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 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 51
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Safe?

I prefer a leather topped inlaid desk at the Pentagon with a" tazer" strapped to my ankle.

If you don't feel safe with a man why the hell are you going to have coitus with him?

Get some Tequila first..You won't care if its the Four seasons or an I Hops parking lot.

Gawd........
 platofish
Joined: 8/30/2011
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Posted: 11/21/2011 9:32:17 AM
Her place, or a motel.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 53
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Posted: 11/21/2011 9:33:29 AM


I have seen a lot of people on here say dont go to a guys house on a first date and such. I was just curious to as, if two people where to meet u for just sex what would be the safest way to go about doing so?


@LilMissSunshine
My house is safe. No really, it is! Come on, no worries...
Oh, you live in Wisconsin, oh well. If you happen to cross about 4 states northward lemme know

And I may be old school, but I never have sex on a first date. Neither on a second. Usually on the third, if I feel its worth a third date and she's at the same place I am. And for that, well, anywhere she feels comfortable.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 54
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Posted: 11/21/2011 9:34:57 AM

I prefer a leather topped inlaid desk at the Pentagon with a" tazer" strapped to my ankle.



HOLY SH*T! Anyone ever dates Peppermint better watch their as*es
 Signdog57
Joined: 6/14/2011
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Posted: 11/21/2011 10:05:39 AM
My place is SAFE! Brian
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 56
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Posted: 11/21/2011 10:50:55 AM

Safe place to meet for sex? Should you be having sex with someone you don't trust enough to see his house?? I would hope not!


uhm.......would it really matter?
If a stranger is going to kill you after meeting for sex......I'm pretty sure he/she isn't going to care where they murder you!

two very good points!



I just think that it would be a good idea to have a safe call for straight sex meetings, as well.

There is a lot of safety procedures vanillas could use. Character references. Previous partners.
but I'm sure that's just as beyond range of comfort for 'nillas as healthy flogging.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 11/21/2011 1:19:10 PM
The changing room at a Victoria's Secret.

 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
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Posted: 11/21/2011 1:27:21 PM

The changing room at a Victoria's Secret.


Good god outmind.

Umm.... Which one?

Ohhh. Umm op yeah- safe place.

Why play safe ?





My post is too short- I get to list more short things
besides men, the rope I want to tie outmind
up in, my lunch hour, this dress.....
 WinstonDoubtfire
Joined: 7/29/2009
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Posted: 11/21/2011 1:30:32 PM
Frozen foods aisle at your local supermarket.
If he gets to frisky, you can just let him have it with a hungry man frozen dinner.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 11/21/2011 1:40:07 PM

The changing room at a Victoria's Secret.

You are going to have a lot of women wanting to go shopping with you now OutMind.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 11/21/2011 2:01:29 PM

the rope I want to tie outmind
up in, my lunch hour, this dress....


Mmmmmm
 w4qed-1
Joined: 5/11/2012
Msg: 62
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Posted: 11/26/2012 8:45:52 AM
My feelings about a safe place is where ever they each feel comfortable. If it happens to be their first time together, then espically for the woman would be for her to let one of her friends know where, when and who she is going to be with.
 Hotmerlot
Joined: 10/9/2012
Msg: 63
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Posted: 11/26/2012 8:22:09 PM
Sex with a stranger is a high risk activity. There is no safe place except a public place. And well.... that could backfire.
 carelesswhisper00
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 11/26/2012 8:52:55 PM
Ever been to a strip joint? Happens there all the time in the back corners.
 eattoplease55
Joined: 10/22/2012
Msg: 65
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Posted: 11/27/2012 4:03:19 AM
I would think if its the physical your looking for its steps you should be doing too......aaaa...your young and even at your age the idiots are abundant......meeting to talk about expectations in that area would be good.....and as for the meeting place ....yours or his place wouldnt be a good idea....unless your wanting him to know your location and visa versa.....while ive never been in that position nor do I care too.....Ima wine and dine kind of guy and like to know her bfore anything else takes place.....and even then its a mistake...lol
 CraigMusselman
Joined: 10/6/2012
Msg: 66
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Posted: 11/27/2012 6:37:14 AM
a gay guys house. so there is a man there who wont join in if you need help
 ^campfires^
Joined: 4/24/2012
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Posted: 11/27/2012 7:03:58 AM
There is no place that's automatically safe, some might be slightly "safer", and you can do things to make them "safer".

