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 ch_evy69
Joined: 3/30/2012
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I never said it was one way. I focus attention to the areas that need them and it happens. I'm not saying its a magic trick nor am I all knowing. But after try my techniques on 4 women who have neve
r had a squirting orgasm and all 4 achieved it I must be doing something right.
 sbugsbunny
Joined: 4/14/2012
Msg: 430
Squirting
Posted: 5/14/2012 4:33:55 AM
NO THERE ISENT ANYTHING RONG WITH YOU AT ALL ITS JUST YOU DONT REACH A REAL ORGASAM,SOME DAY YOU WILL AND WHEN YOU DO DONT BE SHY ABOUT IT,IT IS GOOD THING FOR BUTH OF YOU
 AddHomonym
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 431
Squirting
Posted: 5/14/2012 10:13:42 AM
Do I ever have a tale to tell you OP but first I want to put a great deal of distance between myself and some of the other commentators above. In no way, shape or form is my story meant to be taken as evidence of my "skillz" nor am I making any claims to have the power to give a woman this experience.

I can, however, assure you and all the scientists who say it is a myth, that it most certainly is very real and undeniable. I think the controversy, in the literature I've seen so far, comes down to a question of how much urine content there is in the sample. How or why this has any bearing on the question is beyond me and after hearing this little ditty, you'll understand why I don't care.

I met a very busy and rather naughty nurse online once upon a time. She was amazing. I think it was the third date or so when we tore off each other's clothes off and "made the beast with two backs". Without going into too many details, upon bringing her to climax, something "squirted" out of her, straight into my face! I say "squirted" because this word is so inadequate. From my perspective, it felt more like being "splashed" with half a pint of beer!

I raised myself up, wiped my hand across my face and said in a bewildered tone, "What the *&$@ was that"? Her response came with a gentle guiding hand, "I'll tell you later". This woman ejaculated upon climax just about every time we were together but never quite to the same degree as that first time. I also learned to use my hands more, so as to make for a handy shield:)

I've been around and known a wonderfully diverse subset of women in my time from activists and academics to the military. My naughty nurse friend was unique in my experience. What she did looked nothing like the stuff you can find on the internet, nor did it really resemble what the scientists seemed to be talking about. Fakery and ineptitude explain those problems away for me. I believe it's real without reservation but I also think it's something that is very rare. I wouldn't give anyone money to teach me how to do it, put it that way.

Is it a skill that could be learned or induced by a masterful lover? I doubt that very much but I don't really know. Why anyone would want to is another story altogether. You either have to keep rubber sheets on your bed or always make sure you make love on old sleeping bags or something to make sure you don't destroy your mattress. It's messy.
 tlhthrillseeker
Joined: 3/18/2012
Msg: 433
Squirting
Posted: 5/16/2012 11:13:15 AM
there is nothing wrong w/ you if you don't squirt.....I think it is just glorified peeing.......
 LovedThe80s
Joined: 5/1/2012
Msg: 434
Squirting
Posted: 5/16/2012 2:42:12 PM
I've had quite a bit of women in my long life, but only 3 squirters. Quite an experience. One squirted like a gusher, but the other 2 just made an on-off pulsating stream, LOL! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you if you don't squirt. But when they do squirt, a guy knows he is doing his job well! Be careful if you do oral on her, she just might put an euye out!
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 435
Squirting
Posted: 5/16/2012 2:54:37 PM
I always tell a guy first that I'm a gusher. And when I get going a huge gusher lol. Only one guy never had a girl like me before so he kinda didn't expect so much in his face & kinda did freak, i was on top 69, lol. BUt the other guys all love to lick it up. But I tell a guy if we are on the couch to get some towels, some say forget it and I just soak their couch, lol. I think they like to remember what happened when they have to clean it up, lol. I once came at least 50 times in a couple hours. He did missionary a different way he said w his legs straight to hit my g spot every time, but, everyones penis curves different so u gotta find the way. But I need fingers first. Fingers make me gush in seconds after making out lol. Then it builds up w more g spot rubbing till I can feel it and then I explode. mmmm. Wish I was doing it right now lol. I find the g spot vibes do not work like a guys fingers. I wish I had longer arms so I could reach my g spot. lol BUt I can get it w dildo but the angle hurts sometimes.
 PaminSD
Joined: 2/25/2012
Msg: 436
Squirting
Posted: 5/16/2012 9:24:31 PM
I hope your not using a straight dildo. Go to Nob Essence....they are amazing and it doesnt hurt. I have the "S" shaped one.
 kinleylovee
Joined: 5/8/2012
Msg: 437
Squirting
Posted: 5/17/2012 9:44:23 AM
If a guys good enough, it can happen! (:
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 438
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Squirting
Posted: 5/17/2012 10:37:59 AM

If a guys good enough, it can happen! (:

seeing as you were claiming to be a virgin in your now deleted thread.......how is it you know this?
 AddHomonym
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 439
Squirting
Posted: 5/17/2012 12:21:17 PM

If a guys good enough, it can happen! (:


Well, the 18 yo virgin thing aside, I really don't think this is true.

