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 bootielicious
Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 132
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Honesty and communication is key!

There are 2 people in this scenario and not one. Being intimate on the first date, might mean it's not going anywhere to you, but it might mean hearts and flowers to the other person. Let them know how you feel. Let them know that you're enjoying the moment, but not looking at long term and then they can decide if they want sex with you, knowing that they would be wasting their time to try and see you as a girlfriend.

I guess it's about showing respect?
 DAFT_DOG
Joined: 4/23/2011
Msg: 133
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Posted: 8/27/2012 12:09:11 PM
it all comes back to the old "what works for some, wont work for all" adage does`nt it,

my last relationship was a "sex on the first date" and it lasted some 13 months, so its not neccesarily a stopper to a potential relationship :O)
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