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Joined: 7/21/2010
Msg: 158
Natural and hairy women?Page 7 of 19    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19)
As of armpits and legs, have to shave. Armpits, everyday. I do shave down there, I feel cleaner, but if I was to meet a guy, that I really liked, and he asked to to stop shaving, (my girl) I would.
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 159
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/7/2012 7:01:18 PM

The most amusing email conversation I had with a guy I had only just met online and not in person yet contained a stipulation that a woman had to be clean shaven or she couldn't date him.

Im all for shaving trimming or waxing,,

but typically men who have a strict rule of the woman must be shaved all day everyday an everything all the time..always seems to be the guys who are hairier then bigfoot,, you would think they would take their own advice an shave that sweater of hair off their own body not to mention the forest of ball hair an ass hair where the dingle berries get stuck..GROSS
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 160
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/7/2012 8:07:24 PM
This old guy prefers his lady shaved or waxed . I'll manscape.
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 161
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Posted: 8/8/2012 1:44:12 AM
op - find an applicable hippie commune to live in. I visited one once where clothing was completely optional, and leg-shaving for women was also completely optional. It was "interesting". Arg!
Joined: 7/18/2012
Msg: 162
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/8/2012 12:53:24 PM

Cracks me up how fussy people are about pubesaries

I've never wanted to be hairless ~ if the man I was seeing preferred it then I would consider it, but he's fine with me as is

I prefer than men have pubes as well ~ much sexier that way. Have you noticed that having pubic hair showing is considered taboo? If you remove your hair (as in models) they'll show a lot of skin, but hair is a no no :)
Joined: 2/18/2012
Msg: 163
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/8/2012 10:20:48 PM
I agree with the OP. I also have been looking for an all natural woman at least in the personal area.
But it seems so much shaving is consider more normal today and natural seems to be wierd for some reason.
I like to feel my partner has passed puberty. Looking at bald is just yuck to me. But everyone has preferences.
Unfortunately these types of preferences are not something you can put into a dating profile and expect to get
responses. So it is tough for guys like us who are in the minority today and love the bush.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 164
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Posted: 8/9/2012 3:21:47 AM
something very wrong about men wanting to live out fantasies of having sex with very young girls
something even more conserning about women that actively encourage these 'fantasies' by shaving........
well, it would seem, due to the rise of child abuse, the porn and other fashion industries are changing , looks like they have children too,
in mid 2012,it is no longer 'cool' or sexy to shave everything off, now the toatal trim, is in
i still find it just amazing how people have become putty in the hands of media, you people are now, even doing things that go against nature itself, because your being told to,shaving everything off has no historical president, every culture has a taboo, against,young girls, and boys that have not reached puberty , for good reason!
but in this new world of 30 second sound bites,it would seem, anything is possible....

the funny thing is, two other things happened with human sexuality,one the ED, plague,and the rise of child sexual abuse in the usa
everything we do has some kind of effect on someone else, be mindful of that, before you pretend to be a young child, women!
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Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 165
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Posted: 8/9/2012 4:21:53 AM
showers make you cleaner......
sahaving is not healthy, razor burn, ingrown hairs,and stubble
its all about fantasy, and that fantasy is about young
that is the only reason for shaving
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 166
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/9/2012 5:40:14 AM
Its a personal choice for sure and I enjoy it all......never preasured a woman to change who they are....
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Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 167
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Posted: 8/9/2012 9:31:04 AM
look, you not every one else thinks that women who do not shave smell like piss, news flash dirty people smell dirty, seems that is your type
no stubble,no after affects of shaving , so are you telling the world you have only been with children.... cause every adult woman, has problems with shaving from time to time
honestly, i dont think your a child molester, i think you just do not have anything to do with real women ha ha ha
you just have some really silly ideas that do not have anything to with reality
i dont think you have even gotten close enough to a kitty to have smelled one lol, smell like piss, jessusss what rock did you crawl up under from lol
i tried to complain, no one accuses me of anything like that..... so i give it back to you smiles
nice bottom feeder lol
a lot of people in america, wont touch carp
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 168
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/9/2012 9:17:25 PM
Well, I just got my drainage tube removed from my twinkie. THAT whole thing sure was ff'd up.
All started with that damn shave....
Not that anyone was concerned....
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 169
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Posted: 8/10/2012 1:41:31 AM
spitty kitty - glad you're doing ok.

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I once heard one of them wanna-be radio sex-talk call-in show hosts/therapists say that the reason men want women to be shaven is because they like them to look like little girls. That pretty much made me a little sick. Smart or dumb, I don't think a high percentage of men who like this like it for that reason. I'd be disgusted if I seen my girlfriend in that way. That was a strange notion to me when I first heard never crossed my mind that a woman who's shaved would be that way to look like a little girl. I'll forever hate that wanna-be therapist idiot for putting that idea into my head. I also heard her say that a caller's boyfriend liked going down on her and her sitting on his face because he had a problem with intimacy. I said to myself WHAT?! God, that host was a f***ing idiot. Some might have problems with intimacy, and it might show in different ways...but to think that oral sex is intrinsically an indication of it is bizarre. Oral sex can be one of the most intimate activities.

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I never understood the dilemma between the two extremes...shaved or mostly untouched...what about something in between? I can imagine a big face-full of hair to be nice, like with her hair on her head having a yummy conditioner smell, etc, depending on the woman, personal preference, and hygiene...and I can imagine the shaven experience too, with it's unhindered full flesh contact. But generally, on the one hand when a lot of hair gets wet during oral it's just not appetizing for me specifically, and on the other hand it's just hard for me to see how it's possible to shave that area in the first place, man or woman, and I can see the dangers and difficulties, and it brings whiskers which can be yucky...and waxing down there just seems like a big nooo! So, for me, I like the idea and ease, for me or her, of simply using hair clippers and keeping things trimmed down to something like an overgrown peach fuzz, or slightly longer - for the guy at least. Seems a lot easier, safer, and enjoyable in all respects.

