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 fit2date
Joined: 9/18/2009
Msg: 26
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This pastor is another false prophet as the bible says we will see many of them. But enough with the bible lessons.

Eating a hot dog, sucking a lollipop, eating a banana would make you gay. If this pastor is old he may be going senile.
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 27
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 12:02:05 AM
Eating a hot dog, sucking a lollipop, eating a banana would make you gay


Only if you are a guy I suppose. Maybe guys would be limited to eating dried pears, clams, oysters, star fruit, juicy peaches and melons.


Masturbation can be a form of homosexuality because it is a sexual act that does not involve a woman. If a man were to masturbate while engaged in other forms of sexual intimacy with his wife then he would not be doing so in a homosexual way However, any man who does so without his wife in the room is bordering on homosexuality activity.


So does the Pastor feel that as long as the wife is in the room anything goes. Maybe the good Pastor was laying the ground for him getting in on a threesome with some of the couples in his flock.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 28
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Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 12:41:23 AM


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Eating a hot dog, sucking a lollipop, eating a banana would make you gay
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HEY! Lay off the bananas!
and I'm not gay ok?!
 munchkin111
Joined: 6/28/2011
Msg: 29
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 1:40:20 AM
I'd love to know what on earth this "pastor" has been smoking....
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 30
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 2:32:27 AM
TDH....you create some of the most bizarre threads....

I have never heard of anyone masturbating in front of a mirror...
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 6:44:43 AM
I have once! it was a mutual masturbation "contest"
we were in a hotel with ceiling mirror.

she had always told me she had a good 0 to 100 time and I challenged her, so both went at it like no tomorrow, we could see each other in the ceiling mirror,

so technically I was masturbating in front of a mirror and it may not be as uncommon as you think......... Sorry JCO
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 10/22/2011 7:04:03 AM
So what is the Pastor's qualifications to make such an assessment? Besides the fact that he is a Pastor that ignores one of the most primary of all the teachings in the New Testament... "Judge not lest ye be judged yourself"... he makes a judgement without a practical knowledge of the subject. Unless of course he's omitting that when he looks at himself in the mirror that he himself gets a boner but that would just mean that he's Gay.

Human sexuality is impossible to wrap up in a nice little package and to apply to groups of people because people are like snowflakes and we're all unique from one another. But then again his eagerness to do so underscores his lack of qualifications to speak on the subject.
 wildlifelover1979
Joined: 2/11/2011
Msg: 33
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 7:52:50 AM
This is easy answer in my opinion. Most guys just want to let loose some steam if that is a good analogy since they can't have sex with a woman. Plus some people do it just because it feels good.
 dancingqueen1105
Joined: 9/2/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2011 11:02:52 AM
Well, I tried it, I did not feel any gayer... I was n't looking at me like "hey I wanna tap that" like I do when looking at someone who peaks my interest. It kinda felt a bit liberating, like a weight lifted from my chest afterwards... beyond regular feel good sensation from said release, there was something else, I can't really describe it....
I think everyone should try it.
 TDH49
Joined: 8/13/2010
Msg: 35
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 11:08:43 AM

Well, I tried it, I did not feel any gayer... I was n't looking at me like "hey I wanna tap that" like I do when looking at someone who peaks my interest. It kinda felt a bit liberating, like a weight lifted from my chest afterwards... beyond regular feel good sensation from said release, there was something else, I can't really describe it....
I think everyone should try it.
Needless to say this is info I really didn't need to hear. But thanks for sharing.
 dancingqueen1105
Joined: 9/2/2007
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Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 11:14:05 AM
Hey, no problem.
Tried to keep it PG for ya
 LittleLisa03
Joined: 5/6/2009
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Posted: 10/22/2011 7:18:20 PM

If a man/woman gets turned on watching themselves in the mirror while they masturbate, is that gay, or at the very least, a little gay?

Not at all. If one were to masturbate in front of a mirror, I would think the sight of yourself getting turned on...would be a turn on. Usually, when people pleasure themselves they're fantasizing about someone else actually pleasuring them. (if your thinking of someone of the same sex pleasuring you while masturbating - then yes, maybe there are some homosexual tendencies... not that there's anything wrong with that.) Personally, I think this pastor is using scare tactics to discourage people from masturbation. lol
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 38
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 7:44:22 PM
Only time I ever watched myself - was to make sure I was doing it right...


lol
 statemachine500
Joined: 8/25/2011
Msg: 39
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/22/2011 7:51:39 PM

I'd love to know what on earth this "pastor"has been smoking...


