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 windchymes
Joined: 11/29/2008
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Okay, hold the bus. You said:

"I know that having sex unprotected can be a mistake, but it happened, "

No, having sex unprotected ONE time "happened". The second time it "happened" was just stupidity on your part, since you knew it HAD happened, so it COULD happen again, and probably WOULD happen again, and admit it, you WANTED it to happen again. This is the time to put on your big girl panties and get some form of birth control, whether it' s buying the condoms yourself, since StudlyGuy obviously doesn't have the smarts to, or seeing the doctor or Planned Parenthood and getting on birth control pills.

When a guy ejaculates, or cums, there are millions of sperm in what he delivers. In that pre-ejaculate, pre-cum, or whatever you want to call the shiny stuff running down the tip of his penis while you are still messing around but he hasn't stuck it in yet, there are still hundreds or even thousands of sperm present, just waiting to connect with your egg. I hope you at least know how many sperm it takes to make the egg into a baby........

And technically, he doesn't even have to stick it in you at all to get you pregnant. It is entirely possible to conceive if he's just rubbing around on the outside, or putting in"just the tip". A hardy sperm can land outside the vaginal opening and start swimming, and under the right conditions could very possibly find an egg to mate with. It's unusual, but it does happen.

BTW, it only takes ONE.
 *army mom*
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 27
Does unprotected sex with NO ejaculation lead to pregnancies?
Posted: 12/21/2011 7:32:52 AM
Msg 3 ... anal sex & oral sex = pregnancy?

Ummmmm ........... wow.

You got this information where??

 SC67
Joined: 6/21/2009
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Posted: 12/21/2011 8:47:18 AM

i don't have any kids

not yet!

As a very smart friend told me many years ago...it's just like basketball. You dribble before you shoot.
 ForumFilly
Joined: 5/14/2008
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Does unprotected sex with NO ejaculation lead to pregnancies?
Posted: 12/21/2011 10:46:12 AM
Let's put it this way... my son is 42 yrs old and his father told me the same BS story when I was 17 and I fell for it. It took one time and I was pregnant so YEAH, you can definitely become pregnant even if the man pulls out or doesn't ejaculate. Sperm are determined little devils!
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 12/21/2011 11:17:56 AM
For those of you that wish to remain ignorant about pre-cum, do nothing but continue to spead urban myths generated by the drug companies that wish to sell you something.

For the rare few of you that really wish to learn something based on lab research and facts, simply google "pink pleasure place" or just go to www.pinkpleasureplace.com ....you will find a search window in the upper left hand corner. type in "pre-cum".....and for God sakes READ IT ALL! for those of you that are too impatient, scroll down just below the male anatomy drawing and just read questions and answers.

The "Pink pleasure place" is sex education site covering hundreds of topics for women. My daughter, while in med school, particapated in much of the research and lab work.

When you get done....please come back here and tell me about the millions of sperm in everybodies pre-cum.
 TuffGuy666
Joined: 11/22/2011
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Posted: 12/21/2011 11:21:47 AM
"He claims that I could not get pregnant, but is he right?"


He is absolutely wrong. There may be a small amount of sperm-laden semen on the tip of any erection.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 12/21/2011 11:23:11 AM

i followed your advice and bought a first response early result pregnancy test. It will tell me if I'm pregnanct 6 days prior to my first late cycle. I took the test and it showed one line, which means not pregnant. However, I'm still skeptical so I will take it again on Saturday and on Friday the 30th. What a great way to celebrate the holidays and my birthday.

I have almost 11 yr old proof that home pregnancy tests are unreliable. Get to a doctor now.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 12/21/2011 12:02:04 PM
^^^^Get to a doctor now????....what's the panic rush?...if she's pregnant, she's pregnant...the freakin test isn't going to make it go away.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 12/21/2011 12:14:11 PM

^^^^Get to a doctor now????....what's the panic rush?...if she's pregnant, she's pregnant...the freakin test isn't going to make it go away.

Because "IF" she is pregnant, she's going to need to know ASAP so she can make an informed decision on what to do. Plus if there's any STIs that need treatment, she should take care of that ASAP as well.

"IF" she's not pregnant, she should have the STI tests done anyway and get onto birthcontrol before some other man talks her into having unprotected sex again.

Putting off knowing isn't life or death, no. It is important for her to know... one way or the other.
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
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Posted: 12/21/2011 12:20:20 PM
I never understood the dynamic of home pregnancy kits.

You pay as much for the kit as you would for a doctor's visit, so why not just visit a doctor and get some face-to-face time and advice?

If you are NOT pregnant, you still spent the money, so why not spend your dollars with a professional instead of a cardboard box?

If you ARE pregnant, you haven't saved a nickel, you've only languished in denial a little longer, because you still have to go see a doctor.

If you are still confused and anxious after a test, and decide to buy another test to confirm your confusion and anxiety .... better to just sign up to give the child away at birth.