If it were true, and my story about my naughty nurse friend was also true, then all of the women I've been with would have been "squirters" - they aren't.
I've only ever seen this with one woman and if it were possible to "give" this experience to someone, others most certainly would have enjoyed the benefits...if there is a benefit. I've known women whose eyes roll back in their head and they go off into some kind of trance. If I was a woman looking to find a heightened sense of ecstasy, I would be looking into the trance stuff more than this squirting thing. Other than being messy, I don't see what the hoopla is about.

My guess is that a woman who does "squirt" may not do it with every partner she has which might give the impression that it is the man's skillz that are responsible. It's a logical fallacy though. Just because a lousy lover might not be able to make his partner "squirt" does not mean that a talented lover can make any woman "squirt". It's simply not true. Some guys might be able to make you "squirt" but they can't take that with them and have all women they sleep with do it too.

Of course, this won't stop anyone from telling you they can.

So either I'm lying or it's highly unlikely that this is something that any woman can do. On the issue of lying, I find it useful to try and figure out who stands to benefit most from a lie when attempting to discern who is telling me the truth or not.

I knew a guy who could spit milk out of his tear ducts, or people who can fold their tongues, how about the double-jointed folks? All sorts of people have interesting and unique talents that aren't necessarily possible for everyone to do - why on earth should anyone feel less than whole because they can't spit milk out of their eyes? From my perspective, this doesn't sound like something that makes the orgasm better or superior to non-squirter's experiences; in fact, if anything, it's kind of a pain in the ass.
 marie2107
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 440
Squirting
Posted: 5/17/2012 12:30:38 PM
[From my perspective, this doesn't sound like something that makes the orgasm better or superior to non-squirter's experiences; in fact, if anything, it's kind of a pain in the ass.]

While I agree with you that no one should feel any less because they cannot have squirting orgasms or because they have not had this experience with a woman, I do find it REALLY SAD that you think it is a pain in the ass. It isn't an inconvenience when you ejaculate! So if a woman has a different experience than the other women you have been with I hope you don't make her feel like a freak or something.

Every woman's orgasm experience is different no doubt. And yes they can be different but not necessarily better (up to the woman to decide) but any orgasm is a good orgasm. Not a PITA. :(
 deauxtom
Joined: 5/13/2012
Msg: 441
Squirting
Posted: 5/17/2012 12:55:46 PM
It's real I have only been with one girl who did it. It had alot of power from her
 justtrolling4now
Joined: 3/8/2011
Msg: 442
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Posted: 5/17/2012 1:08:47 PM
Ok here are the facts on squirting . Only 30 % of women squirt. I can tell you that most men crave a women that has this talent. I have been with woman that have said to me OMG I have never done that before !!! Great sex is in the mind and your body just follows. Have fun be safe :-)
 justtrolling4now
Joined: 3/8/2011
Msg: 443
Squirting
Posted: 5/17/2012 1:09:37 PM
Ok here are the facts on squirting . Only 30 % of women squirt. I can tell you that most men crave a women that has this talent. I have been with woman that have said to me OMG I have never done that before !!! Great sex is in the mind and your body just follows. Have fun be safe :-)
 theverizonguy
Joined: 4/26/2012
Msg: 444
Squirting
Posted: 5/17/2012 1:17:10 PM
It's not a myth, I have had two partners in the past that were able to, first was already used to it, the second was something that was "brought out". It has a lot to do with the female being comfortable but also and equally important is technique...Most guys probably don't care enough to take the time to learn it or worry about their partner of enough to make it happen...but...it's definitely not a myth.
 AgainstTheGrainNY
Joined: 4/30/2012
Msg: 445
Squirting
Posted: 5/17/2012 1:35:41 PM
Squirting can be achieved by all women. I took a class in Vegas with an older female porn star and it was spectacular, please say hi if you want to know more, be well.
 danarrodollaz
Joined: 3/30/2012
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Posted: 5/19/2012 2:48:26 AM
its not acquired, they just didnt hit the right spot in therre. even if u had an orgasm
 AddHomonym
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 447
Squirting
Posted: 5/19/2012 2:57:28 AM
^^^dannarro, I'm not buying it. I know that spot well as do the women I've loved. Assisting one woman to squirt absolutely does not translate into being able to make others do it.