While not for sex, but for dating, I have done my house. But, I had extensive conversation chains with them, full legal names, real home phone numbers, dates of birth, extensive internet searches, and full professional background checks. However, it is also a risk to exchange that information with a stranger. I also had additional credibility from corporate websites where my name and picture was displayed. (They were all GREAT dates!)


I just think that it would be a good idea to have a safe call...
Good advice. Your "safety contact" also has all the contact information. You call immediately before entering and must call back within 5 minutes. That number is then in your phone, and all you have to do is hit send, and they know to call the police if they later get a hang up call from you. An ex-wife used me as her contact. I would receive calls and texts with names, addresses, license plate numbers and phone numbers. Sometimes 4 different ones a night. (shakes head)

I'd be more worried about her bf robbing my house while I was in the motel room.


You can get shot in a movie theater, stabbed/mugged/kidnapped on the sidewalk, or poisoned/drugged at a pub. No meeting or sex is ever "safe".

There is always the parking lot of the police station at shift change. Might be pretty exhilarating!

Keep Fishing!
 reidcali
Joined: 2/28/2012
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Posted: 11/27/2012 7:22:08 PM
my house....lol
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 11/27/2012 7:54:27 PM
Inder a bridge.

On a roller coaster.

While jumping off an airplane.

Behind the a curtain at a show.

The roof of a house.

Camping with parents on the next tent.

Camping with children on the next tent.

Elevator (betweens floors 23 and 24)
 1388SmartBlonde
Joined: 5/15/2011
Msg: 70
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Posted: 11/27/2012 10:26:58 PM
Meet at a nice hotel bar...if the guy is not a creep and has the $250 to spring for the room (don't settle for less), there are beds (and hotel security) just a few steps away. Of course, if he is a cop, you might be arrested for prostitution but hey, isn't that still better than being found decapitated and raped in a shallow grave?
 Geffreyy
Joined: 11/20/2012
Msg: 71
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Posted: 11/27/2012 11:48:26 PM

This sounds like an ad listed on Craigslist, its full of useless despicable people


I totally agree with this comment. People on Craig's list are terrible!

Just the other day I innocently responded to an ad by saying: "Do you like anal penetration, and what are your thoughts on swallowing cum."

She responded: "Dude, I'm just trying to sell a futon."

What a prude!
 Linda41289
Joined: 8/17/2012
Msg: 72
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Posted: 11/28/2012 8:59:15 AM
The parking lot of a very public place.

Just kidding!!!!

Seriously I can't think of anywhere you could go to be safe while having sex with a stranger..
 Rapunzel1964
Joined: 10/25/2012
Msg: 73
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Posted: 11/28/2012 9:47:51 AM
I would think that the fact that there really is no safe way to do it with a total stranger would be one of the motivations for doing it in the first place- the danger factor.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 74
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Posted: 11/28/2012 10:06:30 AM
I have had sex with strange women several times over the years ..I havent killed anyone yet ..and im a big boy i can take care of myself


some of them were stranger than others

but really I prefer to know a little about a woman I meet for sex but there are times when a little stranger sex is just the ticket for both men and women

if I didnt have a place I would spring for a hotel ..whether she was a stranger or not
 2Sweet4U2
Joined: 5/29/2011
Msg: 75
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Posted: 11/28/2012 10:20:06 AM
Back seat of your car! Behind a bar, Men's bathroom etc
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