NO EJACULATION is a LIE, a MYTH, a MISNOMER. When a guy has sex, something is coming out. Slow, fast, liquid, creamy, gelatinous...SOMETHING is coming out, and men do not have control of when or how much -- as much as they may try.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 12/21/2011 12:29:01 PM
no 1 bby, I don't think we need to worry about her getting pregnant in the future.....after hearing from this panic stricken crowd....I doubt she will ever have sex again, or be caught within a 100 yrds. of a mans crotch.
 Aries_328
Joined: 10/16/2011
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Posted: 12/21/2011 12:31:50 PM
there are a lot of the 'pre-cum' experts here :) Me thinks that accidental premature ejaculation leads to this belief.

Although I think it is rather disturbing that you are not very clear on how sex / pregnancy works it is bad advice to tell you that you cannot get pregnant. Especially if you do not know how it works. The chance of it occurring without ejaculation is very very very low. But like most things in life.... it's possible BUT for other reasons not related to just touching. It requires sperm. How it gets there.... Read a book.


http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12762415



PURPOSE:

To determine if spermatozoa are present in the preejaculatory penile secretion, originating from Cowper's gland.

METHODS:


DESIGN:

Prospective clinical and laboratory study.

SETTING:

Andrology and Sex Counseling Unit, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Academic Teaching Hospital.

PATIENTS:

Five patients referred for premature ejaculation, three for excessive fluid secreted during foreplay and four normal healthy volunteers.

INTERVENTION:

Glass slide smears of preejaculatory Cowper's gland secretion obtained during foreplay from at least two different occasions, and semen samples after masturbation.

MAIN OUTCOME MEASURES:

Microscopic examination of air-dried smears, and routine semen analyses.

RESULTS:

None of the preejaculatory samples contained sperm. All the patients had sperm in routine sperm analyses.

CONCLUSIONS:

Preejaculatory fluid secreted at the tip of the urethra from Cowper's gland during sexual stimulation did not contain sperm and therefore cannot be responsible for pregnancies during coitus interruptus.
 groovygirl69
Joined: 8/19/2011
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Posted: 12/22/2011 11:15:19 AM
Yes. He is right. Pre-ejaculate (Pre-cum) might have sperm in it and thus could cause a pregnancy. Theoretically this is true, as there might be sperm that are still "left over" in the urethra from a previous ejaculation earlier that day or earlier in that same sexual session (either because of masturbation or sexual activity with a partner). Thus if sperm are "left over" in the urethra and then a man's Cowper's glands release pre-ejaculatory fluid, and it comes forth to the tip of the penis during arousal, then there is a chance that some sperm could be carried in this fluid and get into his partner's body, if they are having intercourse without a condom.

That said, research that has examined the content of pre-ejaculatory fluid has rarely found sperm present in it. This does not mean that sperm is never present in pre-ejaculatory fluid; it just means that it does not appear to typically be present.

So while it is possible, it is pretty unlikely.

Still, not a very safe way to live as pre-cum CAN carry STD's.

Be safe.
 kiinunobaka
Joined: 8/14/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/22/2011 5:20:58 PM
*Sigh*, this thread is Exhibit A, demonstrating the fact that the so-called sex ed in the US and A is an abject failure.


I think it's more proof that someone was sleeping through or otherwise distracted during her Sex- Ed course. I had to hear about the ins and out of sex and look at STDs and learn about the 'relationship cake' in 5th, 8th, and 10th grade.. it got more gruesome and horrifying as I got older. And of course almost every year in HS there were people comming in for schoolwide assemblies handing out condoms and talking about their AIDS.



You pay as much for the kit as you would for a doctor's visit, so why not just visit a doctor and get some face-to-face time and advice?

Really? A cheap pregnancy test is $1 and an expensive one is $8... my Gyno co-pays are $25...
 Wordsmith1962
Joined: 11/4/2011
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Posted: 12/22/2011 6:00:32 PM

Five patients referred for premature ejaculation, three for excessive fluid secreted during foreplay and four normal healthy volunteers.


I don’t think I’d be relying on a study that appears to have had all of 12 participants in it for reliable medical advice. Awfully small sample size on which to rely for any significant results.

All the children born to couples where he pulled out before ejaculation speaks to the issue. For all the pseudo expertise that will be found in the forums, I recommend you find yourself a doctor that you are comfortable with and go in prepared with a list of questions you’d like answered. Failing that, most communities have sexual health clinics where nurses and other medical professionals can certainly address your concerns - pregnancy, std's, HIV and AIDS.

You may be a late bloomer but don’t let anyone take advantage of your naivety, arm yourself with some solid information and good luck with your new venture.
 Forumite
Joined: 10/31/2011
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Posted: 12/22/2011 6:10:28 PM
i love this one,,,for " medical advice' im suppose to go to a sight that sounds like a lesbian porn sight??????www.pinkpleasureplace.com ..

really? and where would i look for advice about a heart condition??? www.hugecock.com?

and op.......just be smart for f sakes...........protect yourself and never mind what anyone else says,,,would you be asking us if locks on a door were a good idea because some cat burglar said you don't need them?

and merry x-mas..............that's right i took the "christ" out of christmas,,,,,deal with it
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
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Posted: 12/22/2011 9:01:50 PM

Really? A cheap pregnancy test is $1 and an expensive one is $8... my Gyno co-pays are $25.

