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 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 80
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why do people have to send naked pictures before meeting?


I often wonder why I dont have 'more' unsolicited nude and lingerie pics from women in my inbox personally.

*shrugs*


 StealthyNinjaKitty
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 81
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 11/22/2011 4:30:22 PM
You mean I'm not supposed to return nude pics of myself back, in the interests of politeness? I'm kidding, of course. I would never...ok, well I would, but nothing with my recognizable face in it...and only to someone who'd already seen me naked, there's no use burning someone's retinas before I've had a chance to woo them with my charming personality and wit...

In all seriousness: I think there are people who have far more exhibitionist tendencies than most of us posting on this thread currently. As far as why, who knows? Because it's naughty, because they're really proud of their junk, perhaps they're hoping that you're going to return the favor and provide them with additional wank material, or maybe they feel it's an additional incentive to meet...but likely, they're just looking for a piece of a**.
 john_in_bh
Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 82
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 11/22/2011 6:44:03 PM

there's no use burning someone's retinas before I've had a chance to woo them with my charming personality and wit...


That is GOOD!

 sensualsandie
Joined: 11/19/2011
Msg: 83
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 11/22/2011 7:53:35 PM
You will always get creeps on dating sites... Liars and players. I wouldnt be giving out my email address that is for sure.. If you insist then use a generic address that has no information on it. THere are plenty of stalkers and worse out there in that big ocean.. Men send pics of their peckers all the time and who wants to see it??? They also want to see your pics and if some women oblige, more fool them. If you are foolish enough to actually meet a guy like this he will have one thing on his mind and maybe worse.......

A far healthier way is to meet men offline and you can see what you get up front, at least in general......
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 84
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 11/22/2011 9:27:38 PM

He probably save a lot of money since he doesnt have to buy all those girly mags like the rest of us poor guys!


...The best part is I get PAID to be there!

I'll be the first to admit that it's the JOB and not me that gets all the attention though....kinda like Rockstar lite... If they weren't stars they wouldn't get that attention...most just don't keep it in perspective though. Still...why not enjoy it?
 VB_Mermaid1974
Joined: 2/2/2012
Msg: 85
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 4/22/2012 6:29:29 PM

I think we should all start scrapbooking these pictures when we get them...


LOL!
 ChancesRMD
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 86
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 4/22/2012 6:47:05 PM

I think for the most part that men who send body parts to someone they barely know


Men should not be sending body parts to strangers. I agree with you WIP lol
 excessivemayhem
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 87
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Posted: 4/22/2012 10:33:10 PM
why bother sending naked pics of yourself to women anyway guys? if you actually get meet women in real life and the attraction is they're you're going to..."market" yourself pretty obviously anyway...lol. no naked pics needed then anyway. and to the OP...whoever sends you naked pics of himself is a moron who is probably insecure about himself and has a small penis and is sending fake pics of his junk anyway.
 Acehonestlady
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 88
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:10:55 AM
Love it :0) I will have to try that one. Now I just need a gigantic****photo as I deleted ones previously sent to me.
 fall-blossom
Joined: 3/22/2012
Msg: 89
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 4/23/2012 7:18:10 PM
I get emails asking for full-body pictures all the time. I usually ask "Why, what are you doing to yourself with my pics?" lol

Full body pics are ones where you can see the person in their entirety with clothes on. If a person only has images of themselves from shoulders up, this is a fair request especially if they have emailed others who have full body shots of themselves and already know what the person looked like before contacting them.


They're just thinking of how much they'd love naked pictures of you, so they make the first move, hoping you'll reciprocate. :-)

Agreed! I also think it could be a turn on for some who send nude photos of themselves. Why on earth would anybody want to have their private parts made public? After all, private parts is prefaced with 'private' for a reason. Maybe the term should be coined as 'public parts'.


whoever sends you naked pics of himself is a moron who is probably insecure about himself and has a small penis and is sending fake pics of his junk anyway.

