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 darkside0fthem00n
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 13
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this one mate


Ramsey and the woman had spent four days chatting on plentyoffish.com which claims on its home page to be “responsible for more dates and more relationships than any other dating site”.
 CheriNickens
Joined: 5/8/2011
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/21/2012 8:44:56 PM
I agree that it's a game of chance, but she didn't have four dates with him, she chatted on POF with him four times. It was their first date and that is very scary.
 stonecastle
Joined: 2/14/2007
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Posted: 3/22/2012 6:04:12 AM
Dating websites should carry more warnings about the potential dangers of meeting people online. Most people warn children about the dangerous of meeting people in person they meet online but adults are just as at risk sometimes and need to be given proper warnings about what to do when meeting someone they met online.
 ControlledFolly
Joined: 2/17/2011
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Posted: 3/22/2012 12:31:10 PM
Its a step in the right direction thats for sure, i have a feeling the CRB people will be in for a booming business soon.

A one stop shop for dating/internet safety:

Sex offenders register, CRB check, AIDS/STD check..... hmm im going to patent this idea right away.
 try1more
Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 3/24/2012 10:21:49 AM
why do i think this is a very poorly disguised promotion of other "paid" sites.
is it perhaps because the only two posts made by the op are on this thread?

is it perhaps because the op tries to suggest this rape wouldn't have happened if ramsey had been checked, in spite of there being "no" mention of any previous accusations never mind convictions?

or is it because the op does "not" engage in the discussion except to post what can only be described as announcements?

for whatever it may be worth, i think that anything that removes a need for personal responsibility can only be a bad thing.
oh! he/she must be ok as they've been checked!

in short it smells just the same as those hoax emails that you get sent by friends that should know better.
 UkSammie
Joined: 11/6/2008
Msg: 20
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Posted: 3/24/2012 11:11:11 AM
Not being rude or anything but why would u meet someone on your own and show them where you live? obv need to meet in a public place with a friend not take him to ur front door,
 try1more
Joined: 12/16/2007
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Posted: 3/24/2012 1:18:24 PM
boy how times change!
in the distant past if you "didn't" walk a girl home and saw her safe to her door.
you would have been the biggest arsehole going!
now if you were to insist on doing that you would likely get arrested


erm note to admin.
just checked this post and found it's on page 3 of 2 ?
 stonecastle
Joined: 2/14/2007
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Posted: 6/23/2012 10:41:20 AM
It is very foolish to not take precautions when meeting people from dating websites. Even something as simple as taking along a friend could easily avert disaster. The best advice is to choose a very busy place, take along a friend and leave separately. Or you could tell a couple of friends to come along but stay discreetly in the background incase anything goes wrong.
 stonecastle
Joined: 2/14/2007
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Posted: 6/23/2012 10:52:31 AM
By the way the safest form of internet dating is to date old friends you knew from years back from sites like Facebook and FriendsReunited. That way you already know what the people you are going to meet are like. There have been many successful relationships from people re-meeting old friends this way.
 try1more
Joined: 12/16/2007
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Posted: 6/23/2012 11:01:40 AM
sorry but this is bloody ridiculous.
do you demand to see an up to date medical cert for the driver/pilot or a breathalyser result before getting on a bus, train or plane.
people have been attacked by cab drivers, do you take a friend or two along just incase?

quite apart from anything else, as has already been pointed out it was not a first meet/date.

on the other hand i've not tried a threesome before, so i guess it has it's upsides:-)
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