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 Ratsrule
Joined: 9/22/2011
Msg: 22
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Go for it - just be honest with the person you find and if at any point you feel they have feelings you don't reciprocate then do the decent thing and end it. ensure that you are not using someone else selfishly and beyond what they are i control of.

No one can call you a slut with a grand total of one partner behind you... just don't sleep with a lot of different people ina short space of time or you will get a reputation. something casual and lighthearted may be good for you. just always be aware of the other persons feelings and your own - if it feels wrong to you then don't do it because you won't be ready.

never try to force yourself into sex with someone new on the say so of someone else because that more than anything will make you feel cheap and used. but if you meet someone nice and theres chemistry and it feels right - go for it.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 12/30/2011 11:49:54 AM
Why feel the need to label the kind of sex or yourself?

You are an adult....you make decisions YOU can live with without worrying what a bunch of strangers on a dating site have to say!!

If you're not ready for another relationship but feeling the need to be intimate, then
just make wise choices and play safe.
Maybe a guy friend you already know, that you can trust, but neither of you want a romantic relationship....
Please just be careful if you choose the ONS route with a stranger......
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 24
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Posted: 12/30/2011 11:59:05 AM

Try to keep your numbers as low as possible. Some guys, like me, prefer a chick with "low miles".

You have to think of your "resale value".


You can always get an extended warranty that will cover your timing belt, one night stand oil changes, and super hump tune up.



Personally as long as a woman is not a cheater, whomever she has been with is her business.
 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 25
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Posted: 12/30/2011 12:02:22 PM
You do what feels right girl. Your tummy will always tell you, go with that.
 ravenhair4u
Joined: 8/13/2011
Msg: 26
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Posted: 1/1/2012 11:15:34 PM
I was told that too when I had a breakup. It's not true. Having rebound sex when you're not over the relationship doesn't help you heal or move on, it just leaves you feeling empty & filled w/regret.
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