The pics most send are not fake. Tattoos match, skin colour matches, as do abs and some send them including their faces. I have only seen 'proud to be endowed' send them.
 amore01
Joined: 2/14/2012
Msg: 90
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 4/23/2012 7:29:27 PM
ewwwww....that just reeks of no class.period!
 jackiejc
Joined: 2/16/2012
Msg: 91
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Posted: 4/23/2012 8:18:33 PM
Have only had it happen once to me I just blocked him ! But we should reply what are you sending me I can't see it lol!
 ravenhair4u
Joined: 8/13/2011
Msg: 92
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Posted: 4/24/2012 6:30:10 PM
This means they are after casual sex. They also have bad manners & need to learn how to act. How insulting & degrading to request naked pics of you. Beware, & do not meet any pig who asks this. This is an obvious red flag! For your own safety, delete & block all who do this! They may attempt to rape you, & they may be sex offenders. Some may be violent. They are not normal if they are requesting naked pics. No gentleman who wants a relationship would ever make such a vulgar request.
 musical_turtle
Joined: 3/11/2011
Msg: 93
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 4/24/2012 6:34:04 PM
haha,I've been asked many times to send a nude pic or two.
The answer is always the same: NO.
For many reasons lol
Sometimes certain guys will send me their nude pics....out of the blue...
even though I didn't ask...and I just block them after lol
 jmark4
Joined: 7/3/2011
Msg: 94
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Posted: 4/24/2012 7:53:20 PM
if anyone has such a lack of class that right off they are sending naked photos then they are pervs in my book and I would block them yesterday.

Do you think a person like that has good intentions? come on.
 chinadol6977
Joined: 6/24/2011
Msg: 95
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Posted: 4/24/2012 11:42:42 PM
I now have a collection of them since joining the site..Keep them in the never folder..
 Simon4567
Joined: 10/9/2010
Msg: 96
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Posted: 4/25/2012 5:24:10 PM

I've had women send me naked pics before without asking.I wasnt realy insulted but then again I am a guy.I've had alot of women tell me about guys doing this.I was suprised how common it is.The bad thing it proably works thats why they do it.


Hey! me too! I've had women send naked pics to me, and I didn't even ask for them. Whats going on here?
 aboutgettingby
Joined: 2/18/2011
Msg: 98
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 4/26/2012 10:54:04 AM
You know it didn't work for Bret Favre, what would ever make someone think it would work for one of us mere mortals.
 snowstorm22
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 99
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Posted: 4/26/2012 11:20:30 AM
I'd sent a pic of my tits to the guy i was first meeting. HAHA JOKING.
only if i was a 2 cent hooker so sorry, nooo
 Gertrude13
Joined: 5/14/2012
Msg: 100
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 5/24/2012 7:42:03 AM
Yay! I almost started another thread on this very topic - thank heaven for the thread search feature - would hate to break POF forum rules!

Here's a funny...I got requests for pics all the time. I was always confused, as I usually had a profile pic or two...I had no idea they were asking for nudes until recently. Lmao! Think of the poor, disappointed fellas...=D

Seriously, though - what woman would do that with a man she hasn't even met? He could really wreck her life with something like that, if he wanted to, especially if she carries any kind of professional license, has children, or is crazy enough to show her face, too.

I think it's a reasonable request, though. If a guy is looking for a "sure thing," a woman who is - ahem - sexually liberated enough to boink a stranger, might as well get that info up front, and requesting a pic is slightly more tactful than asking "are you easy?"

No sense getting our panties in a bunch over it, just correct the misconception and move on, right?
 c4st-4w4y
Joined: 5/10/2012
Msg: 101
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Posted: 5/24/2012 10:59:22 AM

REPLY TO MSG # 3

Please stop sending out those unauthorized pics of me. Now I know why my inbox is full of gay guys wanting intimate encounters.
 PaminSD
Joined: 2/25/2012
Msg: 102
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 5/24/2012 1:48:31 PM
I've started a collection of them. It seems the men who are well-endowed have absolutely no problem showing them off. Also, if you are looking for live porn, go to speed date dot com. I just laugh at them and think it is so funny!
 dearsavannah
Joined: 5/19/2012
Msg: 103
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 5/24/2012 3:26:28 PM
When people ask me or ask to send one I say no and stop the conversation. I also find it to be a huge turn off and it makes me think that the only thing said person is looking for is sex.
 Gertrude13
Joined: 5/14/2012
Msg: 104
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 5/24/2012 5:24:43 PM
I wonder if, when someone requests a nekkid pic prior to meeting, it would be really, really mean to send them one of those "wages of sin" pics you can find on google. You know, the ones of body parts afflicted with advanced herpes, syphilis, etc. Or repurpose the unsolicited weiner pics for the gentleman requestor. Hm.

Nah. That would be mean. Funny, but mean...
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