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 gingerchick30
Joined: 11/5/2011
Msg: 40
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Heck no, OP. She's feeding you a line of B.S.

I've heard that type of line SOOO many times, it's not even funny. Guys that are married or in a relationship saying, "Oh, she doesn't understand me, she makes me sleep on the couch, we might as well be split up, I work so hard to support her because she won't work", etc...etc...

Don't fall for it, because it sounds like she's just wanting your sympathy to get a little side action with you. The fact is, she's with someone else, and if she was all that unhappy she'd dump the guy, right?

Wait for someone that is single.
 gingerchick30
Joined: 11/5/2011
Msg: 41
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 11/20/2011 9:29:18 PM
The OP seems to be MIA... Perhaps he and the gas station girl went off and lived happily ever after??
 carelesswhisper00
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 42
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 11/20/2011 9:33:08 PM
Maybe she is looking to move out of the relationship she is in? You talk to her each time you go into where she works so I would just keep it casual with her. Tell her if she wasn't in a relationship already you may have some interest, who knows you may not be the only one she is wanting to hang out with after hours.
 Giggles10000
Joined: 6/17/2011
Msg: 43
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 11/20/2011 9:43:26 PM
Say...sure is your boyfriend going to go...Id like to meet the man who captured your heart!"
 trplfire39
Joined: 11/1/2011
Msg: 44
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 11/20/2011 9:57:50 PM
"Hang out" in this content is a lure, it sounds to me that she wants to "change out" her boyfriend...My advise, visit another gas station.
 Blah_User_Name
Joined: 8/27/2011
Msg: 45
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 11/21/2011 10:39:50 AM
Two scenarios I can immediately think of :-

1. She wants someone to play around with but not commit to.

Or

2. She's the type who has to be in a relationship - however crappy, and likes to have the next one lined up before leaving. If she is working two jobs to support a bum who she's lived with for only two months, you have to ask yourself why. I think you are being interviewed as a replacement.
 Sailaway...
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 46
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 11/21/2011 2:10:05 PM
Similar situation with me and a 19year old girl who 'needed a place to stay'..no sex though, just teasing.
Agree with all the advice given...stay away.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 47
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 11/21/2011 3:51:39 PM

Find out out tough and crazy her BF is before you do "hang out".


Pfff, I'd say do her. If her bf is moronic enough not to treat her right he deserves what`s coming. If she really is interested in you and her bf acts like a looser, he can croak. Just make sure he`s not some dweeb with a loaded 44....
 cutenperky2
Joined: 8/2/2011
Msg: 48
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 11/21/2011 8:35:59 PM
You dont hangout with someone who is taken... there boyfriend could beat the crap out of u or worse.... she is having an ego trip
 playfulpete
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 49
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 5/12/2012 7:54:15 AM
She wants a piece of a$$ and thats all.Once a cheater always a cheater but if you want to go HANG OUT feel free.Make sure the boyfreind isnt a mother f$%ker first
 Jason31
Joined: 1/8/2005
Msg: 50
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 5/12/2012 2:03:17 PM
Im in the same situation with a coworker. Check out my post its driving me nuts!
 jmark4
Joined: 7/3/2011
Msg: 51
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 5/13/2012 12:00:33 AM
i see a post in the broken hearts section in the near future.

dont' be used. you shouldnt' be spending a lot of one on one time with a girl that's dating someone.
 aj123a
Joined: 6/26/2011
Msg: 52
She's in a relationship, but wants to hang out
Posted: 5/13/2012 2:13:32 AM
hang out with her bang then when her n her man break up move her in quit your job n stay home while she works thats a keeper
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