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 _Kites_
Joined: 1/1/2011
Msg: 34
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...who knew they wrote a Law book on all this sh!t!

Laws and rules and books are put in place for people that don't understand what's going on and need guidance. Which is okay; I'm just sayin'.

Personally I like the Alien Explanation. It fits into what I've been thinkin'! Ancient roots.. it's all there, makes sense!! Now I just need to find an alien lady for myself - something new and different, possibly better (?). lol
 flaneur001
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 35
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Posted: 2/12/2012 4:41:22 PM
I hope you get the clarity you wanted from her.

I suspect her fall is from dehydration...not very romantic..but very likely.
 deere rancher
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 2/13/2012 5:38:00 AM
Congrats ! best of luck
 Greatcatch12345
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 38
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Posted: 2/13/2012 5:56:57 AM
and u didnt bang her?/ i've read harold robbins books that were more steamy..
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 39
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Posted: 2/13/2012 6:06:18 AM
" Personally I like the Alien Explanation. It fits into what I've been thinkin'! Ancient roots.. it's all there, makes sense!! Now I just need to find an alien lady for myself -something new and different, possibly better (?). lol."


It always worked for Captain Kirk. He was willing to boldly go where no man has gone before.
 tlcme1964
Joined: 8/28/2009
Msg: 41
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Posted: 2/13/2012 7:35:31 AM
Gone equals attached or married.
 Julietsdestiny
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 43
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Posted: 2/13/2012 8:11:41 AM
Falling on her ar*e after kissing you? Ummm strange indeed.
Does she drink a lot? Is she diabetic?
What was it she wanted to know before she kissed you?
This whole scenerio is wierd.
You don't even know this woman!
Is it because she paid attention to you that put's her in front of other women you have met?
She sounds slightly unbalanced to me.....Anyone who does the disappearing act after having 'such a good time' IS imbalanced and need's to sought out their private life BEFORE they allow someone new to enter their life.
 DameWrite
Joined: 2/27/2010
Msg: 44
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Posted: 2/13/2012 11:17:52 AM
I'd leave her one last message saying you are not comfortable waiting around for her to respond to your messages and that if you don't hear from her by weeks end you are going to assume she's not interested in taking things further. If she doesn't reply and you see her back on POF you'll know she was playing you, because if what you say is true about the connection you say you both felt and she's ignoring you... she is a game player, no matter what her reason. (unless of course if she's somehow incapacitated).
I hope this turns out for you, but I'm not so sure it will. If it doesn't PLEASE don't get jaded.
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 45
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Posted: 2/13/2012 11:36:55 AM
I'm guessing the kiss did nothing for her and that you missed that part because it did so much for you. I mean why would she completely dismiss you otherwise? Unless something happened to her, like her boyfriend/husband catching her. But whatever it is, unless she contacts you again with a believable explanation, I would move on and forget her.
 kay0888
Joined: 2/6/2012
Msg: 46
yep.
Posted: 2/13/2012 11:40:25 AM
Oh yeah I agree some woman will run. Its better then getting hurt. I`m one of then... Go after her....
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 47
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Posted: 2/13/2012 5:31:34 PM
Good luck....I hope things turn out for you both!
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 48
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Posted: 2/13/2012 6:17:47 PM
This whole thing sounds like an episode from Big Bang Theory.
 ToThySelf
Joined: 2/26/2010
Msg: 49
after 2 weeks....
Posted: 2/14/2012 9:55:00 AM
Its amazing how time flies after a case of wine! She sobered up ...
 Colemin8r
Joined: 1/12/2012
Msg: 50
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Posted: 2/15/2012 4:08:02 AM

I'm not about to just give up until i get an explanation,


Then the OP is doomed to failure. As General-Public said, an explanation may never happen, rightly or wrongly.

