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 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 51
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itsgary For what it's worth I think you're hot, you're also geographically unavailable, otherwise you'd have already had mail from me!!
 AngelicPassion
Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 52
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/2/2005 11:24:15 PM
They are confident, secure, and happy with who they are and their own sexuality. They know what they want in life and don't "need" someone to make them feel sexy yet "desire" someone to be sexy for. Great thread!
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 53
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/4/2005 1:43:56 PM
Scorpio is right. There is NO substitute for experience and maturity. I mean maturity as in life experience there's only one way to get it and that is to amass a few more birthdays!!
 and still single
Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 54
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/4/2005 5:45:28 PM
i assure you i have amassed plenty of experience
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 55
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/4/2005 6:02:43 PM
itsgary I'm sure you have, I wasn't trying to say anything otherwise. Like i said if you were closer, I'd already have emailed you. I think you're very attractive.

OT: Women over 40 are more self assured and learn to take things in stride. They've got their lives more in order and are more capable of actually going after what it is they want and getting it!
 Montreal_Guy
Joined: 3/8/2004
Msg: 56
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/4/2005 9:09:16 PM
It's a bit like the difference between a new model, and a classic car. ( sorry for the silly male analogy)

They just don't build them like they used to.

The new models are too plastic, and are all designed for looks alone. They might go really fast, but they will be in the shop before you know it.

I want that '66 Mustang type of woman. Something you can slip into, and feel it's real power. Something that was designed for driving, and top performance.

Nothing like a sound of those classic engines, as you red line them.
 fellfromheaven
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 57
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/7/2005 12:45:30 PM
Im 32 but Ive found the older I get,the sexier and more confident I feel.Ive seen so many beautiful women even in their 60s and 70s.I embrace getting older!Look at the gorgeous ladies in this thread
 creekrd
Joined: 3/14/2005
Msg: 58
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/7/2005 7:24:56 PM
A woman who is 40 or over and has taken pride in her self

is the greastest of all of God's creations. PERIOD !!!!!!!
 BBdrgn
Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 59
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/12/2005 2:28:22 PM
You know what's sexy about a woman over 40.....her intelligence!!!!
 Summer Dream
Joined: 7/3/2005
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/12/2005 4:20:46 PM
Knowledge and experience - and the ability to laugh at herself.

Knowing what we like sexually - and when we're comfortable with a partner, the willingness to experiment and learn even more.

Being comfortable with our bodies, no matter the shape, but still working to be healthy and strong.

Having had plenty of time to learn and develop tolerance, personal style, and raise our children.

Open to caring for and being cared for by a true friend and lover.

Knowing that to be soulmates, you have to be friends first.
 Stephanos Primus
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 61
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/12/2005 7:09:37 PM
Haven't read any of the posts (just passing through) but I've got to say... the same things that make a woman of any age sexy.

Maybe I'll just let the main character of the current novel I'm working on speak for me:

"A few minutes later a woman entered, and Pete was instantly shaken out of his routine. Everything about her seemed to affect him... the curve of her lips, the shape of her face, the way she moved, the look in her eyes, her voice. When she put her hand in his to shake it, something like electricity ran up his arm. Time literally stopped for Pete, until he realised he was staring and yanked his hand away. The suddenness of this momentarily startled her, but she flashed a smile that quickly spread to those warm, amazing eyes, and Pete could tell she knew. She knew how fast his heart was racing, how much perspiration he was producing, and what parts of his body were softly and deliciously melting because she was standing so close. Women are from Venus? Hell, this one might be the goddess of beauty incarnate."
 mycorosso
Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 62
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/12/2005 10:28:39 PM
Her pulse and the fact that she's breathing for starters.
 GenuineEd
Joined: 12/11/2004
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/13/2005 1:17:35 AM
Contrary to what these men think, physical appearance is what initially attracts humans to each other. After that, I would say being friendly & open minded if you feel comfortable.
 kitcat822
Joined: 9/14/2005
Msg: 64
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 9/26/2005 3:42:47 PM
we have both inner and outter beauty and we wear it well.....we become more passionate about all aspects of life and truth be known...we are sexy..........lol
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 65
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 9/26/2005 3:58:28 PM
I want to politely disagree with the person who said that what makes an older woman sexy is the same thing that makes a younger woman sexy. Maybe to them, so maybe not so much a disagreement but different perspective. When you're in your 20s as a female, your sex appeal is mostly physical, not that you aren't aware and attuned to your inner qualities. You usually feel mostly sexy because of the way you look. As you mature, you realize there's qualities a lot more important than perfect hair and having your nails polished. It's the confidence from building and being more aware of those inner qualities as you mature that makes the over 40 woman sexier.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 66
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 9/26/2005 4:22:42 PM
leafs Absolutely but I think the inward beauty is something that grows over time. That's really mostly what I was saying. Also, as we "mature" we tend to nurture our inner qualities more and realize they are far more valuable. This is of course a generalization, there are certainly younger women who are not so caught up on their looks and DO value their inner selves. If you look at the magazines for teenage and younger women, they are cover to cover pretty much costmetics and clothes, very few articles or articles ABOUT cosmetics and clothes. The magazines geared toward an older audience have the same things but more articles about friendships, relationships, raising children...
 kitcat822
Joined: 9/14/2005
Msg: 67
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 9/26/2005 9:32:02 PM
hope you feel better
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 68
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/18/2005 10:07:55 AM
f1stdiana I get it too...WAY too much attention here and when i go from the guys my sons' ages, twenty somethings down to 18!! They're fun to hang out with, but as far as a relationship or even dating?? I just can't see it, and I don't know what the attraction or fascination is for them with someone that could be their mother!! hahaha Yeah and personally Freud can kiss my foot!! Don't believe in the Oeipus complex at all.
 Sniper308
Joined: 10/21/2004
Msg: 69
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 2:22:41 PM
Why is it important for a woman over 40 to be concerned about being sexy? For that matter, why is it "important" for a woman of any age to be concerned about being sexy? Totally rhetorical questions on my part; I see all this emphasis on bigger t**s or longer d**ks, in commercials and ads and such, but I don't see hardly any importance placed on just being a good, decent human being... having moral values... continuing with education... experiencing all life has to offer (or as much as possible within one's means)... et cetera.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 70
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:04:01 PM
sniper Well if you're not attracted to a woman who you consider sexy, you're the only male I know of that is. Sexy means appealing to the opposite sex, NOT big boobs and azz...that's another "s" word. Sexiness is not 100% the exterior it's more a confidence that you're looking your best and knowing that you're appealing and a great person. People who like themselves are sexy as hell!
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 71
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:10:00 PM
Nicely said bucs

Being sexy is more about attitude than anything else
 Sniper308
Joined: 10/21/2004
Msg: 72
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:40:53 PM
If it's about attitude, et al, then call it what it is. The question wasn't "What makes a woman over forty appear confident or display a good attitude?"
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 73
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:43:58 PM
>>What makes a woman over 40 sexy?



(I'M JOKING, I'M JOKING...down, ladies!)
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 74
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:50:35 PM
All kidding aside...I would say attitude, and taking good care of herself.
And by attitude, I mean keeping a young, funloving attitude.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 75
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 5:01:50 PM
sniper Well then start a thread like that because you really really don't seem to understand.
OT Over forty women don't "appear" confident they are, and that's what makes them sexy. I don't even know how you "appear" confident, I thought you either were or you weren't.
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