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 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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...wonder how many men will be waiting to hear Thank You now......and then feeling like he didn't get the job done properly when she doesn't say it!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 77
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Posted: 12/13/2011 10:02:23 AM

...wonder how many men will be waiting to hear Thank You now......and then feeling like he didn't get the job done properly when she doesn't say it!

Not me. If I had a preference, it would be to get mauled and have her leave a Get Well card.
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
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Posted: 12/13/2011 10:27:39 AM
I've been with a few women, who after the first time we have had sex, either kissed or didn't kiss me, and proceeded to say thank you.
To me this is a huge turn off and makes me feel more like a piece of meat, than a human being.


So what would you prefer them to say? "Thanks, but no thanks"?

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. The proper response is "You're very welcome."
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 79
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Posted: 12/13/2011 11:01:26 AM

Not me. If I had a preference, it would be to get mauled and have her leave a Get Well card.


Yeah, I'm with abelian on this one...lol


LMAO So funnily put, I'll third that opinion
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 80
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Posted: 12/13/2011 11:18:21 AM
I have thanked a woman for a Dance ..(Hell I always thank a woman for a dance )( even if she steps all over my feet ..LOL)...I have thanked a woman for a kiss ...I have thanked many women for their smile ..and yes I have felt compelled to thank a woman after sex ...and did so
Also I have been thanked by a woman for sex ... yet I have always found it to my advantage when a woman says Thank You to me ..for anything to Exclaim the words No!,Thank You !!
 oly1978
Joined: 7/27/2010
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Posted: 12/13/2011 11:38:51 AM
I've gotten a high five before lol. Just look her in the eyes, smile, and say "yes ma'am, you are welcome" next time she says thank you. She's probably insecure and doesn't know what to do with herself afterwards so make her laugh. I don't know why everyone gets so serious about this stuff. It's supposed to be fun
 oly1978
Joined: 7/27/2010
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Posted: 12/13/2011 11:41:00 AM
I'm the same way, I'll say thanks and give them a baseball pat on the butt...good game lol
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 12/13/2011 8:54:28 PM
I ALWAYS acknowledge the intimate experience in the afterglow verbally in some form of

'thank-you for sharing this time and your body/soul with me'

whether its a long term relationship or not
 mike44tx
Joined: 10/28/2011
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Posted: 12/13/2011 9:21:13 PM
I agree completely with Daisyrose (msg. 75) and all the others who say a thank-you is just fine. It depends on the tone and intent. I have had two women thank me after giving them really good head. They had orgasms that they really needed to have, and the way they said thank-you was really sweet. I think the Op is being too sensitive.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 12/13/2011 11:54:56 PM
They usually don't start saying that until they reach my age......so stay the hell out of the geriatric ward.
 BowHunter216
Joined: 1/16/2011
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Posted: 12/14/2011 5:03:10 AM
PERSONALLY, I think it was a nice gesture on her part to thank you for the entire evening including the good sex. I had a similar experience happen to me. She thanked me for the enjoyable evening, when I got home there was a message from her in my voicemail telling me again how much she enjoyed the evening and that there will be plenty more like it. It made me try even harder to please her on subsequent dates and sex. A truly win win situation. You need to lighten up and learn how to enjoy compliments. Bow Hunter
 AquanGold
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 87
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Posted: 12/14/2011 7:22:07 AM
Doesn`t sound like you`re a good judge of character. Seems to me, you take a women for granted and after your conquest, treat them like Crapola!
Why this hatred of the opposite sex?
 Oneblaqndn
Joined: 12/15/2011
Msg: 88
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Posted: 12/19/2011 11:46:38 AM
I have said thank you to a guy afterwards and it was because he really made me feel good, compared to the last person I was with and I didn't mean any disrespect , but I got great relief and it was wonderful. so I was just expressing to him that I enjoyed him alot.
 matchlight
Joined: 1/31/2009
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Posted: 12/19/2011 2:29:43 PM
I only had that happen once. This girl told me she'd been sort of frustrated for quite a while, and when she finally got completely relieved of that feeling, she thanked me. I was glad for her, but I remember thinking it was sort of a funny thing to say.
 Della D
Joined: 7/10/2008
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Posted: 12/20/2011 2:22:15 PM
Guess I'm kinda late with my post, but never noticed the thread before.