Now when it comes to legs and underarms...I'm about the same way, and flexible. And then women's "mustaches" and eyebrows...I never seen it the same way as apparently others do. I don't really like, or require, that those things be groomed away how most do it. I don't think that the overgrown peach fuzz on a woman's upper lip looks fact I always thought it looked feminine and sexy as hell. I once saw a woman who had about a dozen inch-long black hairs right smack in the middle of her breast/cleavage...other guys for some odd reason saw it as negating her awesome body, but I thought it was cute as hell, and was like a beauty mark of individuality.
Joined: 7/18/2012
Msg: 170
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Posted: 8/10/2012 2:33:37 PM
I'm so sorry that happened to you, SpittyKitty! What a painful ordeal :( I'm in agreement that anything sharp does not go near tender flesh. No ripping the hair out, either
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Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 171
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Posted: 8/10/2012 3:03:06 PM
look,take a basic marketing course
you will understand the world around you
the name of the game is sell,
sell thing you need, sell things you dont even better
the porn industry sells porn, and fantasies, the fantasy is youth
no one is saying that everyone who shaves want to have sex with children, the idea is youth
this thread, is getting old,the shaved look is getting old, its out of style right now, and will be history within 10 years
truth is it did not stick
just like big huge 'fake 'tits are gone, the shaved look will be gone
why, because it is just too un natural for the majority of people
most men, love women, in all shapes colors and ages
the idea is they love women,not young, not kids
of course there will be pedofiles, but there only about 2 or 3 per cent of the population

SpitttyKitty, hope you feel better soon angel
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 172
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/10/2012 9:48:32 PM
Thanks everyone who sent me well wishes.
You DID make me feel better!
Happy to report that everything's looking and feeling better.
 sylvilagus aquaticus
Joined: 11/4/2009
Msg: 173
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/10/2012 11:27:01 PM
SK, I'm glad you're feeling better and on the road to recovery. That has to be an absolutely harrowing experience!

I've refrained from chiming in so far, but my opinion is that 'it is what it is'. Some people are more follicularly gifted (or challenged) than others. I'm old enough, and I've been around enough, to experience in the first person present what is jokingly called "70's 'prOn' bush", which nobody thought ill of at the time. I've seen adult, fully grown women who were naturally so thin and sparse it was as if there was nearly nothing there. I've seen it black, brown, blonde, red, and gray. I've seen blue, green and pink as well, but that's another story for a different time. I've seen women who shaved and picked up staph infections to the point where their pudenda appeared scalded and scarred and virus-ridden, all over false vanity and peer pressure.

Folks, if it's so long and full it bothers you that much, take the scissors to it or use thinning shears. It's there for a reason although I know it's tough to leave well enough alone. Wear a little less revealing swimsuit bottom if you're that irritated. I remember seeing pigtails poking out of the sides of a bikini, but I didn't figure myself scarred for life because of it.

It's a trend, just like shaving or plucking eyebrows completely gone was. Trends fade. This one will too.
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 174
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/23/2012 2:02:58 AM
I also like a more natural woman...i meet many who shave their eyebrows and tattoo them back in...freakin weird...i dont like it when they shave their arms either. I dont like hairy legs or armpits but the rest.....leave it alone...little spikes all over a girl is strange to me...i feel your pain
Joined: 8/18/2012
Msg: 175
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Posted: 8/23/2012 4:33:03 AM
Natural and hairy is the only way to go... this shaving craze is way out of control...
Joined: 8/6/2012
Msg: 176
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/23/2012 5:38:09 AM
I`m pretty old school with a lot of things but when it comes to pubes...I`m a shaver and prefer the same!
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 177
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Posted: 8/24/2012 4:19:09 AM
Natural/hairy women??? man..if she has hair on her back you better run........
i prefer trimmed....shaved looks to weird...and hairy looks too primitive so to trimmed up strip/ landing strip is so appealing!
Joined: 4/13/2012
Msg: 178
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Posted: 8/24/2012 6:45:52 AM
Thanks for this thread...I had many of my questions answered...! I have been divorced one week now after 39+ years of marriage and am learning as I go. I was part of that free love scene in the 1970s without the STD worries and was faithful during my long marriage (unless you count my revenge encounter?) ... I have been observing since April, waiting until my divorce was final...! I shall proceed with caution...
Joined: 7/5/2012
Msg: 181
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Posted: 8/25/2012 5:28:57 AM
women usually don't come pre-packaged...find someone that's into you, do a little fantasy role-playing & there you go. i like my men like you like your women. for myself, i personally like a smooth body, since i consider hair a masculine trait; but to each their own.
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 182
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/27/2012 3:05:11 PM
I have to say that I prefer a hairier just looks more powerful and majestic to me.
Joined: 7/5/2012
Msg: 183
Natural and hairy women?
Posted: 8/27/2012 4:43:28 PM
@want to travel
i respect your preference...i'm n2 live & let live; but i'm lost why you feel that you can speak for me.

not all body hair can be left to it's own some men prefer not to grow a beard for multiple reasons.

i have 3 reasons i prefer a smooth body: i think of body hair as a masculine trait; & the underwear i prefer looks best for the avenue i take with waxing; & the 3rd is due to plain old preference on how i feel things should look.

but none of my reasons have to do with wanting to look younger.

i feel neater and different than when women started shaving her legs and others thought it a fad or a pre-pubescent return. at one time i waxed my arms also.

again i respect your preference, but please understand that others have theirs possibly for a different reason than you might think.
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