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Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 564
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Wow, someone asked you a pretty personal question! No, there's nothing wrong with you. Some women do, and some don't. Not sure if it's an 'acquired' talent as much as differences we all have. You seem to imply it's a negative that you haven't so far. If it doesn't affect your enjoyment, why worry about it???
Joined: 7/19/2010
Msg: 565
Posted: 6/19/2012 9:37:58 AM

I'd like to just insert (no pun intended) some perspective on this. The fluid of a squirt has to come from somewhere. The normal vaginal lubrication is insufficient to be squirted. The only other fluid available in that area is urine. For all the claims of squirting ability, it's simply no more than pee.

The fluid is NOT pee. Google Skene glands Tom. It is a clear, watery fluid(not yellow or urine smelling) and I've had it happen about 10 times in a row. Trust me I couldn't pee that much if I tried!
FYI: It is an INvoluntary orgasmic response. Adult women are potty trained...peeing is a controlled voluntary action.
For example, I wouldn't insult you by saying how do you know if your peeing or cumming? You just know the difference. Honestly, it is impossible in men or women to pee during orgasm...thank goodness or bacteria would be everywhere.
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 566
Posted: 6/19/2012 10:31:06 AM
There's nothing wrong with you hun! It's not a talent.It just takes time and patients .It is amazing but messy.Good luck!:)
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 567
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Posted: 6/19/2012 10:52:33 AM

baldguyman: squirting is up to the woman. really she does it whenever she wants to.

With me, when it comes to's all up to the MAN. I can and do (quite often) make myself have regular clitoral orgasm, but when it comes to G-spot orgasms.....I'm 100% at his mercy.
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 568
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Posted: 6/19/2012 11:16:36 AM

With me, when it comes to's all up to the MAN. I can and do (quite often) make myself have regular clitoral orgasm, but when it comes to G-spot orgasms.....I'm 100% at his mercy

Me too. I can sometimes cause gspot orgasms on my own, it just takes way more effort to get even 1/10th the results he can. For me it's about the angles and it's difficult, if not nearly impossible, for me to duplicate what he can do. I also seem to have problems stimulating myself and relaxing enough for the sensations to take over because I'm focusing so much on the effort of stimulating myself. Vicious cycle.
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 569
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Posted: 6/19/2012 11:25:17 AM
^^^^^ Everything you said is true for me also EXCEPT I can't make myself have a G-spot orgasm EVER. I know that it is their technique that does it but as you said I think being 100% relaxed is key. Another thing I think add's to it is being highly aroused when your with that person.
Joined: 10/13/2010
Msg: 570
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Posted: 6/19/2012 5:02:45 PM
If she does, I'm not sleeping on that wetspot!
Joined: 4/4/2012
Msg: 571
Posted: 6/19/2012 5:34:25 PM
lol about the wetspot.

Once a woman has squirted, then it becomes easier (much like the first time orgasming and getting over that sensation that you are about to pee). I alsways felt like the oddball with my girlfriends that I can squirt but they never had.. nice to see some comments from the ladies on this post.

From what I understand, Fisting always generates squirting, although I have never tried it.

