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 Feather21
Joined: 6/6/2008
Msg: 104
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IA with Della D, it sounds like being thanked for a service, and way too formal.

I also wouldn't see them again! lol
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 105
A Thank you after sex? Women chime in/ men: experience?
Posted: 9/12/2013 6:17:12 AM
the only good response after being thanked for sex is,

"my pleasure"

b/c you aren't lying..well..hopefully :)
 floral2
Joined: 7/10/2013
Msg: 106
A Thank you after sex? Women chime in/ men: experience?
Posted: 9/12/2013 9:56:27 AM
Simply say "you're welcome". I think it was polite gesture and not some type of ulterior motive
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
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Posted: 9/12/2013 12:06:52 PM
Never said thank you but did give a standing ovation to my ex once.

I have been thanked and it felt ODD as hell.

Like I fixed his drain pipe .

Why not just say it was fabulous/divine/awesome/outstanding/ incredible/crazy good?

Thank you? NO THANKS
 35brock
Joined: 3/20/2013
Msg: 108
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Posted: 9/12/2013 2:44:16 PM

Why not just say it was fabulous/divine/awesome/outstanding/ incredible/crazy good?


It is very possible that "thank you" was their way of saying the sex was great or the time they spent with you that day as a whole was great. I don't think this should be a big deal.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
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Posted: 9/12/2013 3:51:46 PM
^^^^^

It sounds like someone did someone a favor ( to just say "thank you" after sex)
It also could sound "cheap" depending on how it's said.


It is very possible that "thank you" was their way of saying the sex was great or the time they spent with you that day as a whole was great. I don't think this should be a big deal.


It's also possible the person was thinking it was pity sex or a duty after the lobster.
It if was a great day and great sex then they should say so.

Just answered the question here.
 wacowboy3
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 110
A Thank you after sex? Women chime in/ men: experience?
Posted: 9/14/2013 10:41:56 AM
The only time it happened to me , was I had a girl friend that was not vocal during sex. You never knew if or when she reached orgasm . She would say Thank You, I needed that when she did. While ok, I would have lot's rather she moaned and said that lol
 35brock
Joined: 3/20/2013
Msg: 111
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Posted: 9/14/2013 2:42:11 PM

Just answered the question here.


Of course. I simply have a different viewpoint. I think the people that are turned off from this alone are overreacting. At least, you can ask the person why and they can clarify their answer.
 Blueline294
Joined: 3/28/2012
Msg: 112
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Posted: 9/14/2013 7:55:48 PM
Thank you and a peck on the cheek.... might not be a good sign.

lol...no I wouldn't think so either :)
 Ladyinred4755
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 113
A Thank you after sex? Women chime in/ men: experience?
Posted: 9/16/2013 11:39:22 AM
LOL, My first husband, from the first time we had sex, to the last time, all the way thru to 10 years, he said "Thank you, baby"
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 114
A Thank you after sex? Women chime in/ men: experience?
Posted: 9/16/2013 1:35:55 PM
I hate it too. I don't need to hear "thank you." Particularly when then they leave me twenties. Come on. I would prefer if they use fifties or hundreds, but twenties. I think women are getting cheap these days.
 Just_Bopping_Around
Joined: 6/28/2013
Msg: 115
A Thank you after sex? Women chime in/ men: experience?
Posted: 9/18/2013 2:30:33 AM
I went out with a girl and we had incredible sex. I told her thank you.

She told me not to thank her because that was freaking weird.

I told her she was right. 'You're welcome'.
 Jasmine_1379
Joined: 8/28/2012
Msg: 116
A Thank you after sex? Women chime in/ men: experience?
Posted: 9/26/2013 6:08:16 PM
I've given high fives, thank yous and compliments - I've also received these from other people and I don't mind at all. I think it's just all and how you take it. I take it as more of positive thing because the other person had fun and that's the goal right? Both people enjoying and connecting. I think the negativity you are feeling comes more from their attitude and even intention, not necessarily what words they used. If they had thanked you and cuddled up and kissed you I think you wouldn't have thought twice... but hey we are all different so who knows?

Side note: Another approach if you really like them is just being honest with the fact that bothers you. I'm all about honesty.
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