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 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 76
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I was single in my 20s, married in my 30s and single again in my 40s and always dated women around my own age and what a wake up call to be dating again
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 77
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 5:15:37 PM
You know, reading my own post is giving me some new insight into myself.
I said that taking care of herself (looking young?) and keeping a young attitude would make an older woman sexy.
I guess I don't like what happens to a lot of people in their later years. A lot of people become cranky, conservative, boring, and afraid of anything new.
Good grief...I think I may be prejudiced! And I'm approaching 40, so this is more problematic than it seems...
Oh dear.
 Sniper308
Joined: 10/21/2004
Msg: 78
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 5:25:12 PM

sniper Well then start a thread like that because....


Ma'am, there isn't anything in the world that would lead me to start a thread on this website.

As to the original question, I saw then -- and see now -- no logical reason to ask it.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 79
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/21/2005 4:11:14 PM
live Montreal has been a dear friend and is still. I miss his posts...he always made a great contribution. Hmm...not sure what "bohemian" really means, but if it's confident and beautiful, then it fits, because that SO fits you. I've LOVED my 40's, it's been great for me, wouldn't trade it for another 20's ever.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 80
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/26/2005 4:37:49 PM
Please don't feed the troll..
 Cautiously Fishing
Joined: 10/10/2005
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/29/2005 11:40:55 AM
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?

Being over 40!
 Cautiously Fishing
Joined: 10/10/2005
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/29/2005 2:17:43 PM
So simple. So true.

And yes you can, as soon as they let me out.
 nick848
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 83
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 11/4/2005 6:32:17 PM
Their inner beauty surfaces,they are more mature,confident,and sexy.They know what they want and how to get it.Not to mention they are better lovers than young women.
 lovenit96
Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 85
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 11/16/2005 10:11:32 AM
WOW You look amazing!!! :) Just wanted to say hey trulibra
 Bigger Guy
Joined: 10/3/2005
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 11/17/2005 1:32:18 AM
There are lots of over 40 sexy ladies / even more though are not.
Best description: Someone who takes care of themself ... physically and mentally . dresses like she wants to be noticed (no I don't mean slutty / just dressed well ... some people can make anything look great because they feel great and know they are great) someone who is outgoing without being boorish .. someone whom takes an interest in others / not artifically / but is willing to listen ... and has confidence in herself and her abilities.
 Synn
Joined: 8/18/2004
Msg: 87
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?well hears what ive been told by my male friends.........
Posted: 11/28/2005 11:43:33 PM
Hmmmmmm A woman 40 and Up is Hotttttttt ...If she takes care of herself there is NO Competition...She becomes untouchable ...By the younger women .......Throw on some Dolce and a Smile ...mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm........They Radiate ....Are Strong.....Intelligent And when they make you smile ....And watch you sneek a peak at them they Glisten...as I said already MMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmm
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 88
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 12/2/2005 4:22:15 PM
Wow this thread's still going...nice work everyone!! haha Struck a nerve, apparently. Many things are sexy about women over 40, and they're all the sexiest when they're just being themselves.
 Summer Dream
Joined: 7/3/2005
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 12/24/2005 2:32:38 PM
One Fish said:

Men who want to settle down with forty year old women STILL stuff twenty somethings pictures under the mattress and hide them in the bathroom.


Let's just turn this around, shall we?

Women who want to settle down with forty year old men STILL stuff twenty somethings pictures under the mattress and hide them in the bathroom. :-) Either way can be true.

Sure, we look too, but it doesn't mean that we want a 20-something in our bed or as a life partner. A good body can be appreciated and savoured by a man or a woman without wanting to do anything else with it.

I want a mature man who can turn me on, carry on a conversation and enjoy live with me. As a 40-something, I crave snuggling in a warm bed with an attentive man who can take the time to arouse me. Yes, I know what can turn me on, but I want to learn more (and practice!).
 Summer Dream
Joined: 7/3/2005
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 12/26/2005 5:04:35 PM

40 carats of diamond over her body should do the trick


Sounds uncomfortable to me - I'd rather be massaged with some soothing oils by a man with strong hands. :-)

One guy I dated said that older women were sexy because they were unafraid to wear soft flannel nighties to bed. Each to his own, I guess.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 91
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 12/27/2005 9:02:20 AM
linerunner Gee thanks, buddy *blush*!!! How have you been??
 coolhandlegman
Joined: 2/19/2005
Msg: 92
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 4/16/2006 9:28:48 PM
well the sexy thing is when they are over 50 or 40 and have the ability to remove their theeth and have an awsome shape. Love it. Just playiing the truth is no games and still active meaning sexually. All women are sexy no manner of the age as long as they are above 25 it is cool. We men might talk stuff but when it comes down to it like this happen to me once. I was having sex with an ex and she had set it up to have her very big girlfriend come in the room while we was having sex. It was funny at first and I stop but then couldn't play the uncover game any more. So, started to the side acting thing and next thing I knew this other lady was taking off her top. Never before had I been with a big lady before but dang it did make me think. How would it feel. So turn her around and almost had to get a road map but once I found the sweet spot it was on and she became as sex as my ex. But when the lights came back on DAM.
 mycorosso
Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 93
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 4/28/2006 12:03:43 PM
I guess it's the boobs and the snatch for them too!
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 94
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 4/29/2006 7:24:30 AM
Kurt A time machine? How silly, 40 something women are happy being the age we are, thanks. Wouldn't go back to 20 something or 30 something for the world. And many of my 40 something lady friends have no problem finding many men who are enamored with us just like we are.
 sexyleoguy
Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 95
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 4/29/2006 8:27:27 AM
personally it starts with a woman that keeps herself in good shape and there is that confidence that comes with experience of knowing what she really wants.
 learningtofly
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 97
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/24/2006 8:05:12 PM
Bucsgirl you said it best with this description. I wish all of our sisters could live like that. I love being my age and the liberty it allows me...
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 98
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:49:44 AM
Most of my women friends that are 40 + just simply love life. We've raised our kids, we've developed a strong sense of self and most of us have learned to laugh at all the drama that once consumed us. Life is just much easier and filled with substance, laughter, and sincere/honest relationships.
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 100
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 9/4/2006 11:40:20 PM
Is it physical features or is it something else"

Yes!!! I have seen MANY women in their 40's who are incredibly beautiful physically. Gorgeous faces, fantastic figures... stunning! Do they look just like someone in their 20's - nope - but they look even better to me!

They know what grace, class, and confidence are.
They know the difference between good-looking and attractive.
They know that the way you treat others is the way you will be treated yourself.
They are happy with themselves. and not always trying to be someone else.
They can hold a GOOD conversation. (Did you know Casanova considered good conversation the best foreplay - the first step in a seduction?)
They know that Sean Connery is as sexy as Brad Pitt.
They know the difference between 'wanting' and 'needing'.
They know how to get what they want!


I like your response musicmanpvd.....sexy is the whole package and you have the maturity
to see that in a woman. Bravo


...maeflowers
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