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 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 2
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You are a 24 year old male and you have no idea how to talk dirty in the bedroom? You ever watch porn? Porn is a great learning tool!

 tjl503
Joined: 9/29/2011
Msg: 3
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Posted: 1/18/2012 2:05:05 PM
Every 10 seconds or so say "do you like that, do you like that sh*t", "who's your daddy" "you're a dirty little bit*h aren't ya", "take that shi*" "bow down to greatness h*" "your going to make me a fuc*ing sammich after this, oh yes you are". She might not like being disrespected or that might be what she's looking for, ask her. Pull her hair and slap her ass when you're saying these.
 andy1961
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 1/18/2012 2:30:17 PM
Congratulations kid! Only a week ago you posted this...


having a hard time getting responses from women. can i do something with my profile to change that up?


...now you're banging a chick 10 years older who wants dirty talk! Holy shit, that was quick!

"Yo! Hoe! Last week yo' skanky motherf*cking ass was on POF - now yo' p*ssy is mine b*tch! ALL MINE!"
 sinsualguy
Joined: 1/4/2012
Msg: 5
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Posted: 1/18/2012 3:10:32 PM

You are a 24 year old male and you have no idea how to talk dirty in the bedroom? You ever watch porn? Porn is a great learning tool!


Gee Christy, most modern porn hardly bothers with audible words, and when it does, the phrases are usually overly contrived and badly delivered (and often in thick Czechoslavakian accent.

I'm thinking any decent bit of erotica would be immensely better for a young man to get some get models for nasty erotic talk than almost any porn I've seen...and I've seen a lot of porn.
 gcdeb
Joined: 4/25/2011
Msg: 6
Dirty Talk
Posted: 1/18/2012 3:50:03 PM

Every 10 seconds or so say "do you like that, do you like that sh*t", "who's your daddy" "you're a dirty little bit*h aren't ya", "take that shi*" "bow down to greatness h*" "your going to make me a fuc*ing sammich after this, oh yes you are". She might not like being disrespected or that might be what she's looking for, ask her. Pull her hair and slap her ass when you're saying these.


You ARE joking, right? Right?? Please tell me you are.

OP, for sexy talk try taking your lead from her as to the level she wants to go to. Also, start off with baby steps.. "Turn over, I want to...." "Your kisses are hot" "I love it when you ...." "I can't wait for you to..." " I can't wait to... "

You can use more gentle terminology until you are comfortable with being more forceful with your words.

For example, you could say "you taste so good" or you could ramp that up to 'your ..... tastes so good"

Apologies for all the .... but I'm not comfortable being too graphic in a forum lol.

Sometimes it's as easy as just saying out loud what you are thinking in your head :)
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 8
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Posted: 1/18/2012 6:20:01 PM

Gee Christy, most modern porn hardly bothers with audible words, and when it does, the phrases are usually overly contrived and badly delivered (and often in thick Czechoslavakian accent


Good point.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/18/2012 8:10:54 PM
find out what shes into first. Then adjust your bed room conversation accordingly. but really not to dif. im sure as you say things you can tell by he rresponse if you are on the right track
 WENEED2GIVN2D8
Joined: 1/5/2012
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/18/2012 8:30:15 PM
The dirtier the talk the HOTTER the sex!
 Mozzily
Joined: 11/29/2011
Msg: 11
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Posted: 1/18/2012 8:38:51 PM
"you want my c*ck baby?"
"god your tight little p*ssy feels so good"
"take that c*ck you little slut"
"how bad do you want me?" "beg me for it"
"take that c*ck ****"
ect... :)
 Christie2011
Joined: 9/25/2011
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/18/2012 8:45:54 PM
Everything you think is NOT okay to say in the bedroom... IS JUST FINE. Just remember only in bed. I tell my male interest.... "You can be the boss of me...in bed." Never liked dirty talk until I heard it from someone other than my husband of 20 years. I didn't respect him.. So new guy.. its a whole new experience. And I LOVE IT. Just start slow... and work up to it. Promise she will like it. A glass of wine doesn't hurt either. Just sayin. Good luck with your older woman. I too am a older woman dating a younger male suitor... Its abosolutely a great time...
 goodkindacrazy
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/18/2012 8:54:01 PM
Not all dirty talk is the same and different women will react differently depending on what you say. Ask her before hand if she finds certain things offensive. Does she enjoy name calling? While some women love to be called a dirty little cvm slvt, others will be offended or turned off by it. Also if its not something you are used to, you might feel a little silly at first. I know that it didn't come natural to me. Loved hearing it but was shy about actually talking dirty myself. But once I saw how much my partner enjoyed it my confidence built and now if I am enjoying myself I will tell you so in very graphic detail, lol. Start off by just saying how you feel, Oh that feels sooo good. Then get a little more specific and graphic, oh yes your pvssy feels so good. Turn it around, ask her, does this feel good? Then get more graphic, does my c0ck feel good in your pvssy. Pay attention to her reactions to see what works.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 1/22/2012 7:15:45 PM
well since she is into training puppies.....ask her to teach you!!
We're not all the same on what we like to hear.......so ask her what turns her on.

As you can see from the responses here....it's mostly about vocally describing what you are doing....or going to do....or want her to do......

personally I love dirty talk......but I despise being called names.....
take your ques from her......
 carelesswhisper00
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/22/2012 7:39:23 PM
Have an open discussion with her about what she would like to hear you say to her. I'm certain she knows exactly what she wants to hear. Don't forget to ask her in what tone of voice she likes to be talked dirty to as well, some people like it said softly and sexy others like it loud and demanding.
 RaeLaRoux
Joined: 12/11/2011
Msg: 18
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Posted: 1/24/2012 8:45:26 AM
when my ex bf and me had sex we would talk dirty and it would go like
"ooh baby youre so tight i love it"
"Oh yes f*ck me harder.. right there"
"turn over i wanna see your a*s"
sh*t like that.. sometimes its hot to be directed.
 anais987
Joined: 12/14/2010
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/24/2012 7:40:44 PM
I agree. But if you really want to you can try it slowly, and a few words here and there, watch your woman's reaction. You need to enjoy it too, see if it gets you excited. Sex in general is kind of going with your instincts, using your previous experience and knowladge, but slowly trying new things. Have fun guys!
 HappyRocker
Joined: 8/13/2011
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Posted: 2/4/2012 2:46:28 PM

Moe487 on 1/18/2012 918 PM: So I am a 24 year old guy and I am dating a women 10 years older than me. Ive never been asked to talk dirty during sex but she wants me to. She seems like she likes some rough talk but, I cant say I know what Im doing. Any tips?? And also, anything I should know about being with an older women. I am really enjoying it


Talking dirty ... don't know what you're doing .... 24 years old and want some tips ....... Sure I'll help -
Talking dirty ... Ummmm ... what she wants is for you to call her slime ... yeah they love that,
ummm ... tell her that her **** reminds you of the last time you fed a horse ... oh yeeeeah ... she'll want to be your slave ....
ahhhhh ... When she puts a set of jeans on to fit in with your young life style tell her you love her Extra Large Family sized arse packed into the Ecconomy Size Packaging ... OHHHH YEAH ... They love that! It shows you know about shopping for groceries ....
Yeah .... In the morning sing to her .... you know stuff like -
The morning sun when it's in your face really shows your age,
But that don't worry me none in my eyes you're ever'thing ...
OH YEAH ... That's sure to get you a dawn breaker ...

Glad to be of help ... go get'er Tiger.
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