However, that happened to me once also, the guy saying "thank you" afterwards. Honestly, I found it weird as well, sounded so formal after sharing some quite intimate time, and it made me feel I provided a service or did him a favor!

It felt actually so wrong that I was not interested in repeating the experience. There are more personal, intimate and erotic ways to express ones enjoyment and satisfaction after having shared great sex than a formal "thank you".
 getanet
Joined: 6/10/2011
Msg: 91
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Posted: 12/20/2011 2:45:56 PM
If, as a male, you are this sensitive, -get your testosterone levels checked.
Yeah, I've been thanked. It was after the big "O." Next time, try saying,
"It's what I do."
 kcv56
Joined: 11/28/2010
Msg: 92
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Posted: 12/21/2011 12:35:05 AM
Well most times they just roll over and say Oh god!!!! but I think if they thank me too then you did a great job.........
 FyrKrakn
Joined: 11/1/2011
Msg: 93
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Posted: 12/21/2011 4:02:33 AM
I only say thank you when I mean it, and I have truly meant it a time or two.

And yeah, the men were surprised, or chuckled, or said "no, Thank YOU!"

I never would have thought that it was a turn-off, anyway, the sex is over...lol

I haven't been applauded, exactly, I had a BF jump up and angrily shout and point at me "YOU! Need a MUCH younger man!" and he walked off. I said, "OK" and I went to find one.
 onceagain57
Joined: 11/25/2011
Msg: 94
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Posted: 12/21/2011 5:12:06 AM
Yep...if youda done that to a woman ya mighta wanted to leave money too....lol...never had a woman thank me....have had her say she had a good time in conversation....your right tho,its kinda wierd....wouldnt fret over it...takes all kinds doesnt it?...lol....enjoy
 Blakkardaberry
Joined: 2/7/2009
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Posted: 12/21/2011 3:26:45 PM
Could it have been thank you for a lovely evening or thanks for not giving me 3 min of foreplay or could it have just been a nice way of saying your friken awesome in bed. I have had thank you's and later found out that was the first time that particular woman had ever had an orgasm. Interesting enough there are women out there that have not. Not saying its normal but its possible. Maybe your own insecurities are getting in the way of you truly enjoying someone genuinely telling you that you know what your doing. I known enough women to honestly say some women/men don't know what there doing and to all the women that do I say a hearty thank you. You are the reason I love women!
 Hands of gold
Joined: 11/12/2008
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Posted: 12/21/2011 3:55:39 PM
Seriously OP? is this a Seinfeld episode? Why don't you find a real reason to run and hide from someone.

It's your life. . . . but I would choose other problems to complain about.
 NJ_Phil
Joined: 10/1/2011
Msg: 97
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Posted: 12/21/2011 5:38:13 PM
I actually like the score card suggestion.

9.0------9.5-------9.5-------8.5--------9.5

Maybe 2 buttons on each end table, 1 for crowds cheering and the other for Boos.
 ChillinChill
Joined: 6/17/2011
Msg: 98
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Posted: 12/21/2011 5:47:22 PM
My man and I always thank each other and I sure do hope it makes him feel like the delicious hunk of man meat that he is!!! Oh yeah.
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 99
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Posted: 12/21/2011 7:28:38 PM
i think some men will take a thank youafter sex as a complimant like yup im good my d ick is good an she will be back for more..as for women saying thank you to them after sex implies o heres 20bucks on the dresser thanks for letting me relive myself on you..


i can't stand ads from men saying looking for a release

FYI isnt everybody looking for a release whether it be from money problems people who have kids an need extra help or just family an life issues in general we all mite as well have need a release on the page hell i need a release from fake actors an liars but it would do me no good because that line is so bagged up i might as well go about my business try to enjoy fun times with friends an fam an come back an see if the line is any shorter..
 FyrKrakn
Joined: 11/1/2011
Msg: 100
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Posted: 12/22/2011 3:27:17 AM
^^^^ LOL

OT:

I have a friend who is trying to quit smoking, so our mutual friend told him to do the "release the need" mantra, and I told him that for all things not good for me or good for me, I am doing the "Just Five" commitment. I do five minutes, and intend to spread it to fifteen or more as I get better, but I tell myself, I can wait five minutes, or I cad "do" five minutes.... FINALLY, my dishes are done most of the time than not, lol

Every now and then, you hear him blow out a breath and slowly say "release the need" and then another breath, "Just five".
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