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 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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My answer to that question is.....
"It would have been one more if you hadn't asked......."
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 52
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Posted: 2/21/2012 10:18:14 AM

I honestly think that for the most part, it's not a case of "couldn't deal with that".
I think sometimes it's more about seeing if you're on the same page or not...
A lot of guys have expressed that they wouldn't want a virgin either, so I think it's more to do with finding someone who is in the same level of sexual interest/experience/activity etc....
I'm pretty sure a guy who's been with a hundred plus women might not be interested in a woman who's sex life was pretty limited... and the opposite too, as not everyone who's only had a few partners wants someone who's had dozens of partners either.
There's a somewhat flawed assumption sometimes that we've all had the same level of sex life, and that's simply not true... I know people who have had only 1 or 2 partners by middle age and others who were in triple digits by age 19....



As many different threads as there have been where numbers were the center of discussion, you'd think that this would be obvious. I guess people can't accept that they aren't perfect for Everyone. Truth is, we're perfect for very few people (If any.) and acceptable to seemingly only a few more.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 53
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Posted: 2/21/2012 1:28:27 PM
ChinaShopBull, At age 59 thinking about whether I would want a virgin as a GF is like thinking maybe I should go to Astronaut training school as a second career.

I have some internet friends that have slept with north of a 1000 women, a few claim 10,000. One man brought his GF to his wedding, I was going to ask if his bride knew about it, but I doubt it. Overall, they seem happy with their lifestyle.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 54
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Posted: 2/21/2012 1:42:18 PM
I have some internet friends that have slept with north of a 1000 women, a few claim 10,000.

And you believed them? If a person has sex with 10,000 people, that means having sex with a different person every single day, including weekends and holidays, for almost 28 years. If he/she takes weekends off, then he/she has to have sex with 5 different people every week for a little over 38 years. That's a bit of a stretch no matter how you slice it. It's probably doable by a woman in gangbang-athon or something, but a guy making that claim wouldn't be very credible, just based on physiological constraints.

For someone who claims to have had sex with a 1000 partners, that's one new partner every week for almost 20 years. Although that seems doable for someone who devoted his/her entire life to getting laid (like Ron Jeremy, whose numbers I'd believe), I'd be rather skeptical of such a claim by anyone other than a porn star or maybe a rock star or (fairly famous) actor.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 55
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Posted: 2/21/2012 2:13:09 PM
abelian, I am as sure as I am sure of anything in life over a 1000 is right. It's not hard if you start at 12 and you are 70 now.

Not convinced of 10,000, that seems to be pushing it, one needs to often have multiple partners. We discussed the math, the consensus was it was possible. And I don't know how one keeps count. One fellow had a bachelor party with 20 women, he said he didn't have sex with them all. So does that count for 20, don't know.

They do supply pictures.

This is their avocation in life, a few treat it as a second career. I don't judge people, they don't seem mean spirited about it.

I know I wouldn't want to do this, my dating has been much more on the very limited side. Quality not quanity.

EDIT: They often invite me on a magical mystery tour, or to come to one of their parties. But I resist, if I went, they claim I will never be the same. I sort of believe it.

BTW, since you asked, I went back and looked at the poll they did. The bulk of men were at 75-200 with 108 votes , next highest was 200-500 with 65 votes.

Not really my thing, and anyway, at my age I would never catch up.
 egowitch
Joined: 6/5/2011
Msg: 56
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Posted: 2/21/2012 2:35:59 PM
I've never had anyone ask , and if they did , I'd likely not tell 'em anyway ...
 bonj99
Joined: 3/25/2010
Msg: 57
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Posted: 2/21/2012 6:28:08 PM
I liked the movie, and I agree with the vast majority of the threads......My number is probably "higher" and just having found out that someone gave me two STDs......well. Let's just say "f*ck"and I'll never be having sex without a condom again...no matter what he says!

I don't think the number is what matters. For me...it was a validation of me as a woman, a sexual being, a person. And yes, I do love sex....ignore the gasp from woman kind.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/22/2012 8:43:37 PM

But....I'm a born again virgin now. So, now it's zero. =p



no such thing...
 HeartOn64
Joined: 2/9/2012
Msg: 59
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Posted: 2/23/2012 3:00:23 AM

I have some internet friends that have slept with north of a 1000 women, a few claim 10,000. One man brought his GF to his wedding, I was going to ask if his bride knew about it, but I doubt it. Overall, they seem happy with their lifestyle.


Umm...those men are straight up Sex Addicts!
Odd they brag about being that dysfunctional.
 What_He_Said
Joined: 1/11/2012
Msg: 60
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Posted: 2/23/2012 3:33:26 AM
Can't say I saw the movie, so can't comment on that.

However, from my POV it's seems bad form to ask and bad form to tell. From both sides of the isle.

Perhaps more important is the nature and quality of the relationships that make up that number. Is it along the lines of many but but poorly or is it more of a few but very well. an ancillary concern if there is still involvement in some way, then that's open to query.

As noted by others, The STD issue is an obvious yet important issue. What ever the number. Some things last longer than the relationship. Be safe.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 61
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Posted: 2/23/2012 4:54:54 AM

And you believed them? If a person has sex with 10,000 people, that means having sex with a different person every single day, including weekends and holidays, for almost 28 years. If he/she takes weekends off, then he/she has to have sex with 5 different people every week for a little over 38 years. That's a bit of a stretch no matter how you slice it. It's probably doable by a woman in gangbang-athon or something, but a guy making that claim wouldn't be very credible, just based on physiological constraints.



