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 matchlight
Joined: 1/31/2009
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There's something erotic about being sort of out of control and letting things happen in ways they're not "supposed" to. When things get a little taboo and naughty, it usually makes for more fun for both of you. It's kind of a drag to feel like you're with Miss Manners, and she expects everything to be just thus and so.
 matchlight
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Posted: 1/18/2012 10:51:31 AM

But for gods sake, watch the hair!!


There are those, believe me, who would only say that in the hope you wouldn't miss it.
 1osubuckeye
Joined: 1/12/2011
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Posted: 4/23/2012 9:01:07 AM
I'm not one to really comment, but my last GF loved my cum so much that I thought about just proclaiming myself a Bath and Body Works store for how much she loved to get it on her and rub it in. XD
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Posted: 4/23/2012 10:14:44 PM
They are very real at my house. I also love tit f#ck I love to rub it in to them. The facials may be what keeps me looking Young. Haha
 acsmith72
Joined: 12/3/2011
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Posted: 4/24/2012 12:05:22 AM
Are you kidding me OP? Are you 12 or something? Of course women allow it. That's like asking guys if they let a girl squirt on them or is it "just in pornos".
 villamartin
Joined: 7/15/2009
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Posted: 4/24/2012 7:31:18 AM
Good girl cos i enjoy givin them
 villamartin
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Posted: 4/24/2012 8:16:20 PM
Shame hun cos you have a pretty face to
 Pingshooter
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Posted: 4/25/2012 7:50:44 AM
My late wife was never into facials, but, accidental facials happened, and she never found it degrading.

Up to the two involved.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 4/25/2012 8:53:28 AM

I think I have to side more with the degrading comments. It totally seems like just another way to make a woman submit to "her man" and prove that he is in charge and that she has no reason to exist other than to be the recipient of his semen in whatever way he chooses.


If my man just spent the last 45 minutes pleasing me in every way possible, giving me multiple orgasms, why would I deny him his choice for his one and only orgasm? If he is doing everything possible to make the evening enjoyable for me........how would I be nothing more than a recipient of his semen?
Now if your man is giving you the ole' 2 pumps and to hell with you sex......then yeah, I can see feeling degraded.



I cant explain all my feelings on this but its kind of like how I feel about *always* wanting doggy style. Why would you not want to look your woman in the face? At that point she is just another hole and could be anyone...so I feel this also is a degrading act in those circumstances. Yes, I understand, it feels different for you and you enjoy the angle of penetration...whatever. Fact is, there is no clitoral stim for a woman in this position and it really does not do a darn thing for me.

May I suggest you learn about your Gspot.....because doggy style gets me a far better orgasm than any other position. You can angle yourself to stimulate the Gspot.......and he gets to enjoy the view.......it's a win win situation if you put your mind in the right context.

And that is what any sex act boils down to..........your mindset.
You can convince yourself that even kissing is degrading........
or you can expand your mind and learn that sex can be anything you want it to be.
 acsmith72
Joined: 12/3/2011
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Posted: 4/25/2012 9:51:14 AM
Personally, if it turns a girl on, and it doesn't involve physical damage, I'll do anything she wants me to, or let her do anything to me short of poop, or blood.

It's just sex. It's only degrading if you feel it is. I've had girls want to sit on my face while I eat them out. Some guys could say no, that's degrading. I say "climb on" :) Some guys are afraid of a girl who squirts. Not me. It's like swinging the club and hitting the bell extra hard. And you can't say guy's squirting on your face is any worse of messier than when a girl does it.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 4/26/2012 4:32:33 PM
quote]we don't have to resort to skanky shit like that

once again.....it's all in the mindset!!
And also speaks volumes of yours when you refer to a sex act that many enjoy... as "skanky" ........
 Helloitsmeyourlookingfor
Joined: 7/23/2009
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Posted: 4/26/2012 7:07:53 PM
I just don't get the fascination from a mans perspective. I think it "feels" better if I can blast while she is till sucking or me thrusting deep inside. Now being a gentleman, I am also happy to oblige to her wishes.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 4/26/2012 9:03:57 PM

I don't get it. I would think that if you found it degrading at all, you would find it degrading anywhere. I don't understand how there's different levels of degradation based on location.

Not to mention, if you're with a guy who you know gives a shit about you, wouldn't you know he wasn't trying to degrade you??

Ah, the complexities of cum dropping.

