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 jpwrnglrwmn_forumsonly
Joined: 4/23/2011
Msg: 132
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Oh, this happened to me recently. I was supposed to meet someone from here, but long story short, we got into an argument and he sent a picture of himself that way. . because I had mentioned before especially if I don't know someone, I don't appreciate pictures of them. I guess he thought I would be impressed. . not really. It just completely turned me off to even meeting him. This is off the topic, but maybe the fact that his profile was full of misspelled words, and every other text he sent me had a misspelled word, and also the fact that he disclosed that "fyi I need sex 3 times a day" also turned me off to meeting him. Hmm. .also off the topic, that we didn't match at all in terms of education and income levels maybe should have been an indicator. My excuse? At the time he contacted me, I just appreciated any attention from someone who I found attractive enough , regardless of how we matched. (Had just gone through a breakup from a serious relationship)
 HiHeelsLover
Joined: 7/13/2012
Msg: 133
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/12/2012 6:46:38 AM
Start a web page and put their photos up with their real screen names and their photos. And your opinion of their bodies.


You all are morons lmao.


AND this is true
 absentelements
Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 134
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/12/2012 7:26:00 AM
i can see how it would help someone truly decide if they were physically attracted to the other.... but on the same hand it leaves nothing for the imagination
 ravenhair4u
Joined: 8/13/2011
Msg: 135
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/12/2012 3:55:58 PM
They send naked pics before meeting b/c they have no respect for you. They're making their intent very clear, that they're after a sexual relationship only. If you are looking for something deeper, like a fulfilling relationship, then this person is not for you.
 Heavens85
Joined: 7/23/2012
Msg: 136
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/13/2012 5:01:00 PM
I was talking to a guy for ages added him to facebook gave him my number we were texting out of no where i got a nude photo followed by im so sorry i didnt mean to send that........ I laughed my ass off !!! So you were walking along slipped on a small puddle on the floor fell over bashed your head sprained your ankle and landed on the send nude photo button... Either way i found it highly entertaining but it has turned me off the idea of wanting to meet him LOL
 shy2anne
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 137
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/13/2012 5:23:54 PM
i don't think sending (unsolicited) naked pictures of oneself is so much about wanting sex (a healthy sexual relationship, i mean) as it is about control, shock and maybe even being deviant.
after all, if one did that in real life - flashed their naked body to a stranger - they would land up in cuffs and have to register as a sex offender. what should be the big difference just because it's online?
i would be offended too.
i hasn't happened to me on this or any other dating site.
it did happen to me years ago when i first discovered yahoo. it was very upsetting. and i was so naive.
 1964armymom
Joined: 7/18/2012
Msg: 138
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Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/13/2012 6:37:30 PM
I agree with Shy2Anne - in many cases its the shock value. And of course those looking for just sex... :/

I just play dumb when men message me asking for more pictures and send them fully clothed ones. I don't even do cleavage shots (what a prude I am lol)

I have had guy friends show me their collections on their phones of sexy pics from women. And I say to them, see, this is why no one ever gets a sexy pic from me.

Gah
 FishOwl
Joined: 12/13/2008
Msg: 139
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/13/2012 11:04:54 PM
I can't believe anyone could be that stupid! I mean, sending that out for FREE! Unbelievable.