Thanks for the update. Now let's think about this. Do you want to base future decisions based on an investment of one-dollar and some cardboard box instructions...???

Is an investment of $25 and the judgement of a professional worth the price of one date at Chili's...???

These should be no-brainers. Sure, it takes time and energy to book your doctor's visit - but don't you want to be certain? We're not talking about a zit.
 interintwined
Joined: 12/19/2011
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Posted: 12/22/2011 9:04:14 PM
Although he did not ejaculate in you fully pre ejaculation can get you pregnant best thing to do is take a test and never have unprotected sex in your life
 Inicia
Joined: 12/21/2007
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Posted: 12/22/2011 9:07:57 PM
Wow it sounds like really unsatisfying sex if you got a baby it will be much more satisfying than the sex... was rubber or no rubber. Can't protect your self from the love you feel for a baby.Good luck
 MsMicki
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Posted: 12/22/2011 9:42:07 PM
hundreds of thousands of babies are proof enough that
"pulling out" is not a guarantee of avoiding pregnancy!!
 Aries_328
Joined: 10/16/2011
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Posted: 12/22/2011 10:29:11 PM

hundreds of thousands of babies are proof enough that
"pulling out" is not a guarantee of avoiding pregnancy!!


PREGNANCY related there is no 100% guarantee other then the 10 foot rule. If you want to look at it as all possible things that can occur. I'm sure someone can come up with an exception for the 10 foot rule.

Proper and good advice is - Avoid at all costs unless your triple coated with multilevel protection.

Responsible advice is to be cautious with at least 2 forms of protection.

In a singles dating environment reasonable precaution is not best advice. In a singles dating environment is OMG WTF you let it touch you!!!!

For the rest of the planet it should be to learn how it works and don't get so freaked out that you cant function because OMG WTF THAT THING TOUCHED ME!!!!

Knowledge is dangerous!

As for what the OP experienced (although I will completely ignore the "no ejaculation" part as I have a feeling it might actually be true unless he was suicidal)

http://www.contracept.org/withdrawal.php The failure rate can be near as much of a 'whoops' as anything else.



This method is estimated to have a 27% failure rate annually among typical users. That means that every year, over 1 in 4 people using withdrawal as their only method of birth control will get pregnant. Failure rates will be lower for couples using withdrawal in combination with another method. Perfect users can expect a failure rate as low as 4%, which actually compares favorably to many other methods.
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 12/22/2011 11:10:01 PM
Listen, I am an in-experienced 34 year old. I know that having sex unprotected can be a mistake, but it happened, and right now what I need to know are the facts. I'm not interested in judgemental opinions. This guy made promises to me and I believed him. Never thought I would be in this room requesting some advice, but her I am. So please have a little more compassion for how I'm feeling.


Her profile:

I saw this website advertised while waiting for the movie to start at the AMC Grapevine Mills Theater; thought it would be worth a try. What makes me unique is I'm different from most other women my age. I am what the title says, a late bloomer! That means I came into relationships later in life. I have aspirations of being a full time mom and housewife, assuming I find a man that is capable of supporting his wife and kids...

...I'm also fond of trying new things and will put an effort to love what the guy loves.

I come from an old fashion upbringing with traditional, conservative values. I don't believe in having sex unless we fall in love. I believe in meeting for coffee first. Going out on that first date with a respectable gentleman. If he likes me, than he can continue dating me, and hopefully he and I will form a real connection. The man I'm with is who I'm true too, unless he tells me that he doesn't want to see me anymore. If that is the case, he needs to have the courage to tell me in person and by no other means.

I am one of a kind and hope that the right guy will have full respect for that. I look forward to hearing from some classy gentlemen


You don't believe in having sex unless you fall in love huh? Yet you admit he was basically a stranger (even with the promises he made)...and you made the same mistake at least 3 times!! ...there is nothing else to repeat here that hasn't already been said...but if you truly followed your 'beliefs' you wouldn't be in this mess...
 OOhMeeOhhMy
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Posted: 12/23/2011 2:59:51 AM
oh lawd..... I bet her inbox has blown up with "nice guys" looking for a serious relationship after this post...

naive at 34... scary..... a baby would be the least of her worries.... going to he doctors is twofold.... pregnancy and possible antibiotics or worse....
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
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Posted: 12/23/2011 5:53:57 AM
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There's still a possibility of the female being pregnant.
 BrookfieldGentlemanTom
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 12/23/2011 6:32:10 AM
sorry all you STD-DEATH police.

sex was made to be done bareback.
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