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 FUNNYGIRLoo
Joined: 2/14/2012
Msg: 35
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I would never let a decent good man get away. I am still waiting on a good decent ethical men to come my way.
 Sciencetreker
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/10/2012 7:53:14 AM
Landra wrote:

No one got away; we all kept going.
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Exactly. We've heard it before but life is a journey.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 37
The One that Got Away
Posted: 3/10/2012 8:27:39 AM
I don't fantasize about anyone in the past. If circumstances were different and people didn't let "The One" get away, chances are half of marriages to "The One" would still end up in divorce. Most people go into marriage thinking they are marrying "The One". After a while, about half of those with "The One" becomes "The Mistake". A lot of people like to fantasize about people from their past because they are not happy with themselves in the present. It's best to fix the present instead of dreaming of what could've been way back when or trying to relive the past. The past is best left in the past.
 WanderingRain
Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 3/10/2012 8:46:02 AM
All of my ex's I would not go back to.
I still hear about one of them every now and then and it just reinforces the fact that I did dodge a bullet...
She wasn't evil or anything, it's just that she now leads a life way different from my own. We would have been miserable and she was wise to break up with me. She is married happily now. I don't regret our time together.
 Whisky_River
Joined: 9/12/2010
Msg: 39
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Posted: 3/10/2012 8:58:16 AM
Choices with No Regrets!!

That's how I look at it...any choices I made were done at the time with great thought behind it...not just on a whim.
 playfulpete
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 40
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:15:39 PM
Ahhh yes.When we were not together,she was the only one i thought about,got along very well together.Wish i had been much wiser then,
 playfulpete
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:32:14 PM
You are so right VTECturbo,she was one for me and i let her get away.I guess life goes on.
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 42
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Posted: 7/24/2012 9:54:56 PM
oh yes, there was one man that seems to be the measure by which all others are judged. he seemed perfect for me in every conceivable way, but of course, things did not work out. truth be told, he just did not feel the same way about me, and even though he strung me a long quite brutally for quite a while, i eventually had enough of him. still, sometimes i can't help but wonder to myself, "what would it have been like?" but since i do not believe in unrequited love, i push such thoughts out of my head and get busy doing whatever it is i am doing. you simply can not let regrets, or the things that could have and should have been get in the way of living life in the present. my attitude is that i have fallen in love before, and i will again. there is no need to wallow in the lost opportunities and "what ifs."
 GarnerGirl71
Joined: 2/10/2012
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Posted: 7/24/2012 10:38:33 PM
I don't have any one particular man that I can say "THAT is what I want!" But I do have traits and characteristics from each man I dated seriously that I would like to see in a future relationship. This guy used to play his guitar and sing Johnny Cash songs to me, this one could make me laugh until I cried, this one we would lie in bed and talk all night long, and this one could fix anything if he set his mind to it.
 Janet_Always
Joined: 6/20/2012
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/25/2012 6:21:44 AM
I have no one from the past that I feel that way about.

I did learn a lot from each (some more than others) but I have no desire to repeat, nor regrets that I left.

I'm exactly where I need to be right now and life is pretty darn good. My focus right now is on appreciating the guy I'm with so I have no regrets in the future.
 pfif
Joined: 7/21/2012
Msg: 45
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Posted: 7/25/2012 7:58:44 PM
Only two childhood sweethearts come to mind. I'd have to think
about this some more.

Heh, I bumped into one about a decade ago, and without a thought,
I embraced her dearly, just for a half second. She took it well. I'm
sure she was astonished.

The other one I unfortunately bumped into when I'd had too much
to drink, in my mid 20's. I probably told her way too much. Complex
matter, that. Again, I think she was just surprised to hear it.
 FastReb
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 46
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Posted: 7/27/2012 8:42:33 PM
Yeah, there is one. Twenty years ago, we were both recently divorced and I was recently out of the Army. Unfortunately, I didn't recognize that due to her divorce, she needed more attention and affirmation that she was an amazing woman than I was giving her. I know she later remarried and I heard they had a daughter. I moved on, remarried and had children too. However, usually about the time of year that we met, I sometimes have a few fleeting moments where I think of what might have been or where she is now, then I get on with life.
 mcwr
Joined: 3/24/2009
Msg: 47
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Posted: 7/28/2012 8:28:07 AM
Not really. But there were girls I should have dated that were interested. I can't say that they were "the one", because I didn't know them.
 Bratty_to_the_core
Joined: 1/18/2013
Msg: 48
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Posted: 1/22/2013 8:30:54 PM
I look at life this way, that every man I interact helps me to understand what I need in a healthy relationship. One man helped me discover the depth of my passion, to finally understand my sexual side and restore my faith in men Another man showed me what it mean to be cherished ... the little things that got to me that were important .... how a true gentleman treats a lady. There have been those that have shown me true affection, caring and been nuturing. There have been others whose minds were so intriguing and we had long conversations.

It is through these men that I have a healthy understand of the type of man that I need as a companion. They set the minimum standard that I judge all men who want to spend time with me. Nowadays, it enables me to avoid the takers, the guys who a gal is just a piece of meat to use me without caring.

I've had a few that "got away" however it was because of geographically circumstances and our work locations & type.
They still email and there is mutual adoration, caring and friendship.

I have to thank these men who shared themselves with me, who provided examples of a "good" man, great lover and being a gentlemen.

I'd rather be single than be with someone who doesn't treat me properly as a person, woman & lover.
 Seeing_Stars
Joined: 3/11/2006
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Posted: 1/22/2013 11:21:24 PM
There are a few guys who I still think about and wonder where they're at and how they're doing... There's one that I wouldn't mind reconnecting with. The problem is of course, what's in the past, should stay in the past. If enough time has passed, any kind of reunion seems unlikely. Time makes people forget. However, it is difficult to not want those qualities of the ex in your current relationship, especially if there are still feelings there. It is a setup for failure but a lot of times, is difficult to control.
 cookie22222
Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 1/23/2013 12:34:17 PM
The old high school sweetheart, that's kinda universal isn't it?
There was another one a few years ago, I still get occasional one line emails -how are you? Time and place...but it's nice to know it was real, isn't it?
 Lucky...13
Joined: 12/28/2012
Msg: 51
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Posted: 1/23/2013 12:56:00 PM
Put a classified out under "Missed Connections"
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