Joined: 6/15/2012
Msg: 572
Posted: 6/19/2012 7:44:22 PM
Not a myth and I have had the fortune of being the one causing it and receiving it.
Joined: 6/15/2011
Msg: 573
Posted: 6/19/2012 9:24:19 PM
It's no myth... i used to think that it was peeing as well... until i was with this guy and he caused me to do it... very minimal foreplay... but he knew how to locate the g-spot and he stuck with it when he found mine. I was about to pass out when i did squirt... it was intense... since then, i have did it since. me and him only had sex once... he is far away now and our schedules keep conflicting... but trust me... i'm gonna track his butt down!!!!! lol sex just isn't the same... i'm
Joined: 8/31/2011
Msg: 574
Posted: 6/20/2012 9:31:14 AM
well i must have turned into a champ overnight. the last 2 ladies have squirted like they had a geyser between their legs.
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 575
Posted: 6/20/2012 9:09:36 PM
all women can I squirt, I was worried the first time i did it i thought the same thing some of you do. Until I felt the whoe body trimmers and the best body orgasm there is. I was taught by a couple man and woman years ago. not to many men know how to make it happen. Just recently i was online and noticed there is a video online that teaches how to make a woman squirt. look it up. it is for real.
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 576
Posted: 6/20/2012 9:10:28 PM
OOPS MEANT TO SAy all women can squirt
Joined: 6/13/2012
Msg: 577
Posted: 6/20/2012 10:56:49 PM
Im with you on this one cautiousluv...sad but true for me too!
Joined: 10/25/2011
Msg: 578
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Posted: 6/21/2012 7:36:36 AM
Ok, so in my experience it is by no means a myth. I think multiple people have validated this on this thread. It IS a learned skill. It DOES require full relaxation, but more importantly there are some other key factors. You cannot be dehydrated. Trying to squirt the morning after a night of heavy drinking will not work. Also, you have to be REALLY stimulated already. In other words your partner has to have given you multiple orgasms already. Orally, manually G Spot, manually on the clit (although that gets really sensitive, as all of you know, and sometimes has to be saved for last), and most importantly, your partner has f#@k the hell out of you hard. ALL of that gets you in the "Relaxed" state that you are looking for (a couple glasses of chardonnay help as well LOL). The most likely way to at that point get you to squirt is two fingers on the G Spot. Some women like to have it slow and gentle. Others like a curling motion that massages the G Spot. Others like a fast pumping motion. And then of course there others that like them all!! (My personal favorites ;-). I have also experienced my partner squirting while I am really f@#king her hard. THAT is the most amazing and personally (male ego) gratifying thing I have EVER experienced in bed...but sadly very hard to replicated...Hopefully that helps...J
Joined: 3/26/2012
Msg: 579
Posted: 6/23/2012 5:12:49 PM
Theis is nothing wrong with you. I have recently found out that every women can squirt but it is easier for some. You can make yourself do it. You just have to find the G spot in your vagina. Once you start rubbing it youll notice yourself getting more and more wet. You might feel like you have to pee but just relax your about to squirt. Just keep going and enjoy that best orgasm of your life. I know all this because when I was married I made my wife do it. Also every women I have had sex with. Its a neat little trick to know. You can google all this info.
Joined: 6/17/2012
Msg: 580
Posted: 7/1/2012 8:49:14 AM
some do some dont but you can get good****and it will happen !
Joined: 7/29/2011
Msg: 581
Posted: 7/1/2012 5:24:56 PM
I just met a woman that squirts...she says she doesn't always squirt, but she did with was very intense
Joined: 5/4/2012
Msg: 582
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Posted: 7/3/2012 9:25:30 AM
I have one word for you, Towels. Don't knock it until you've had it.
Joined: 3/10/2012
Msg: 583
Posted: 7/4/2012 6:34:37 AM
It's no myth, I had a girlfriend that squirted huge amounts every time we had sex. It's pretty sexy.
Joined: 7/6/2010
Msg: 584
Posted: 7/4/2012 2:26:35 PM
Its not urination, its an orgasm, trust me I know. I used to be terrified and embarrassed thinking it was pee, but no my doc says it it ejaculation
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 585
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Posted: 7/4/2012 3:00:24 PM
i dated a girl that was a squirter... came gushing out like a fire hydrant.
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 586
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Posted: 7/4/2012 9:27:28 PM
I think I read one time that the actual percentage of women that can squirt is relatively low (can't remember the %). Anyway, if that's true.....I find it odd that almost all the men in here have said they made multiple girls squirt! lol. I'm not saying they aren't telling the truth.....I guess a higher percentage of women can squirt than I though.
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 587
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Posted: 7/4/2012 9:46:09 PM
Shouldn't be too surprised on here....just think back to any penis size topic and the average guy on POF is sporting 10+ inchers....and some of the women here claim to have had multiple parters that have been over a foot long.

If wanting to learn how, maybe look into some local clubs. The club in my city teaches all kinds of things--tantric, hot wax, erotic massage, really anything. I know they had classes for squirting too, taught by sexperts. They usually allow couples or singles.
Joined: 6/24/2012
Msg: 588
Posted: 7/4/2012 9:50:17 PM
Supposedly most women are capable of it, if someone pushes all the right buttons. Unfortunately, I'm not a part of this club, but I don't think most women are either. If I ever get that trick nailed down, I'll post the how-to guide!
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