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 browneyesseeking
Joined: 1/12/2013
Msg: 101
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Ummm.. My take on your question...

Basically you are entrusting your life to anyone you choose to have sex with. Even with protection you could contract a serious std. So in my books, if you trust someone enough to have sex with them, why wouldn't you trust them enough to go to their house??
 NewYorkFan1
Joined: 6/30/2013
Msg: 102
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Posted: 8/20/2013 8:28:50 PM
Back in the day there were plenty of motels in the area you cold rent a room for just a few hours.
I assume they are still available. Probably still even still have the same sheets on the beds from 30 years ago!!!
 Doublju
Joined: 6/9/2011
Msg: 103
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Posted: 8/21/2013 9:40:49 PM
In the woods in the darkness near the shadows.
 Doublju
Joined: 6/9/2011
Msg: 104
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Posted: 8/21/2013 9:43:44 PM
Why meet for sex? do the right thing and find the person you love and get married. Stop being dirty and disgusting.
 35brock
Joined: 3/20/2013
Msg: 105
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Posted: 8/22/2013 8:23:07 PM
You can go to a swingers / sex club.
 ShelbySask4friend1
Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 106
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Posted: 8/23/2013 2:36:55 AM
Meet at one or more of these locations;
-parents bedroom, (either parent)...
-Laundry room (if in apartment)...
-YMCA...
-Public transit...
-An abandoned, condemned, boarded up old house...
-Any public washroom...
-Under a bridge...
-My bedroom(king bed)...
-In a vehicle(does not have to be either of yours)...
-A random backyard with a trampoline in it...
-The Zoo...
-Elementary school playgrounds(avoid high school or collage areas)...
-Walmart...
-A fitting room ( preferably a lingerie one)...
-Photo booth in the mall (If you can still find one)
-Cemetery (common)
 Arlo_Troutman
Joined: 6/25/2013
Msg: 107
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Posted: 8/23/2013 7:31:17 AM
In the bedroom section of a department store: there'll be cops and mall security surrounding you in no time flat. Seems like an extremely safe place to me...
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 108
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Posted: 8/24/2013 2:04:56 AM
The Ritz Carlton in Boston.


Under the Pyramids.


Aruba, Peru and Paris

Good grief.
 mogrl42
Joined: 4/16/2007
Msg: 109
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Posted: 8/24/2013 6:15:51 AM
If you have to worry about being in danger when meeting him you shouldn't meet him at all.Buy some toys instead.
There is no safe place when meeting someone you are not comfortable with.
 nubeginnings64
Joined: 4/8/2012
Msg: 110
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Posted: 8/24/2013 8:06:22 AM
No house 1st dates are to avoid the expectation of sex. Doesn't apply to those who have no such inhibitions & are meeting up with 2 people just for the sex. A motel or hotel is neutral ground to get off in & you can do a first meet in public to decide if you even want to follow though.
 relacks1982
Joined: 12/29/2013
Msg: 111
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Posted: 5/15/2014 8:52:08 PM
well, around here, late at night, you can park on dirt roads. there is always the neutral ground of a hotel. but, being alone with a stranger could always prove to be dangerous. guess it just depends on how bad you want it.
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 112
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Posted: 5/16/2014 8:28:48 AM
The laundry room, while drying some towels.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 113
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Posted: 5/16/2014 1:44:12 PM
My accountant's office. I get screwed there a lot

:)
 SILLYGIRL111
Joined: 11/30/2012
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Posted: 5/16/2014 4:49:59 PM
In the doctors office when you both pass the test for not having any STDS!
 Eric_Summit
Joined: 11/3/2009
Msg: 115
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Posted: 5/16/2014 5:15:08 PM

Posted by sillygirl111:
"In the doctors office when you both pass the test for not having any STDS!

That welcomed news would likely "take the edge off of things" for the excited new couple. LOL.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 116
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Posted: 5/17/2014 9:50:14 AM
Hotel or swingers / sex clubs. They usually have multiple rooms.
 Bebedeleau
Joined: 2/25/2013
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Posted: 5/17/2014 11:34:07 AM
A random backyard with a trampoline in it...


*sigh* .... memories ....

 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 118
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Posted: 5/17/2014 8:42:31 PM
goodness, I once got to use a trampoline in the front yard, with a tent over it. It was a great sleepover,but the relationship wouldn't have lasted the winter. Plus, where would you put the condoms?
 to_tashi
Joined: 9/23/2013
Msg: 119
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Posted: 5/21/2014 8:16:42 AM
@gto: Trampoline? Bouncy sex? How did that go? I'm curious…. Lol.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 120
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Posted: 5/21/2014 10:32:24 AM
makes doggy a little unstable, if you tend to get distracted easy. Its not exactly like waterbed sex, tho you might think it would be. and outdoor sex on an October night gets cold outside the sleeping bag. not a place to leave the condoms :)
 Bebedeleau
Joined: 2/25/2013
Msg: 121
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Posted: 5/22/2014 11:13:32 PM
^^^ :) We have something in common, it was in October for me as well. The person found me on facebook a couple years ago and simply emailed this:

"Remember? I do. cold, muddy, wet, but worth it."

I looked back in my mail when I originally read the post :)

I just replied (because I'm not available) "I remember it well."

That was an understatement :)
 upsidedownmonsters
Joined: 5/15/2014
Msg: 122
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Posted: 5/24/2014 9:33:31 AM
I love the women who come in and add some puritanical, holier-than-though unhelpful answer. If you're judging, why comment?
 KYYSS
Joined: 11/6/2013
Msg: 123
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Posted: 5/24/2014 3:19:18 PM
That's why in this day and age, despite the sexual freedoms out there, why people would hook up with strangers.

Not safe behavior, but to each his own.
 upsidedownmonsters
Joined: 5/15/2014
Msg: 124
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Posted: 5/24/2014 5:29:37 PM
Fun that's why.
 norwegianguy123
Joined: 10/27/2014
Msg: 125
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Posted: 3/15/2015 1:58:20 PM

I have seen a lot of people on here say dont go to a guys house on a first date and such. I was just curious to as, if two people where to meet u for just sex what would be the safest way to go about doing so?

Well OP, you were obviously looking to get boned back then in 2011, off a first-time meet from POF. :)

Going to his place will most likely be safe, but still too much of a chance that it'll be uncomfy/weird/etc if things don't mesh upon face-to-face, ya know? Best to meet at a bar, have a couple drinks to cut thru any potential tension and such -- while having the OPTION to pork afterward known -- and then carry on leaving the bar together.

So where would it be best at? At that point, if you're a good judge of 'character' on the wide-scale -- going to his place can be good. Or yours. Or a cheap Motel room if that makes you feel more comfortable with it.
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