Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Relationships  > POF horror story      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 hotmerlot
Joined: 11/3/2011
Msg: 101
POF horror story Page 5 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
If she is really in trouble and you are f**king her then you are not a gentleman.

Just get it over with and give the girl your wallet and pin numbers.
 deere rancher
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 102
POF horror story
Posted: 1/20/2012 6:11:53 PM
OP .. lots of same gender people looking for roomates ...maybe you could help with the first month rent ....also I encourage you to google russian women scams .....and read ....I watched a frend lose 38k to a russian scammer living in the states and the state goverment assist the women in burning him . now , you couldn't pay me to take one out
 Becoming_Me
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 103
POF horror story
Posted: 1/20/2012 7:24:03 PM
It might sound stupid, but be honest. Tell her exactly what you said here. That you like her, but you’re not looking for serious after just two weeks, that you need space, but that you are willing to help her out. If she can’t understand that is her problem not yours and that does not mean that you’re not being a gentleman.
 qualityl
Joined: 10/16/2010
Msg: 104
POF horror story
Posted: 1/20/2012 7:47:05 PM
I hope you had her get a physical. Never know the past history of this poor woman. Helping is great, but life is short. Be smart, if not learn how to be.......
 oneclassygal
Joined: 7/2/2009
Msg: 105
POF horror story
Posted: 1/20/2012 8:42:48 PM
not sure i buy her story,

I am sure when someone is brought over from another country they have a responsibility towards her well being .. especially for nannies..

something is not right with this story, sorry
 Rain587
Joined: 7/9/2011
Msg: 106
POF horror story
Posted: 1/20/2012 9:34:44 PM
Things making me go hmmmmm:

She was to be a Nanny but the wife decided the pretty girl had to go...how did the couple find her and bring her over? Or was she already here? And if they brought her here and legally if that, where is the severance pay? Unless of course (if and only if this story is true) she was hitting on the husband.

If already here, where was she before?

She moves in with you and in two weeks time has "feelings" that are "genuine".

You met her off POF but she had a POF and deleted it......

Summary, "bull*cough*"
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 107
POF horror story
Posted: 1/20/2012 10:24:40 PM


How did it work out OP!!?

I'd say it in Spanish; but Im a bit too stupid



Probably one of those stories best not told hu
 ForumsCreeper
Joined: 1/18/2009
Msg: 108
view profile
History
POF horror story
Posted: 1/21/2012 11:37:30 AM
Sad deal for her, but your getting used for shelter, $$$ etc.

Enjoy the sex while it lasts, she will be moving on soon enough.
 serg35
Joined: 1/10/2012
Msg: 109
POF horror story
Posted: 1/21/2012 12:29:54 PM
You ****ed up dude. Wanted an easy hook up? You've got it. Now deal with the consequences like a man. Be glad she's not a Mexican chick with 12 diseases that makes your****fall off the day after.
 serg35
Joined: 1/10/2012
Msg: 110
POF horror story
Posted: 1/21/2012 12:37:27 PM
****, man, why are you asking for an advice on an internet forum in the first place from these geeks? Deal with your life problems like a man.
 ForumsCreeper
Joined: 1/18/2009
Msg: 111
view profile
History
POF horror story
Posted: 1/21/2012 2:32:05 PM
Serg35 will be getting no Mexican Pu$$y now if she reads the forums.
 luvspjs
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 112
POF horror story
Posted: 1/22/2012 9:54:23 AM
say no!!!

say you have to focus on studying!

maybe google some hostles or shelters for her..... to help

but really you can support her in her own journey without literally financially supporting her rent! haha
 UpperManagement
Joined: 10/27/2011
Msg: 113
POF horror story
Posted: 1/28/2012 12:07:32 AM
I forgot I even posted this. I'm drunk, bored, and came here and what a surprise.

For the people asking for an update:
I posted some classified ads in the newspaper looking for a female Russian roommate and found her a girl to live with. I let her stay with me until I found someone. They are great friends now, and share a nice apartment. She understood that I needed space. Before this, her open work permit came in and I found her a good paying job working with a relative.

We are still together, and things are alright.

Am I being used? Who knows? But it's feels good spending time with her, and it's also a good feeling seeing another human excelling because of your help.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 114
POF horror story
Posted: 1/28/2012 12:59:18 AM
That was a nice update true or not!
 Viviacious1NY
Joined: 1/1/2012
Msg: 115
POF horror story
Posted: 2/2/2012 6:54:06 PM
Sweetie you are being played. Get a church or charity organization to find her someplace to stay. ASAP
 xlmagboy
Joined: 6/28/2010
Msg: 116
POF horror story
Posted: 2/3/2012 12:59:33 AM
Does she know how to make a white or black Russian mix drink? If she does I may be interested in taking her off your hands. I love a gal who knows her drinks.
 mariacba
Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 117
POF horror story
Posted: 2/3/2012 8:56:57 AM
Really unbelievable!!!
 Ashburnguy99
Joined: 1/16/2012
Msg: 118
POF horror story
Posted: 2/3/2012 9:57:50 AM
You know why the OP has not responded recently? She took his laptop!
 OzzGirl22
Joined: 8/17/2009
Msg: 119
POF horror story
Posted: 2/3/2012 10:04:55 AM
This is one of those internet dating scams. Next thing she will be asking you for money.
Get rid of her now.
 CarsAreScary
Joined: 6/10/2010
Msg: 121
POF horror story
Posted: 2/4/2012 2:26:24 PM
I didn't scroll to read the second part of the horror story but did it turn out that the Russian girl was actually the brother of a set of twins but raised as the daughter who died in a boating accident when they were children? If anyone gets that reference.. you're awesome.
 TOEDWY
Joined: 5/30/2011
Msg: 122
POF horror story
Posted: 2/5/2012 8:36:31 AM
Message # 3 pretty much nailed the answer in my humble opinion. Good luck shaking that one!
 kymberkys
Joined: 8/12/2011
Msg: 123
view profile
History
POF horror story
Posted: 2/5/2012 5:54:32 PM
Op you are in no way obligated to house her by any means.
And your going on what just the fact she said the ol lady didn't want her around her man?
Correct me if im wrong but doesn't all this have to be set up before hand with her moving here.
I.E. the host family has seen her or at least pix of her?
Op she's taken you for a ride. If nothing else blame it on your housing and tell her they don't allow two people in there or they have to be students or something..
 kasandroid
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 124
POF horror story
Posted: 2/5/2012 6:38:03 PM
Lordy can't you people read the OP's update? Try to read the same page entirely that you post on, sweet lord, she's not living with him anymore.

ABC 123
 OscarDeGrouch
Joined: 1/24/2012
Msg: 125
POF horror story
Posted: 2/9/2012 12:22:51 PM
You've been had
Show ALL Forums  > Relationships  > POF horror story