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 Natey2
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Is there a worse way to hurt the female ego than to defer sex with her, especially if she initiated it?
Attributing that to him allegedly being gay sounds like a defense mechanism to buffer the hurt female ego (if he's not gay).

Yep, any time a woman wants to have sex, all normal guys should get in line for a profound experience they can't get anywhere else. :^)
 johnfromzelie
Joined: 3/8/2018
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He doesnt like SEX? really?
Posted: 12/25/2018 3:40:59 PM
would that still work if you reversed roles? what if all normal women got in line and waited their turn?
 _Cinnamon__Girl_
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He doesnt like SEX? really?
Posted: 12/28/2018 2:20:16 AM

Just because a person does not want to have sex does not mean they are gay.......but it's one possibility. Other possibilities are asexuality or he's got a low love level or he's not in love with you.


In my situation, my husband was never really interested in physical intimacy, from day one. We didn't even kiss until the 7th date, and that was because I initiated it. There were many things that made me think he was an in-denial gay man. Too much to get into here. Even a couple of friends tentatively approached me, afraid of causing offence, and suggested he might be gay. They were surprised when I agreed that he might.

Once he woke up in the middle of the night, and busted me watching (straight) porn in our home office. He was so upset.
It was such a reversal of roles, he, acting like a naive, offended housewife, and me, assuring him that it was just harmless entertainment.
 hemingway234
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He doesnt like SEX? really?
Posted: 12/28/2018 12:49:33 PM
I knew a woman who was married to a gay man who "came out" late in the marriage. He wanted to have a gay lover AND stay married to his wife, all at the same time. The wife, husband, and the husband's gay lover even went to Thanksgiving dinner together. She got a divorce - no surprise their. (by the way, there is a support group called Straight Spouse for this).

Another woman I knew, her husband did not like sex, they rarely engaged in it. She divorced also.

Sad stories. I'll just say I'm a healthy man, I can't even fathom it. But it does happen.

Oh, and yet another woman friend of mine just got out of a relationship last year - her ex boyfriend had diabetes and could not have sex, and did not even give her affection. For the life of me, I can't understand why she moved in with a man like this. Love does seem blind sometimes.
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