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 GJBrown
Joined: 9/12/2011
Msg: 104
Can guys be bisexual?Page 6 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
But I thought sucking D*** did make women gay "as in happy"
Anyway.. Some of these bi folk say the are willing to accept love from either sex. Others say they are willing to take sex from either sex but not Love. kinda messed up. I'm not bi but if I hooked up with a bi chick only to find out she doesn't actually date men but just gets it in with them I'd be pretty mad. Some guy on here said he has no problem sucking a penis but would never date a man. I don't get bisexuality and don't really want to get it. Or married people having threesomes.
But why care. I enjoy being straight. And I would never try to convince anyone who isn't to be straight. Be bi, Suck D on monday, lick V on tuesday, F*** a Platypus on wednesday, then do all 3 the rest of they week. Church Sunday!
 CERVANTES7
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 105
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Can guys be bisexual?
Posted: 8/26/2013 9:21:30 AM
yes as women can to it's called having your cake and eating it to greedy sods
 Nihil83
Joined: 8/30/2013
Msg: 106
Can guys be bisexual?
Posted: 9/7/2013 12:43:47 AM
i put my penis in all sorts of things. bisexual is the evolution of homosapiens
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
Msg: 107
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Posted: 9/7/2013 7:13:06 PM
of course they can.
 Caseyjones4
Joined: 8/26/2013
Msg: 108
Can guys be bisexual?
Posted: 9/7/2013 11:12:26 PM
Men are neither bisexual or homosexual. Evolution never supported such nonsense..

It is just a choice people make largely based on lust..
 Teeebs
Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 109
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Posted: 8/10/2014 8:59:58 PM
There seems to be a lot of confusion in this thread. Might want to google the "Kinsey Scale" and do some reading before commenting. Sexual orientation is NOT a black and white sort of thing. There's lots of different shades of gray in there too. Not like a guy can really fake (or in many cases control) what he is or isn't attracted to. The "indicator" is pretty obvious really. And usually not as big of a deal as some people make it out to be. Unless of course he's getting aroused while idly flipping through and electrical appliance catalog. THAT might be an issue...
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 110
Can guys be bisexual?
Posted: 8/11/2014 7:26:30 AM

Men are neither bisexual or homosexual. Evolution never supported such nonsense..

It is just a choice people make largely based on lust..


Totally disagree with this. I've known gay people that even wished that they were straight. Yet they had the attraction to their own sex. I've seen this with men and with women.

Masters and Johnson said that sexuality is not black and white but a scale. We all have some degree of attraction to our own sex, yet, may not be to the point that it create sexual impulses.
 April1963
Joined: 7/12/2014
Msg: 112
Can guys be bisexual?
Posted: 8/16/2014 7:16:24 AM

some people say that guys can't be bisexual


To be honest, I am one of those "some" people who believe that.

IMO, if a man have sex with other man =GAY
If a woman have sex with other woman =LESBIAN
This thought also goes for the so-called trisomes......male ,male ,female =Gay.

Some people who do not accept what THEY ARE invented the word.... BI.

There is nothing a 'gay' (not out of closet) man can say to change my way of thinking,plain and simple.something is black or white.

April.
 pureandsimple4172
Joined: 5/2/2014
Msg: 113
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Posted: 8/16/2014 12:34:45 PM
I agree with April. Well said!
 Dougtwo
Joined: 1/29/2013
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Posted: 8/18/2014 7:13:15 AM
Long-time friend came out to the world he was gay a number of years back. He and I stayed friends due to a mutual hobby and we have had a number of discussions about his decision over the years. My friend always said no one was 100 percent straight. I absolutely DO NOT agree with him. I always though it was a good ploy to see if I was interested. But I was not and I have never had any interest in the same sex. I just don't think about.

I do think this thought process has come about more because people who are struggling with the decision use it as good public relations about themselves and sexuality. My friend is very up front he dated and had sex with women to appease his mother, the world, his work friends, etc. But he always knew it was wrong for him. Yet in my personal life, he is the only man I have ever heard say this statement. (I read it a lot on this forum, but I don't experience it in the world or conversations.)

I find most men have a real aversion to sex, or the thought of sex, with their own gender. (Or at least they say so.) If they do not have this aversion then they are struggling gay or that smaller group of people that are truly bi-sexual. I do believe they exist but my life experience has not proven them to be the majority.

In life I have found most people are one way or the other and those that are bi are often on the fence or not ready to come out yet.

I also believe a number of people, probably more than I realize, are so into sex they will try anything.
 wooweewoo13
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 115
Can guys be bisexual?
Posted: 8/20/2014 5:48:43 AM
What about woman?.....same thing....lol...an age old question....LOVE woman!
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 116
Can guys be bisexual?
Posted: 8/20/2014 8:33:18 AM

I find most men have a real aversion to sex, or the thought of sex, with their own gender.


This is an interesting statement. I have gay male and female friends. I have no issues with their lifestyle, their choices or even their rights. I consider myself 100 percent straight. And like many men, for instance when watching a movie, I don't want to see gay people kissing. Call it what it may, but many straight guys don't enjoy that at all.

I also believe that part of what defines your sexuality is what you dream about. If you fantasize about doing someone of your same sex, well maybe that is part of your sexual inclination. All my fantasies so far, no matter how dirty they have been, involved women.
 Aradia96
Joined: 10/25/2014
Msg: 118
Can guys be bisexual?
Posted: 2/14/2015 6:16:02 AM
Of course they can, just like women.
I'm not sure how I'd feel about a prospective partner being bi or of had bi experiences with other men
Sounds hot honestly
But that's probably because I'm into that kind of stuff ;)
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