Don't know but I can guess what he would like to smoke...
 Flyrr200
Joined: 9/26/2011
Msg: 40
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/23/2011 4:13:32 AM
I started when I was a kid, and if I stop I must be dead. And I consider myself 100% straight. The Pastor is nuts!
 alohasuzan
Joined: 9/8/2011
Msg: 41
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/23/2011 6:23:07 AM
Masturbation is a very natural act. We start at a young age to learn about our own body and continue as an adult.. Well because it feels good. Isn’t it better to take care of sexual frustration by yourself instead of becoming a time bomb waiting to go off? The mirror thing.. (Grin) a statement from a man/pastor.. Men are visual creatures (god bless them) and are much more delighted and comfortable with their own bodies. Mr. Big is part of who they are as a viral man.. So let them watch. Perhaps the pastor should concentrate his sermon on a male/male or female/female relationship if he wants to finger point at gays. I have yet seen where the bible said ‘Thou shalt not spank the monkey’.
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 42
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/23/2011 11:10:39 PM
I've always wondered if gay people do that. Logically it's makes sense. If you are turned on by same sex body then you should find arousal in your own. Not sure how that works. I believe it's narcissism in it's purest form
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 43
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/24/2011 8:30:58 AM

I heard once if you lick a banana after you peel it, you are supposedly thinking of sucking a penis, Im pretty sure it was from a preacher or was it Jerry springer?


eating bananas (or sausages) IS SO GAY!

OBVIOUSLY it's a latent representation of a penis-substitute you are putting into your mouth

to OP I don't think it's 'gay' - it's NOT another man, if you though of, or looked at photos of naked guys to turn you on to jack off, yes--gay.

how many guys even do that? look at selves in mirror & pull it? the vast majority would either view photos of nude women, video porn, or visualize/daydream of having sex with a woman, while jacking it

I presume gay guys do the above, only with men instead of women in their dreams?
 Nytrix626
Joined: 8/8/2011
Msg: 44
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/24/2011 9:40:09 AM
It's pretty simple, if other guys turn you on you're gay, if not you're straight. If you like to watch yourself beat off or have a woman ram dildos in your ass or watch a woman blow a guy, it doesn't mean your gay. Some men think it feels good to get fked in the ass and have their girlfriends do it, but it doesn't mean they want some guy bending them over and fking him. Watching a woman blow a guy is just damn sexy, nothing gay to it.

Even those public masturbation videos where guys beat off on the train in front of women or at the beach isn't gay to watch as long as the unsuspecting girl is what turns you on and you're not wanting to bang the guy.
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 45
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/24/2011 9:52:07 AM
OBVIOUSLY it's a latent representation of a penis-substitute you are putting into your mouth


If a guy were caught deep throating a banana or a sausage and moaning with pleasure in the process his sexuality would be brought into question.

I was at a party many years ago and things were getting carried away ( with the aid of alcohol ) a woman in the group did a wonderful job of mimicking a blowjob with a banana on a dare. The boys in the group winced when she bit it off just as things were getting heated up with an evil look on her face - the girls rolled with laugher.
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
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Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/24/2011 10:33:51 AM
Who masturbates in front of a mirror?

:facepalm:


Leave it to some bible thumper to try to define gay. You are either born gay, or you are not. His God makes people the way they are. Me punching the clown on occasion is not going to "turn me gay"

It's fcuked how these people actually lead some sort of flock. I guess there's a sucker born every day.


Now if you'll excuse me, I have to go masturbate in front of a mirror!



LOL
 bigwhoop71
Joined: 8/6/2011
Msg: 47
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/24/2011 11:31:33 AM
If masturbation is a form of homosexuality, pretty much makes me a village people groupie.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 10/24/2011 11:35:33 AM
Another crazy jesus freak from the states
why pay any attention to these nut cases........
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 10/24/2011 8:01:29 PM
I think we've got another leader of the faith coming out of the closet.....I've never heard or thought about a mirror...but he sure did!
 Lainee123
Joined: 2/5/2011
Msg: 50
Is masturbation a form of homosexuality?
Posted: 10/24/2011 9:07:50 PM
[I heard once if you lick a banana after you peel it, you are supposedly thinking of sucking a penis, Im pretty sure it was from a preacher or was it Jerry springer?]

I am sure I will NEVER look at another banana without thinking of that Iceman. Tyvm!
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