This has always perplexed me. So many don't want it in their mouth, on their face, on their back or tummy or x, y, and/or z yet they don't mind it IN them. It just makes no logical sense to me how it's somehow dirty/disrespectful to have it ON you when it's not dirty/disrespectful to deposit it IN you. ***shrugs***

~OT~ A man who disrespects me wouldn't have the opportunity to be in a position where I play porn-star with a facial finish. Now on the other hand??? Respect is a wonderful thing for everyone involved.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 4/27/2012 7:50:05 AM

If a woman trusts a man enough to let him cum anywhere on her body, then he feels intense gratification.


Why would any woman be having sex with any man she doesn't trust?
This makes no sense to me........if I'm naked in your bed allowing you to put your mouth on my pu$$y, my mouth on his dik, his dik inside me, then I trust him!
Is there really another level of trust that involves facials????
 acsmith72
Joined: 12/3/2011
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Posted: 4/28/2012 8:34:15 PM

I do LOVE it when he raises up and his face is ALL wet from me squirting . But somehow.....that's different than the facial thing.


No it's not, it's the same thing. You're just a hypocrite about it.
 acsmith72
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Posted: 4/28/2012 8:35:53 PM

Hmm....maybe like spitting in someone's FACE is more degrading that spitting on someone's body??


Why think of it like that? If you squirted on a guy's face while he was going down on you, you'd think of it as you spit on his face?
 acsmith72
Joined: 12/3/2011
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Posted: 4/28/2012 8:37:32 PM

If he really cared about you and respected you.........he wouldn't want to


That's total crap. If the girl likes it and I like it, who are you to judge what other people do in their bedroom? I assume you think if a girl likes getting rimmed she doesn't care or respect the guy?
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 4/29/2012 6:34:46 PM

@acsmith72...I won't deny and will admit that I am being hypocrytical.... . But like I said....I've never been with a guy that has asked or indicated he wanted to do this....if ever "faced" (no pun intended) with this situation....I'm not saying I absolutely wouldn't....just saying I enjoy it so many other way's and being blasted in the face doesn't sound like fun to me....that's all.

This isn't for everyone. But I will mention that you don't really get "blasted" (although that made me giggle.) If someone doesn't know how to do it (and yes, there is a "skill" to it) it isn't pleasant. At least I don't think so. And it's perfectly acceptable to be hypocritical when it comes to your own sex life. I am. There are things I'll do that I don't want done to me and there are things I want that I wouldn't do. We're adults, we're allowed to want what we want.
 verygreeneyez
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Posted: 4/30/2012 3:21:49 PM

Well dayum........maybe I should cut back on the porn for awhile. lol

"Money shots" in porn can be a tad different than in the flesh. (Ya know? I've never seen more than snip-its from porn. I figure my own mind is so filthy, it's probably not good to promote my over-active imagination.)
 villamartin
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Posted: 4/30/2012 8:15:43 PM
Like your positive thinking. Shame your so far away
 RD2112
Joined: 8/7/2010
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Posted: 5/1/2012 12:02:20 AM
Just don't sit too close if ur watching it in 3D...lol
 spiffykatt
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Posted: 5/1/2012 12:13:04 AM
given the topic at hand,i cant stop giggling over someones comment that its hit or miss,depending upon their mood.hit or miss?hehe.:)
 older_luvs_younger
Joined: 8/30/2009
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Posted: 5/31/2012 5:40:28 PM
first of all, facials are real ... i have met people who love to give and receive them.
just about my favorite part of porn is to see the facial money shot :-)))

if i may put a different perspective in here ... i am fully bisexual and i LOVE to give oral to guys.
i also LOVE to feel them splatter their hot sticky splooge all over MY face.

so the answer is ... ask your partner how (s)he feels about taking it on the face.

i believe that it is a part of sex that before a guy cums, that he warns his partner and asks his partner where (s)he wants it. it is NOT cool to surprise your partner by cumming without warning and just assuming that (s)he wants it in the mouth, on the face, or anywhere else. two people who are mature enough to have sex with each other should also be mature enough to talk about it in advance so that the partner can tell the guy where to shoot when he cums.

that's my two cents worth ... until they get rid of the penny ... then a nickel's worth?
sam
 russnwestfield
Joined: 10/19/2008
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Posted: 6/11/2012 1:34:22 AM
Just blast 'em in the chops and give 'em a good peter thump on the forehead when your done to remind her to fix your dinner, NOW
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Posted: 6/11/2012 3:07:35 AM
I like to make a guy happy so if he's been doing what I like all might I might ask where he wants to cum or ask him to cum in my face. Just warn me when I have to close my eyes lol. I really like doing some kind of penetration. Then ill ask if here wants tit **** & cum in my face. Sometimess yes sometimes no
Its also kind of romantic to have him wiping off my face.
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