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 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 101
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I don't understand why people who are so put off by something can't just keep their noses out of it...I think they are titillated by it and that bothers them...
Hell, I keep seeing the salad tossing and cross dressing threads pop up...I just pass them by... If someone's into that that's their business, I'm not even curious.

The OP had a legitimate question...all the trolls/cyber bullies come out in force and judge...then complain when the forums are boring...or why there are so many lurkers instead of posters...welllllll YOU are why!
 lookin4fun57
Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 102
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/14/2011 8:19:50 PM
It all depends on your partner. You have to be secure enough in your relationship and not let jealousy get in the way. It can be very erotic watching and or being watched.
 stonecastle
Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 103
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Posted: 11/15/2011 6:12:59 AM
By the way many married women are secretly bisexual and often fantasize about having sex with another woman. If they came out and told their husbands I think most of them would enjoy watching their wife having sex with another woman in front of them and even joining in.
 palmer f
Joined: 4/3/2008
Msg: 104
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Posted: 11/15/2011 6:55:26 AM
To each their own, but I have no desire to watch someone smaller than me have sex with my girl. If she was to be into that type of action, then she wouldn't be my cup of tea.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 11/15/2011 8:04:55 AM

By the way many married women are secretly bisexual and often fantasize about having sex with another woman. If they came out and told their husbands I think most of them would enjoy watching their wife having sex with another woman in front of them and even joining in.


I shake my head sometimes when I read things people write..amazing.

Excuse me stonecastle..what, from your experience, would you say that "many" is?
40%, 33%..?
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 11/15/2011 11:21:56 AM
When I was much ,much younger, I had a list of kinky things I wanted to try,I did most of them, my wife, was bisexual
and I did get to watch and join her and her girlfriend, sure it was hot, but not as hot as I imagined it would be
sometimes the idea is more erotic than reality
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 107
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Posted: 11/16/2011 7:46:53 AM

here's one for you.....I'll go one better....

By the way many married men are secretly bisexual and often fantasize about having sex with another man. If they came out and told their wives I think most of them would enjoy watching their husband having sex with another man in front of them and even joining in.


still sound appealing OP???

I would hazard a guess there are more married men that keep their bisexuality hidden than there are married women that hide it. Unfortunately there is still a stigma about bi men. Where bi women are revered and celebrated, bi men are reviled and condemned by many.

I celebrate my bi guy as often as I can.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 11/16/2011 1:41:24 PM
Study after study, has shown most people are attracted to the same sex, some more some less,
Men manifest this attraction, through god like reverence for there favorite sports teem, I cant tell you how many men would rather sit and drool over there favorite football player,rather then have erotic hot sex with there wives
this is really common, talk to women and you will see.....
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 109
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Posted: 11/16/2011 1:48:11 PM


erotic hot sex with there wives


I think many married men would tell you this statement is an oxymoron....
 ackman1465
Joined: 10/30/2007
Msg: 111
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Posted: 11/17/2011 12:46:28 PM
I think that "offering up" your G/F to some other guy is the ULTIMATE insult to both her AND to YOU!!!!!

How better to show her that you think nothing more of her than that she is "your" piece of meat to be shared, such as it is, with others.....

You girls who said anything resembling "No way," stick to your guns.....
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 112
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/17/2011 10:34:18 PM
suinds good- i tink of it- need to get v rite gf though- most r insecure bout sex.
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 113
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Posted: 11/17/2011 10:35:14 PM
yeah i like thats idea mfm
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 114
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/18/2011 7:31:42 AM
Woody Harrelson sure as Hell regretted it....

 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 115
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/18/2011 10:45:06 AM

I think that "offering up" your G/F to some other guy is the ULTIMATE insult to both her AND to YOU!!!!!

How better to show her that you think nothing more of her than that she is "your" piece of meat to be shared, such as it is, with others.....


...THAT's you PROJECTING.....funny too because your main picture is not only a rule breaking group shot.....it's a picture of an OLD man wishing he could do more than just take a picture with those young pieces of meat!
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 116
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/20/2011 5:20:32 PM
^^^ It's definitely not for the faint of heart or insecure!
 Becoming_Me
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 117
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/20/2011 10:53:59 PM
I have never done it, but as a concept I am not against it either I would be willing to talk to my partner about it if he was interested in doing something like that, and we would come to a desiccation together, I feel that relationships are best when all parties try to be open minded. However, I would have to say that I would draw the line at being with another woman for my man. Woman just don't turn me on, and should things be turned around it does nothing for me to watch my guy with another woman rightly or wrongly.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
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Posted: 11/21/2011 10:10:22 AM
Sharing with others can be a great experience if all parties are comfortable with it.
 BigJ_78
Joined: 2/15/2011
Msg: 119
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/21/2011 10:20:01 AM
Ive done both...Watched my ex-gf's get f-cked, and f-cked other guys wives as hubby watched..Its usually very hot

Its just sex
 stonecastle
Joined: 2/14/2007
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Posted: 11/22/2011 6:29:35 AM
The fun about it is that if you are man you are being teased by your wife when she has sex with someone else in front of you. She is saying "watch me having fun with someone else don't you feel so jealous? I am trying to make you jealous".
 pensman
Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 121
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/22/2011 6:38:00 AM
Would you like to try Vixen
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 122
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 12:43:51 PM
def a turn on for me. But i can only watch for so long before i have to join in.
 Rave88
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 123
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 12:50:42 PM
yes, yes and yes. My man is looking for the 2nd guy for me. It will be only my 2nd man.
 cutenperky2
Joined: 8/2/2011
Msg: 124
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 1:29:32 PM
Yikes thats not for me and never will be and to be honest if a guy asked me to do that it would be the last time he saw me. Sex is a meaningful thing to me between two people who have feelings for each other. I dont believe that bond you have should be shared its private.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 125
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Posted: 11/23/2011 1:47:38 PM
^^^ Some people don't use sex to bond...they bond on a deeper level and think of sex as a fun activity to share...

...And what makes everyone thinks the guy is the one who is always asking? My experience is that most swinger couples are female led.

People who are insecure about their partner leaving them because someone else pleased them more are insecure with their own performance and the bond they have. If your bond hinged solely on sex performance then it wasn't much of a bond. They also aren't up to learning from others then becoming the accumulation of the best.


VVVVV EDIT to Sexypunk girl below.......You're correct...what you give him is something that he may never find again! Unless you get totally psycho on him he's gonna stick around...maybe even more so than otherwise.
basically the more you fulfill someone's desires in one are the more they can overlook a deficiency in another. .....he probably could care less if you can't cook for example!
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