2012 7:36:21 PM
personally i like a girl that gags.. lol take a guess why
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 71
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Posted: 1/19/2012 8:31:50 PM
I have never used my hands to perform oral, only my mouth!
I can't really explain how I do it, but I can "cut off" the gag reflex and take one all the way down my throat.
I know that I only breathe through my nose and the rest is easy.
By the way, if you take one deep, it gets your mouth really wet, which in turn, gets him really wet.
Go up and down on it with your mouth, using your tongue on it at the same time, then suck it REAL good, as hard as you can and go up and down more.
Keep moving and giving him a lot of action, a wet mouth, suction and tongue action will please him, if you do it right.
I have never had any complaints but I have had plenty of "you can give me a blow job for fixing...... whatever he fixed"
Some people are gifted at it, I guess.
Joined: 11/17/2008
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Posted: 1/19/2012 9:35:18 PM
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 73
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Posted: 1/19/2012 10:18:55 PM

Or, just gag on his c0ck. Guys love that. :)

Yes, very good advice. and oh so true.
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 74
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Posted: 1/20/2012 7:01:58 AM

personally i like a girl that gags.. lol take a guess why

because it gives you the illusion you have a big wang.....
Joined: 6/28/2011
Msg: 75
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Posted: 1/20/2012 4:48:25 PM
Its quite simple - relax your tongue, flatten it and say to yourself, "I am going to drive this man crazy" and slowly (slow is the key) inch his shaft down your throat as you gently suck it. If you start to gag, stop and just gently suck, then slowly proceed. Believe me, he'll never know you had difficulties!
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