My guess is that those saying they have the mastery to make any woman come in this way don't really have a clue what we are talking about here.

There is no way 30% of women are "squirters" either. Sorry, but I know for a fact that isn't true.

fredfitz seems to know exactly what he is talking about. If you care to listen to what a man has to say on this issue, ask him.
 Blackout478
Joined: 5/1/2011
Msg: 448
Squirting
Posted: 5/19/2012 3:47:55 AM
I made one girl squirt and it was kinda nasty.
 Luvs2lift_50
Joined: 9/17/2011
Msg: 449
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Posted: 5/20/2012 1:26:04 PM
there is nothing wrong with you. some women are capable of squirting, many are not. that means nothing though. as long as you can get natural lubrication from your own juices and have an orgasm thats all that matters. i don't think squirting is an aquired talent that can be learned either. either your body does it, or it doesn't.
 guitarist232
Joined: 4/30/2012
Msg: 450
Squirting
Posted: 5/20/2012 1:55:15 PM

I always tell a guy first that I'm a gusher. And when I get going a huge gusher lol. Only one guy never had a girl like me before so he kinda didn't expect so much in his face & kinda did freak, i was on top 69, lol. BUt the other guys all love to lick it up. But I tell a guy if we are on the couch to get some towels, some say forget it and I just soak their couch, lol. I think they like to remember what happened when they have to clean it up, lol. I once came at least 50 times in a couple hours. He did missionary a different way he said w his legs straight to hit my g spot every time, but, everyones penis curves different so u gotta find the way. But I need fingers first. Fingers make me gush in seconds after making out lol. Then it builds up w more g spot rubbing till I can feel it and then I explode. mmmm. Wish I was doing it right now lol. I find the g spot vibes do not work like a guys fingers. I wish I had longer arms so I could reach my g spot. lol BUt I can get it w dildo but the angle hurts sometimes.


Why can't ALL Girls be like you!? LOL or at least some near me!! That sounds AMAZING!! Huge turn on indeed, who needs a squirter when you can cum like that :P
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/21/2012 6:07:29 AM

i don't think squirting is an aquired talent that can be learned either. either your body does it, or it doesn't.

I beg to differ here. Speaking as a woman who has been having sex a long time, with a fair number of various partners, I didn't start until about a year ago. Is it a talent? I don't think it's a talent so much as learning to relax and let it happen. Talent kind of implies that you can do something at any point. For me, that's not the case.
 Dudleydoogal
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 452
Squirting
Posted: 5/21/2012 6:32:01 AM
It is not a myth...I know that when I first discovered I could do this..it was without intention. Once the kettle is boiling it's hard not to let it all release. I'm more of a gusher though...this squirting thing is like a watering can...how can you possibly aim like that..lol :)

Cheers!!

As long as the entire sexual experience is good..who the f*** cares !!
 AddHomonym
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 453
Squirting
Posted: 5/21/2012 6:55:45 PM
^^^I almost asked you if you were a pretty nurse but then I realized if you were my old friend, you would have certainly written me already...lol Is there a difference between gushing and squirting? If so then I should apologize since I only have personal experience with the gushing...or should I say GUSHING! Believe me, I'm not complaining but the cost of replacing mattresses every few months would be a minus in my calculations. This difference is fascinating me now, I'll see if I can get through your filters and send you a message...hey lookit choo, no filters at all? Are you a pretty nurse?



I don't think it's a talent so much as learning to relax and let it happen.



This is about one of the best comments in here. It matches perfectly with what was described to me. My only reason to oppose the notion of it being an acquired "talent" is that there seems to be a lot of people out there trying to manipulate women with promises of being able to teach this "talent" or selling themselves as masters of love who can make any woman squirt.
 guitarist232
Joined: 4/30/2012
Msg: 454
Squirting
Posted: 5/21/2012 7:11:00 PM
I've only ever made one woman squirt so far. I've had others that say they could, but are scared to let it all out :s I for one think it's the hotttesttt thing possible!
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