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 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 51
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Safe place to meet for sex? Should you be having sex with someone you don't trust enough to see his house?? I would hope not!


uhm.......would it really matter?
If a stranger is going to kill you after meeting for sex......I'm pretty sure he/she isn't going to care where they murder you!

two very good points!



I just think that it would be a good idea to have a safe call for straight sex meetings, as well.

There is a lot of safety procedures vanillas could use. Character references. Previous partners.
but I'm sure that's just as beyond range of comfort for 'nillas as healthy flogging.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 52
Safe place to meet for sex
Posted: 11/21/2011 1:19:10 PM
The changing room at a Victoria's Secret.

 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 53
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Posted: 11/21/2011 1:27:21 PM

The changing room at a Victoria's Secret.


Good god outmind.

Umm.... Which one?

Ohhh. Umm op yeah- safe place.

Why play safe ?





My post is too short- I get to list more short things
besides men, the rope I want to tie outmind
up in, my lunch hour, this dress.....
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 54
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Posted: 11/21/2011 1:40:07 PM

The changing room at a Victoria's Secret.

You are going to have a lot of women wanting to go shopping with you now OutMind.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 11/21/2011 2:01:29 PM

the rope I want to tie outmind
up in, my lunch hour, this dress....


Mmmmmm
 w4qed-1
Joined: 5/11/2012
Msg: 56
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Posted: 11/26/2012 8:45:52 AM
My feelings about a safe place is where ever they each feel comfortable. If it happens to be their first time together, then espically for the woman would be for her to let one of her friends know where, when and who she is going to be with.
 Hotmerlot
Joined: 10/9/2012
Msg: 57
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Posted: 11/26/2012 8:22:09 PM
Sex with a stranger is a high risk activity. There is no safe place except a public place. And well.... that could backfire.
 carelesswhisper00
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 11/26/2012 8:52:55 PM
Ever been to a strip joint? Happens there all the time in the back corners.
 eattoplease55
Joined: 10/22/2012
Msg: 59
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Posted: 11/27/2012 4:03:19 AM
I would think if its the physical your looking for its steps you should be doing too......aaaa...your young and even at your age the idiots are abundant......meeting to talk about expectations in that area would be good.....and as for the meeting place ....yours or his place wouldnt be a good idea....unless your wanting him to know your location and visa versa.....while ive never been in that position nor do I care too.....Ima wine and dine kind of guy and like to know her bfore anything else takes place.....and even then its a mistake...lol
 CraigMusselman
Joined: 10/6/2012
Msg: 60
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Posted: 11/27/2012 6:37:14 AM
a gay guys house. so there is a man there who wont join in if you need help
 reidcali
Joined: 2/28/2012
Msg: 61
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Posted: 11/27/2012 7:22:08 PM
my house....lol
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 11/27/2012 7:54:27 PM
Inder a bridge.

On a roller coaster.

While jumping off an airplane.

Behind the a curtain at a show.

The roof of a house.

Camping with parents on the next tent.

Camping with children on the next tent.

Elevator (betweens floors 23 and 24)
 1388SmartBlonde
Joined: 5/15/2011
Msg: 63
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Posted: 11/27/2012 10:26:58 PM
Meet at a nice hotel bar...if the guy is not a creep and has the $250 to spring for the room (don't settle for less), there are beds (and hotel security) just a few steps away. Of course, if he is a cop, you might be arrested for prostitution but hey, isn't that still better than being found decapitated and raped in a shallow grave?
 Geffreyy
Joined: 11/20/2012
Msg: 64
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Posted: 11/27/2012 11:48:26 PM

This sounds like an ad listed on Craigslist, its full of useless despicable people


I totally agree with this comment. People on Craig's list are terrible!

Just the other day I innocently responded to an ad by saying: "Do you like anal penetration, and what are your thoughts on swallowing cum."

She responded: "Dude, I'm just trying to sell a futon."

What a prude!
 Linda41289
Joined: 8/17/2012
Msg: 65
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Posted: 11/28/2012 8:59:15 AM
The parking lot of a very public place.

Just kidding!!!!

Seriously I can't think of anywhere you could go to be safe while having sex with a stranger..
 Rapunzel1964
Joined: 10/25/2012
Msg: 66
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Posted: 11/28/2012 9:47:51 AM
I would think that the fact that there really is no safe way to do it with a total stranger would be one of the motivations for doing it in the first place- the danger factor.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 67
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Posted: 11/28/2012 10:06:30 AM
I have had sex with strange women several times over the years ..I havent killed anyone yet ..and im a big boy i can take care of myself


some of them were stranger than others

but really I prefer to know a little about a woman I meet for sex but there are times when a little stranger sex is just the ticket for both men and women

if I didnt have a place I would spring for a hotel ..whether she was a stranger or not
 2Sweet4U2
Joined: 5/29/2011
Msg: 68
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Posted: 11/28/2012 10:20:06 AM
Back seat of your car! Behind a bar, Men's bathroom etc
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 69
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Posted: 11/28/2012 4:01:39 PM
the absolute perfect place to meet for sex is MY house....3rd bedroom on the right, 1st bedroom is an office with mounds of stuff...2nd. bedroom is uhhh well thats the room i practice my satanic worships of my ever closest friend the devil....
3rd bedroom is where it all happens...the meaning of life, the perpetual sounds of that "sound"
 StevieC55
Joined: 12/30/2010
Msg: 70
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Posted: 11/28/2012 5:21:51 PM
When thinking about visiting your married 'friend' at her home-

Just remember, guns don't kill people- but husbands that come home early do
 Bigcalm
Joined: 11/4/2012
Msg: 71
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Posted: 11/28/2012 5:42:22 PM
Back seat of a car...
 Linda41289
Joined: 8/17/2012
Msg: 72
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Posted: 11/28/2012 6:50:43 PM
Right! Everyone likes a little danger! But...I'll take "pretend danger" over real danger anyday..
 Geffreyy
Joined: 11/20/2012
Msg: 73
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Posted: 11/28/2012 7:09:06 PM
Okay, being serious, I've got your back bro.

This is what you do, prostyle:
You can go to his place (or a motel if you please), place doesn't necessarily matter, any place can be a safe place, the real question you should be asking is how you can go about making it a safe place, that is what I'm going to teach you: While you are in front of your short-term suitor call one of your friends. During this conversation with your friend make sure to tacitly interject into the conversation the place where you will be going to have sex. Don't mention that you are going there to have sex, just mention that you are going there. If you are going to the short-term suitor's place, give your friend the address, if you are going to a motel tell your friend which motel. But, remember to make sure this conversation takes place infront of your short-term suitor so that he overhears the conversation. This way he will know that someone has your back and you will also feel more at ease knowing that someone is aware of your location. He will not dare try anything funny if such a scenario is set up.

A friend of mine does this all the time and she has never been raped or otherwise harmed in any way.

Enjoy your sexual excursions. Carpe Diem!
 benjameson68
Joined: 9/7/2012
Msg: 74
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Posted: 11/29/2012 11:47:07 AM
The hotel thing is the best way if you dont want each other to know where you live. I even would meet outdoors in the woods somewhere I love having sex outdoors!
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 12/3/2012 8:16:15 AM
The doctors office,, who pays for the test afterwords,, That should discussed before hand,, ,,,OMG was that really a question OP..
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