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ive made it happen a few times, just don't like it.. doesn't feel natural. the funny part is they don't know what happened either
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 52
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Posted: 2/12/2012 2:09:15 PM

the squirter has to be with a man who knows what he's doing for her to be able to squirt.

Not true...
The first girl it happened with I had never heard of it before, and apparently neither had she... She was mortified and totally embarrassed...
She hadn't peed either... it was definately a different fluid and texture, taste smell everything....
A couple of others have done it... but nothing like the first one...
Joined: 1/14/2012
Msg: 53
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Posted: 2/12/2012 6:04:13 PM
not a myth a very useful i say nessarey tecniuqe onlyy aquired by men who spend a very long time and enjoy eating ****
Joined: 6/25/2010
Msg: 54
Posted: 2/12/2012 6:19:36 PM
that's quite a question from someone you have "just met"
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 55
Posted: 2/12/2012 7:16:25 PM

...Doing this continually curling your fingers toward you like your telling someone to come here. Once you start to hear a "squishing sound" it's about to the point where she thinks she has to pee. Tell her to relax and then go much harder and rougher and DON'T STOP. In about 15 seconds she'll squirt...

I wish it took me 15 seconds afterwards...I always have the feeling of having to pee but can't let go...he has told me to relax and it doesn't matter if I accidently pee but to just relax...I make sure I go to the bathroom prior but I still can't let go
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 56
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Posted: 2/12/2012 7:53:14 PM

I wish it took me 15 seconds afterwards...I always have the feeling of having to pee but can't let go...he has told me to relax and it doesn't matter if I accidently pee but to just relax...I make sure I go to the bathroom prior but I still can't let go

If I put pressure on myself to squirt, if I am thinking about squirting, or if I feel as if I am being pressured to perform, it just won't happen for me.

Oh and one of the best toys (at least for me) to help achieve either squirting or the g-gasm is a glass dildo with curve in it.
Joined: 4/25/2011
Msg: 57
Posted: 2/13/2012 6:45:30 AM
practice with your vibrator... its AHmazing... when it does happen... ;o)
Joined: 8/28/2009
Msg: 58
Posted: 2/13/2012 8:05:07 AM
What your missing is a guy that doesn't watch so much porn that he feels the need ask women such questions.

With that said, I dated a women that can do this, but was unaware of it till it happened. Reeking of urine was neither a turn on or exciting.
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 59
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Posted: 2/13/2012 9:55:16 AM

It feels different for every person just like it has to be done slightly different for every woman because not all vagina's are the same. Best that works for me is when the man to fingers and inserts them(this is after I have be highly turned on). The fingers should curl toward him but going upwards to the woman's belly button. The man should feel around till he feels a slight bump which will be the woman's G spot. Start by slowly stimulating it then become a lil more aggressive as she gets used to it. Doing this continually curling your fingers toward you like your telling someone to come here. Once you start to hear a "squishing sound" it's about to the point where she thinks she has to pee. Tell her to relax and then go much harder and rougher and DON'T STOP. In about 15 seconds she'll squirt.

Perfect example of not all women are created equal. The finger thing described here is a sure fire way to cause me extreme pain and guarantee that I not only won't squirt, but probably won't orgasm either.

I don't get that *have to pee* sensation.

Beyond that I can't recommend the Njoy Pure Wand enough. I need clit stim to about 60-70%, then can include the gspot, still need some clit though. Once I start he can keep it going with only gspot and the toy for as long as we want.
Joined: 10/23/2011
Msg: 60
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Posted: 2/13/2012 5:35:37 PM
well really i can make my girlfriend squirt and i can do it to her friend to we have threesums and iv only messed with two girls one being her and her friend so no it;s not a myth.
Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 61
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Posted: 2/13/2012 8:03:16 PM
So how did you get them to Squirt? Only one gal told how it was for her and what makes her do it? All the guy's are vague about it. Guess they don't want to be left out or considered DUD's
Joined: 5/16/2011
Msg: 62
Posted: 2/13/2012 8:55:42 PM
Squirting is Real!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have been with squirters in several long term relationships.
It is all in how the guy hits her g spot.
I have to hit it at the right angle with a lot of pressure.
The better the angle that I hit her g spot & the more pressure that I hit it effects how much she squirts.
If you are with a guy who is really into pleasing you & he has skills & is not shy or afraid to ask you questions while exploring you and your g spot.
With open communication you should be squirting before you know it
Joined: 7/4/2011
Msg: 63
Posted: 2/13/2012 10:05:22 PM
Women do I don't know why someone would ask you..... usually after they do I have a hard time coming to a happy ending so don't think its a bad thing if you can't.
Joined: 1/25/2012
Msg: 64
Posted: 2/14/2012 1:42:09 AM
I have been around many women that squirt. I help them to relax, but it is all in the fingers :)
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 65
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Posted: 2/14/2012 4:04:14 AM
My late wife could squirt, but not every time we made love. And, only with oral and manual. We tried with a vib..I had to finish with my tongue and was beautiful.

