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I enjoy being watched
 Unmetneeds
Joined: 10/21/2011
Msg: 96
Men don't like letting women watch them masturbate?
Posted: 8/27/2012 10:09:32 AM
Frankly, i love watching and being watched. A bit of strategic mutual masterbation, or just being watched, can be a very erotic situation whether in person, phone, or "other". He must have issues of some sort.
 daytimepm
Joined: 3/5/2012
Msg: 97
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Posted: 8/27/2012 11:56:38 AM
i like masturbating in front of a woman....even better if she is masturbating too
 MakeUTingle
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 98
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Posted: 8/27/2012 2:37:58 PM
I will put on whatever type of performance She wants to watch!
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 99
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Posted: 9/4/2012 1:27:26 PM
Visiting a few friends in the big city (high rise apartments) I noticed all of them had telescopes....a few women I had dated form the big city also had telescopes.....
 lookn4you
Joined: 10/5/2011
Msg: 100
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Posted: 9/4/2012 8:11:41 PM
Hi You..

It's all about the mental part of sex. Which, btw, IMHO, is the very best part. The Ex hated it and should never even have been a part of it or even brought up. You liked it, and he should have enjoyed that you did and given you a hell of a show.

I love a woman who can get in to the mental. The physical is good, but so easy and common. The Brain is the best sex organ...

Ron
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 101
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Posted: 9/5/2012 3:26:30 AM
If you like watching men masturbate so much, then why do you keep calling the police ?

If women really liked watching it, they'd be buying tickets to see it.
 searching4truelove00002
Joined: 7/13/2011
Msg: 102
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Posted: 9/5/2012 11:44:02 AM
I'll be your needle.....I love being watched, it just adds to the climax...
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 103
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Posted: 10/14/2012 7:41:03 PM
You're kidding, right?

It's one of the biggest turn-ons to have your woman watching you masturbate... even better if she is doing it herself whilst she's watching you.


But in poking around the Net, I have found that most men DON'T want their significant others watching them jerk off and some say that they can't "perform" if they are being watched. However, men do like to see a woman get herself off.

You've been poking around the wrong places! lol
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 104
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Posted: 10/15/2012 6:51:16 AM

The only thing I want to put in here, is that like the guy you dumped, OP, I also grew up in a world where masturbation was considered to be an act of weakness or dissolution by a guy, and wherein the women I knew (as someone else mentioned) claimed that, along with looking at anything approaching porn, that it was akin to cheating on them.


I think Igor nailed here. The reality is that even I felt that masturbation was a bad thing until after my divorce and I began to attend the forums and realize that it's simply normal.
 Wedne003
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 105
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Posted: 10/15/2012 8:00:08 AM
My ex was like this, could not do it no matter what I suggested. Me I love to wank in front of a woman, especially if she is talking dirty to me.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 106
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Posted: 10/15/2012 8:02:37 AM
It's not so much liking or disliking her watching, it's more like why masturbate with a women in bed with me?

That is something I do when I have no GF.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 108
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Posted: 10/15/2012 9:23:30 AM

It's not so much liking or disliking her watching, it's more like why masturbate with a women in bed with me?

That is something I do when I have no GF.

Because some women think it's f*ckin' hot when their man does it. For example.. last night I was having my fun on his face, and he was stroking himself. I came, he came, I came again, and again, and again. And I think once more after that. Feeling his body moving and shaking under me, hearing the sound of his hand on his c*ck, plus the moaning and groaning into my body.. all those things are like triggers for me.

BTW, we both masturbate on a regular basis when we are on our own, as well as together. It's just another part of sex for us and not limited to single-hood.
 sollty
Joined: 10/11/2012
Msg: 109
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Posted: 10/15/2012 9:27:32 AM

It's not so much liking or disliking her watching, it's more like why masturbate with a women in bed with me?

That is something I do when I have no GF.


The difference is when you have no gf all you get to do is spank it.

When a woman is with you watching that doesn't mean that is all you get to do and how you are going to end up climaxing, it's just PART of the whole experience.
 NCnavetG8r
Joined: 9/7/2012
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Posted: 10/15/2012 11:04:33 AM
I don't want to wank off in front of my gal all by myself. I'm not even sure why any lady would want or expect a man to do this. I mean, if she thinks it's hot, or a turn-on, why wouldn't she prefer to be involved in some way? I mean, do a strip tease for me, or dance naked, or play with yourself too! Squeeze your tits, lick your nipples. Do something to encourage me and make me feel like I'm not just performing, I'm participating! What's the point in being turned on and doing nothing about it? I guess I just don't get that. The only word I can come up with to describe how that feels to me is awkward. Was asked to do it once, and it IS very awkward feeling to me. I guess I just don't have the exhibitionist chromosome. At least if we're both masturbating, or if she's kissing, touching or rubbing against me, I feel like I'm participating in something so it's much easier to get into and enjoy.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
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Posted: 10/15/2012 12:56:45 PM


I find now that I am very turned on by the sight of a man handling himself.


It's very erotic finding that I can evoke that kind of response in a man. LOL
 jonwillis87
Joined: 10/7/2012
Msg: 112
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Posted: 10/15/2012 1:09:15 PM
I just see it all as part of a healthy sex life. Watch, join in, finish by yourself or let her do it, so long as you both enjoy it. If one of you feels uncomfortable about it, then express your feeling and let it be known. Whilst this discussion has focused on the woman watch the man, it can equally be the man watching the woman.
 ForumFun
Joined: 3/5/2012
Msg: 113
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Posted: 10/15/2012 3:19:10 PM
What men don't like it?! I'm cool with it. I like watching her do it too!
 searching4truelove00002
Joined: 7/13/2011
Msg: 114
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Posted: 10/21/2012 10:12:55 PM
I love it when she is watching me stroke myself, and just at the right time puts me in her mouth and swallows all of me...Damn..whats sexier than that???
 Zuglo65
Joined: 4/19/2012
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Posted: 10/22/2012 4:57:49 AM
No problem here.
 searching4truelove00002
Joined: 7/13/2011
Msg: 116
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Posted: 10/22/2012 7:53:51 AM
MundusViator.....I've found that most women have many hidden sexual desires, that rarely surface without being coaxed out by their partner. It all just adds to the hightened sexual experience. You're young, try many new things,and you would be surprised how much they enjoy new stuff, instead of the old "Wham-bam-thankyou-mam" Self masturbation "during" sex has nothing to do with boredom.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
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Posted: 10/24/2012 1:36:04 PM

I see it as a normal body function and if someone walks in on me, I don't act unnatural.



Taking a dump is a normal body function, but I wouldn't want to walk in on someone doing that.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
Joined: 9/7/2011
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Posted: 10/24/2012 2:14:19 PM
Stranger, no, S/O would be fun and I'd join him.
 E_LectoCute537
Joined: 2/6/2012
Msg: 121
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Posted: 10/24/2012 6:56:39 PM
Personally, I really enjoy masturbating in front of my lady- when I have one. lol! . I'm a no holds barred, very adventurous kinda guy tho. On more than one occasion, I'd walk from the shower and into the living room where she was at. "holding myself" , walk right up to her, sweat pouring off my face, look at her with that "base animal lust in my eyes" & say in a gravely voice," See what you do to me baby"? :D "Do you mind if I lay back on the couch & show you what you do to me"?
 ranhard4u
Joined: 3/31/2007
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Posted: 10/24/2012 7:02:49 PM
well i enjoy beig wached masturbaing and i enjoy watch a woman masturbate . i think its a great trun on to see just how and were the other person touchs them self , i ll always enjoy watching n being wtched
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