Well, I would've agreed if this would have been 40 years ago. But fact of the matter is, things are very different now. Women are a lot easier than they were, in the sense that some, probably less than 5% of the whole world population, but still equates to millions, just want to get laid, all the time, with anybody.
I'll give you an example of a convo I heard from a 19 y old guy when I was on my break yesterday;
"I f*cked that biatch, she was all over me! I had just met her, the movie started, then she was all over me! She knew I slept with her sister, and it just turned her on. Then 2 hours latter, I was scr*win her friends, and the biatch kept comin'. I'm tellin you bra, I got so many biatches, its not even hard, those stupid**** just think about love, while I'm d*ckin their asses"...
More or less, but in French.
And that guy, at least here in Montreal, isnt the exception. I'm actually preparing my kids to face the fact that there are people like that out there, who just want to screw, who don't give a crap about love, family, and stuff I find important.
So...a different girl everyday for 20 years? Try 3-4 different girls everyday for 10-15 yrs instead....
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
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Posted: 2/23/2012 8:44:57 AM

Oh my misspent youth! All those times I was stuck on third base...


LOL Gotta slide to 4th, man, come ON! stick with the game!
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
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Posted: 2/23/2012 10:40:56 AM

If anything I'd say it was just as easy if not easier 40 years ago...
Back then no one worried about AIDS, HPV, Herpes...
The worst thing was getting her pregnant or getting someting you needed a shot of pennicillin for...
Getting women was so easy, I'd be surprised, if I came home alone....


LOL True. I'll have to agree with you since I wasnt here 40 years ago, I just wanted to point out, from what I heard my parents talk about, that in Quebec in the 1960's, NO ONE talked about sex, no one would get it if it was extra-marrital, and you were going to Hell if you ever hit on a woman without marrying her, because Church controlled our lives.
But hearing my folks always say "back in my day", you'd think it it was a lot stricter and less frequent than now.
 cupper3
Joined: 8/28/2006
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Posted: 2/23/2012 2:30:55 PM

They may as well ask me how much I weigh because they will get the same response!!


In other words, more then you should?
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 65
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Posted: 2/24/2012 9:36:28 AM
onehappyfellow, great profile, you have inspired me to take up parachute jumping this year.

(For those of you that didn't check him out, he is 83 and still going strong, stronger than many of the 40 year olds I read on this forum.)

And I will keep in mind your advice on FMF relationships.
 RedElectric
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 66
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Posted: 2/24/2012 9:58:26 AM


Born again virgin does that mean it is going to hurt like the first time and be bad sex for the first year???



...and great for the guy?


Is a virgin really THAT exciting? It must be all in your head? Like the idea of being a girls first is better than the actual sex. When I "gave my virginity away" so many years ago, I just laid there, I don't even think I gave head back then, and now, with some experience, I know how to work my &*&^%, can &*^%$#, and give "the best head I've ever had"... "only girl to ever make me %#@ from just head" LoL You can take notes from porn stars but practice makes perfect!
 mainelyhere
Joined: 11/21/2011
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Posted: 2/24/2012 10:00:14 AM
the joy of a virgin is knowing their heads are filled up with jaded angry BS. Thats the appeal of youth in general, knowing that as you are in bed inside her, she isn't being a catty snot in her thoughts.
 RedElectric
Joined: 11/8/2011
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Posted: 2/24/2012 10:03:10 AM

the joy of a virgin is knowing their heads are filled up with jaded angry BS. Thats the appeal of youth in general, knowing that as you are in bed inside her, she isn't being a catty snot in her thoughts.


Oh that's good. And you're the first one to damage her and get that jaded foot in the door!! Sweet
 mainelyhere
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 69
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Posted: 2/24/2012 10:04:47 AM
if you think all men cause damage you have some issues you need to work out.
 RedElectric
Joined: 11/8/2011
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Posted: 2/24/2012 10:08:27 AM

if you think all men cause damage you have some issues you need to work out.

LoL moreso than not!! So you group all virgins into a "un damaged" group thereby forcing all non-virgins into "damaged goods" group, but I am in the wrong in thinking men damage us? Good logic. LoL You have some hypocrisy you need to work out.
 mainelyhere
Joined: 11/21/2011
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Posted: 2/24/2012 10:15:06 AM
you need to work on your logic first dear.

In the course of dating all people have bad experiences (i.e DAMAGE). Thus the less people one has been with the less LIKELY they are to be damaged. Thus a virgin is by default more likely to be less of an angry forum lurker *ahem* bashing all men.

"Moreso than not" Lol!
 shygirl413
Joined: 2/12/2012
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Posted: 2/24/2012 10:24:54 AM
why would anyone want to know that.. I wouldnt want to know that of a man and thats non of there bussiness or mine
 Ratsrule
Joined: 9/22/2011
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Posted: 2/24/2012 11:22:01 AM
I am curious about my current boyfriends number, purely because he's younger than me and I suspect it might be low , partly because he's young and a few other things make me think it might be. However, being both genuinely unable and very unwilling to discuss my own number, i let things lie and keep my trap buttoned.

I don't think my number is rediculously high, but i'm pretty sure it's more than any guy wants to hear and having had a fair few one nighters (unmemorable ones) during my uni days, i would genuinely struggle to give an accurate answer because i stopped counting when i stopped caring to judge myself on it.
 chromelove08
Joined: 11/17/2008
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Posted: 2/24/2012 10:12:27 PM
STRAYLIGHTRUN---just wanna say you are very cute so don't be offended by people who like to go as low as making fun of how others look. I have been with my fair share of guys but i am not ashamed. It just means I have a good amount of experience and that i am not a prude. I have slept with guys of all shapes, sizes, and looks so i am not shallow or close minded. I just love sex!!
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 2/25/2012 12:01:42 AM
Wow, I sure wish I could have found some women with experience, all of my lovers were virgins and the ones with kids were only with one other man.

Anybody familiar with the Everglades?.....I just bought some first class development property there.
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