When she wanted..she would huskily tell me to make her was one of the most intense orgasms she ever experienced..and would be totally exhausted afterwards.
Joined: 9/25/2011
Msg: 67
Posted: 2/14/2012 5:51:32 AM
Ive been able to squirt since I first started masterbating when I was 8 years old. Thought there was something wrong with me but it felt so good. I find it is about tension and relaxation. I can squirt/cum without penetration or clitorial stimulation. I can just be aroused and fanasize, move my hips and tighten up and use my pelvic muscles to bring me off. It is intense orgasm and it is different for me than a vaginal orgasm. Whether it is piss, cum or skeet glands, its all about being satisfied. I usually get "rolling" and then have multiple orgasms that way then I want to be taken deep and hard. I find now that it is more satisfying than sex with men because there are those who dont understand or they dont last long enough for me to have an orgasm. Its nice to see that I am normal. If you want to know how to bring a woman off, the secret is takinf the time to do whatever makes her eyes roll back. Try everything because I would venturre to say that all women dont feel the same way when it comes to cuming.
Joined: 8/29/2011
Msg: 68
Posted: 2/14/2012 6:49:03 AM
The woman needs to be sexually aroused by her partner and explored to the maximum, a good full body head to toe massage wouldn't hurt to put her at ease. You may then have more success in making her squirt. I have done it many times and it works for me, also found it best if she is laying on her back and you use the SPIDER MAN TECHNIQUE with the two middle finger hooked just right. A little bit of voice action never hurt either the whole idea is to get her as comfortable as possible. Don't think its going to happen just because you want it too,the male has to be patient as well, believe me persistence pays off sometimes.
Joined: 4/16/2011
Msg: 69
Posted: 2/14/2012 7:04:14 AM
Joined: 2/5/2012
Msg: 70
Posted: 2/14/2012 7:59:14 AM

Squirting is no myth but I believe that not every woman is capable of acheiving this sensation. Ive dated 4 women who have been able to reach this stage during orgasm and arousal and it is a wonderful sensation for both parties. It requires your partners patience and commitment to reach this stage most of the time and the intensity of it is well worth the wait.
There is no right or wrong if you can or cant as long as your partner gives you the satisfaction that you both enjoy

Joined: 8/24/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 2/14/2012 5:53:50 PM
It really is no myth. A past lover of mine for a year squirted every time we had sex, over and over, and it was quite natural and very erotic. The sex was incredible. She told me I was the only one who could do that to her--Very Nice.
Joined: 2/2/2012
Msg: 72
Posted: 2/14/2012 7:25:43 PM
Thrusting up and in with a moderate amount of pressure works well as it would with fingers. My ex was happy with me, and she only wanted to climax through penetration. More options exist if a woman prefers pleasure in more than one way.
Joined: 12/16/2011
Msg: 73
Posted: 2/14/2012 11:58:34 PM
Sadly, a lot of women don't know they can do it. I've done it to some women before. Fun to watch the magic unfold. If you have the technique down, you can get her to spray in about 10-15 seconds! The woman has to relax though...otherwise on the verge of squirting she may complain and say she needs to pee... but, it's way cooler than pee pee!
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 74
Posted: 2/15/2012 8:38:18 AM
Joined: 9/29/2010
Msg: 75
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Posted: 2/15/2012 8:59:08 AM
I think you guys are talking about the Skene gland, search for that on wikipedia, here's an excerpt:

"It has been postulated that the Skene's glands are the source of female ejaculation.[2] In 2002, Emanuele Jannini of L'Aquila University in Italy showed that there may be an explanation both for the phenomenon and for the frequent denials of its existence. Skene's glands have highly variable anatomy, and in some extreme cases they appear to be absent entirely. If Skene's glands are the cause of female ejaculation and G-Spot-orgasms, this may explain the absence in many women.[3][4]

It has been demonstrated that a large amount of lubricating fluid (filtered blood plasma[specify]) can be secreted from this gland when stimulated from inside the vagina.[5] Some reports indicate that embarrassment regarding female ejaculation, and the mistaken notion that the substance is urine, can lead to purposeful suppression of sexual climax, leading women to seek medical advice and even undergo surgery to "stop the urine".[6]"

I hope that helps.
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