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 AsanteSoul
Joined: 12/16/2011
Msg: 35
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I'm usually the one dominating and destroyin' that ass..however, if she can be aggressive and show me that side of her, im down!
 MDIYM59
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 36
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/17/2012 5:18:47 PM
I prefer a submissive lady. Once I'm comfortable with her I don't mind her taking the lead at times. But for some reason I find submissive ladies to be a real turn on.
 honeycognac
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 37
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 2/18/2012 1:15:48 AM
To me vanilla sex is boring. Power exchange kicks up the intensity. I'm about 80% submissive. Certain people bring out my domme side and I'll take the lead with them but I get most turned on by a dominant male (alpha type). I'd never switch with the same partner.
 Nstram
Joined: 1/20/2012
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Posted: 2/18/2012 3:29:32 AM
honestly? I really could go either way. I'm normally fairly dominant just because that's the type of person i always am but i've been in both situations and the other side of the fence is fun too ;)
 prettyguyaz
Joined: 3/18/2012
Msg: 39
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/25/2012 2:17:36 AM
it all depends on the person your with and how open minded to switching roles that they are.
 ShelbySask4friend1
Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 40
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/25/2012 2:29:30 AM
Depends what costume they are wearing at the time, and if it is in public or not...
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 6/25/2012 3:27:37 AM
mostly dominant, in bed only
 Rexrugsnrocknroll
Joined: 4/21/2012
Msg: 42
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/25/2012 8:32:11 AM
i say both, it just depends what mood im in. Once in awhile i like to play a little game. Me and my partner wrestle and whoever wins is the dominating one. I let her win sometimes.
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
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Posted: 6/25/2012 8:40:08 AM
I prefer them submissive.


Sometimes they have to be punished for being a bad girl.
 putmeunder
Joined: 5/10/2012
Msg: 44
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/25/2012 8:41:10 AM
Definitely like if they can play a specific "dominant" role, especially with their feet/shoes, and some verbal comments. =) Hard to find though!
 that1mofo
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 45
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/25/2012 8:52:17 AM
I am very dominant, it just feels so natural to take control of a woman.

Sure, in public I behave as a gentleman should. Open doors for her, take her shoe shopping, bring her home flowers for no reason, ect.

But God I love the ego stroking of bending her to my will... and making her love it.
 Steelrain11
Joined: 12/15/2011
Msg: 46
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/26/2012 3:04:15 AM
I have a very dominate personality which CAN pour over into the bedroom. I alter my bedroom persona to best compliment the woman I'm with. That can be dominate, passive, or submissive and in some cases- Aggressive; somegirls like to fight...lol
 len129
Joined: 8/22/2006
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Posted: 6/26/2012 4:45:35 AM
I think most people have some hidden fantantys of being submissive or Dom at times . From personal experience I find taking control can lead to some really exciting sex. But also showing you can be submissive can again work at times . I think exploring all areas is really worth the effort I think most women are afraid to really let go fearing how they may be judged after. I have heard older women say they missed so much .
 Missthefun78
Joined: 6/22/2012
Msg: 48
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/26/2012 3:00:34 PM
Absolutely dominated not chains or whips or anything but it makes me so hot for a man to take control
 sunshinebridge2U
Joined: 4/13/2012
Msg: 49
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/26/2012 5:11:33 PM
Good question - I had to think about this. Yes. I honestly prefer my partner to be dominant. However, I take a certain amount of joy in being able to sweet talk someone out of their position, especially when they are saying: "NO WAY! I will NEVER let you tie me up, NEVER!!!!! I would have to be totally passed out drunk before I let you do that" . . . .

Oh darling, we'll just have to see about that one - won't we.
 Maggie__x
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 50
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 6/26/2012 9:06:53 PM
I like being both. A lot of the time I like to be dominated. Nothing like being a little rough.
 wanderer1999
Joined: 2/10/2007
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Posted: 6/26/2012 9:43:54 PM
In bed I'm okay with ceding control, but usually at some point my dominant side comes out. As in do what you will, enjoy the control... until I'm ready to take it back. ^_^
 SlaveDriver8
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 52
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Posted: 7/3/2012 3:44:06 PM
submissive....very submissive. And I make that pretty plain in the profile too.
 milehiguy12
Joined: 5/9/2012
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Posted: 7/3/2012 4:26:47 PM
I have found that a submissive woman can lead to a whole host of adventures inside and outside of the bedroom.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2012 7:13:00 PM
In reality I know any man "can" dominate me......but as said above......I love a man that allows me to take control now and then.
 UniquelyPassionateCandy
Joined: 8/6/2011
Msg: 55
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 7/9/2012 11:51:45 AM
I like to keep it interesting...A dominant man can be fun, but then it can also be fun to switch it up and do some role playing and role reversal. I am open minded :)
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 7/9/2012 12:28:47 PM
Sometimes a "switch" will scratch that unknown unexplored "itch".... LOL
 cr4zycupcake
Joined: 5/24/2012
Msg: 57
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Posted: 7/9/2012 10:33:28 PM

Variety really is the spice of life


Hell yeah
 HanyMikhail79
Joined: 3/31/2012
Msg: 58
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 7/9/2012 11:51:03 PM
yes i prefer my partner to be submissive or my dominating,but just in bedroom.

cos if you just have sex with your partner with out play,one day you feel boring.
 nkr1980
Joined: 9/2/2011
Msg: 59
Do you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominating?
Posted: 7/10/2012 1:45:40 AM
I am the dominant type, so I would prefer my partner to be submissive...just talking about it sexually.
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