Seriously:
You might also end it to his local police dept. You might help them catch someone they have been wanting to talk to. If they do it to you online, to whom else might they have done it offline?
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 140
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/13/2012 11:54:03 PM
No harm in asking. Either way either party can determine if they are wasting time. I find sending one unsolicited rude however.
 Greg19899
Joined: 10/10/2011
Msg: 141
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/14/2012 10:00:36 AM
I'm not sure why it matters..if it offends you, you just received advance warning that you're not a match. It it entices you, then you get a pre-view..lol I have received a few body shots, but could care less. I'd rather receive a full body nude or partially clothes than to meet and be upset by the "athletic" figure...that is my weight..lol
 Crsdan57
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 142
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/14/2012 12:57:28 PM
Have to agree with Greg here. Are you really that offended by someone sending a nude picture? You dont like it, delete, block, party over. He/She is not your type, move on. If it is something you are interested, and I am sure there are some that are interested, add it to your collection. Sexting happens, you read about it quite often. Some people are into it, some are not.
 KatieMPH
Joined: 3/8/2012
Msg: 143
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Posted: 8/15/2012 3:24:05 PM
It happens just delete and block!
 KatieMPH
Joined: 3/8/2012
Msg: 144
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/15/2012 3:24:32 PM
I agree with that we should and call it
POF****
 NOCLOWNING
Joined: 7/21/2010
Msg: 145
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/15/2012 4:48:06 PM
I been talking to a guy on here, for 2 weeks, everything was going well. Yesterday, he told me, if I want him to keep talking to me, I had to send him a picture, of my pu**y. I just said, "Fu** you, He sent me a text, telling me I was nuts.
 Oncetwice57
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 146
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Posted: 8/15/2012 6:20:21 PM
And just when youthought you were outa school!....lol....wierd-eh?....I would call it stupid and have never asked anyone for a nude picture.....weeeeeed-em out!
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 147
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/15/2012 10:13:23 PM
He wants NSA sex with you, move on if you don't want that.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 148
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/16/2012 12:02:45 AM
Yes if naked pics are sent unrequested, I would not bother with him. It is obvious what he wants and if he didnt get it, he would be gone, is my bet.

It is offputting and men must realise that we dont appreciate it, from strangers. Not a turn on at all.
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 149
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/16/2012 6:04:05 AM
I would send pics...but my Macro settings broke! .....I have dated quite few "women"...not one has ever sent me a naked pic...and I haven't sent out any.....I guess thats why I have dated quite a few "women"....
 annywn
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 150
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/16/2012 10:12:40 PM
they have no intention but to have , i guess sexting buddy~pretty pathetic, if you do. you just become one of the chattle of pics like that they wank on. charming
 bluedani
Joined: 1/24/2012
Msg: 151
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/17/2012 2:22:38 PM
I totally agree, if a man is truly looking for love that wouldn't be the first he'll be looking for, he just wants some. That's why the end up with easy women. delete and move on.
 ZombiezRock
Joined: 8/7/2012
Msg: 152
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/17/2012 6:18:33 PM
Personally i like gettin a nude pic of a guy before we meet, which I always get without having to send one of mine... men are really quite slow... i have had guys send pics of their junk where they obviously have warts, or have had other sexually transmitted diseases, and some of them just don't have a lot going on down there if you know what i mean.(but of course they swear they have 9 inches) either way, conversation ends right there.... "oh no i don't have any diseases" and the pic you get plainly proves otherwise... I say take advantage of their lesser intelligence it does pay off!
 NYF71
Joined: 3/19/2012
Msg: 153
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/20/2012 7:27:31 AM
I still can't believe the guts it takes to send someone you don't even know a nude photo and expect them to say "Oh wow, look at those abs, we must meet!"

It gives guys a bad name and makes it harder for any woman to really believe they can meet a normal guy on here.
 Iona_Bob
Joined: 3/31/2012
Msg: 154
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/20/2012 8:05:42 AM

i have had guys send pics of their junk where they obviously have warts, or have had other sexually transmitted diseases


Dear gawd!

I'm not even sure the gay porn websites to which I send the "junk" shots will accept those!
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 155
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/20/2012 2:53:52 PM
Sure; send em over.

:)

Have I said that already?
 naturallyredrn
Joined: 4/29/2011
Msg: 156
Naked pictures before meeting
Posted: 8/20/2012 4:00:06 PM
"On a serious note, those who usually ask for more pics (i.e. full-body, naked, revealing, etc.) aren't usually serious about dating. If your pictures are clear and are the most recent pics of yourself, then your fans need to accept what you've posted and if interested in seeing more, the two of you should schedule a proper "meet & greet".

Some men are brilliant!!!!!
See above!
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