The OP has to stop letting his heart rule his head, analyse the post away from the emotion and see what the other posters see - a circumstance where one person has had a change of mind and what was good is no more.
 ForumsGee
Joined: 2/26/2009
Msg: 51
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Posted: 2/15/2012 5:55:12 AM
Hope it lasts forever!
 Happy2Day
Joined: 2/10/2011
Msg: 53
after 2 weeks....
Posted: 2/15/2012 5:17:25 PM
STOP calling her! Give her time to think about you!

By your post, I can guess you are rather intense. That can be great. It can also be scary. Who wants to feel smothered after a couple weeks?

Like you, I'm on the intense side, and I have to consciously temper that - not let the chemical reaction take over. A few months ago, a very similar situation happened to me. It started intense then disappeared. I texted him once or twice then let it go. Last month her reappeared. By the time he reappeared, I was no longer interested anymore.

So let her make the next move!
 luv2lol
Joined: 2/18/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 2/15/2012 6:09:47 PM
I say go find her in person and see if you can get an explanation. If I've learned anything, lots of initial communication doesn't mean they can do it if they get scared. It's seems odd but its true. Sounds like she is scared and is pulling away since she's not still online looking for another fishy (unless she's set up a new acct). At least you'll get to see her reaction. If she still resists or comes up with some lie (never believe the hospital excuses without proof lol) , at least you know you tried and you can go home and mend your heart knowing that she's got issues you can't help with. The not knowing is murder. Even if it doesn't go well you will get something out of it to get some closure. If it goes well though and you end up happy ever after let us know...this place is void of all things romantic.
 blonde.sugar
Joined: 1/3/2012
Msg: 56
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Posted: 2/16/2012 3:51:18 PM
I wouldn't trust the whole "falling down" bit. It sounds extremely contrived, and overly melodramatic.
 rec_diver
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 57
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Posted: 2/16/2012 5:08:12 PM
3 pages of posts and not one person besides myself figured out what really happened here.

Let's summarize shall we, and then I will make my ruling, which most of you will read and silently nod your heads at because it fits. Perfectly.

Here we go:

Great extended overnight first date, with no kissing.
Sparks are flying.
She comes all the way to his house just to kiss him.
They kiss..
She gets a stupid crosseyed look and her knees instantly buckle and she falls to the ground!
She immediately leaves and goes silent for the better part of a week.
Finally she responds to a text that she's confused.

There's only one possibility here.

The guy has really bad breath.

Mouthwash dude. Brush and floss twice daily. Problem solved and you might keep most of your teeth. It might be too late for this chick but at least you won't have to go through it again with someone new.

Another reason to get that first date kiss, it's not always about chemistry.

 _Kites_
Joined: 1/1/2011
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/17/2012 12:21:09 AM
That's great man! Good luck!
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 59
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Posted: 2/17/2012 12:44:35 AM
mmmm...

beats me.

Maybe she was a ghost sent to save you from youself.


Maybe YOUR the one sick and maybe in a coma and that was all a dream.
 lowmiles2
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 60
after 2 weeks....
Posted: 1/15/2013 9:13:22 AM
Maybe she's a married woman with children and doesn't want to mess that up.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 1/15/2013 1:43:01 PM
Have you slept with her? Or just drank a lot of wine?


that glass of wine turned into 3 bottles, and we were still talking while the sun was rizing at my place..
And you'd never bothered to kiss her????

A woman stayed the entire night at your place, drank 3 bottles of wine, ate breakfast there in the moring and ended up staying until 8pm the following evening and you never kissed her????


Landra hit the nail on the head.

It's called, you snooze you lose.
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 62
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Posted: 1/15/2013 1:55:45 PM
I think she was just checking you out...Thats what dating is for. Thats not to say that she isnt also checking out other guys and maybe she felt a stronger connection with someone else. The only thing you can do is, give her space and stay in her radar awhile longer. It might develop into something yet...Although the
whole "knee buckling" routine is a huge red flag...
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 63
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Posted: 1/15/2013 9:48:56 PM
Well, since the OP created this thread almost a year ago, I'd guess the situation is resolved by now.

Personally, I love those knee-buckling kisses (and my profile says so) but I've never fallen on my ass from one of them, either.
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