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 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
Msg: 101
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men wearing panties causes people to run for the hills???

WHo makes these stupid rules??????


I guess its just the phenomenon of modern society's fashion.
For example, look at the dress fashions of any country in the world and you will see that men wear pants and shirts, women wear dresses.

In Biblical times, men wore long flowing ankle length "dresses" like the women did. Why and who decided to change the fashions we don't know but it seems accepted and adhered to the world over without question.

I guess it's an interesting conept. In history it was unheard of to see a woman in a pair of pants.....jeans. Now its commonplace. However we don't see men walking around in dresses and skirts....and even wearing bikinis or high heels. (Yes, yes, some do.)

Why did the men wear top hats and the ladies wear frilly ones with feathers? I guess the frilly wide hats were considered too "feminine" for the men to wear.

An interest concept indeed.......:)
 livingwithadog
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 102
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/8/2012 12:56:40 PM

That anyone would put on your USED and dirty underwear is f*ing gross.

I don't recall the op mentioning "USED & dirty" underwear... Did I miss something? ... hmmm
 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
Msg: 103
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/8/2012 5:18:24 PM

He confessed he had a fettish for wearing women's used underwear and he often showered in them and masturbated


Yep. This is taken from my Original Post. One revolting sight I tell ya!! :(
 wackadoodledoo
Joined: 4/14/2011
Msg: 104
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Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/8/2012 5:25:51 PM
That concept sure wouldn't work for me. Guess I can think of many more quirks that I find less revolting!
 Extollere
Joined: 2/21/2012
Msg: 105
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/8/2012 7:57:14 PM
No way would I ever leave a man bootylicious enough to rock a pair of slinky boyshorts. You go, boy!

Is "making him shake it to 'Back That Ass Up'" a valid reaction?

That said, I would likely feel some displeasure from him stretching out my lacies without my knowledge. Bad boyfriend! Can't take you no place.

In all seriousness, this scenario is not unknown territory for me. Never had someone just start wearing my undies before, but I have been asked for new unworn panty/short/thong donations for wearing purposes. We laughed about it, I shrugged, I obliged. I was actually kind of flattered he felt safe enough with me to confess the fantasy. I guess I didn't get the memo that I was supposed to be appalled by it. It's definitely not something I'd be hitting the *ABORT MISSION* button for. It's pretty minor to me and I own too many damn pairs anyway.
 livingwithadog
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 106
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/8/2012 8:38:11 PM

Yep. This is taken from my Original Post. One revolting sight I tell ya!!

Damn. I did miss something. So, he wasn't wearing your underwear when you walked in? Women's dirty underwear? What women? How does he get 'em, I wonder—the "womans dirty underwear", that is? Well, obviously, I'd have many more questions to ask him before my initial shock and curiosity turned into anything else...
 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
Msg: 107
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/8/2012 10:35:32 PM

So, he wasn't wearing your underwear when you walked in? Women's dirty underwear? What women?


They were mine. He told me he'd had this fetish for years and that his previous girlfriends didnt mind at all.

Well, thats okay if his past g/f's didnt mind but I did. He said his ex's knew from the beginning. We were together for 18 months before I found out. Hmmmmm.

Anyway, that wasn't the reason why I left him . Our relationship was pretty much over anyway.
 tygerpawn
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 108
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/10/2012 10:45:02 AM
A man that gets off wearing womens underwear? ewwwwwwwwwwww that would be a no no, weird , freak ,a bit on the fruity side and for sure a good bye.

That is just plain weird
 Janet_Always
Joined: 6/20/2012
Msg: 109
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/10/2012 11:13:46 AM
Though I wear men's boxers sometimes, I would find it a turnoff to see a man in women's undergarments of any kind.

I like manly men... so that would be a deal breaker for sure.
 SONNI100
Joined: 12/24/2010
Msg: 110
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/10/2012 11:20:44 AM
Puke...and I mean it !
 Funfiftysomething
Joined: 6/24/2012
Msg: 111
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/14/2012 8:39:30 PM
A guy would be hard pressed to get aroused wearing my granny panties, lol.
 red11dodge
Joined: 6/29/2012
Msg: 112
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/14/2012 9:41:05 PM
Nothings is as fun as a good laugh. Iam sure all the kids had plenty to talk about at school. Memories :)
 Thomas_Andronicus
Joined: 6/17/2012
Msg: 113
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/14/2012 9:49:59 PM

Puke...and I mean it !

Bump.
 annywn
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 114
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/5/2012 7:52:56 PM
Probably not, everyone is a little freaky and has there own stuff they like. I wouldn't want them to judge me on mine and rather they tell me than not.
 Lilbitofsugaandspice
Joined: 6/30/2011
Msg: 115
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/5/2012 7:55:56 PM
Its clothing who cares, its not like you found them licking the cat. ewwww lol
 Serephena
Joined: 9/2/2012
Msg: 116
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/6/2012 2:52:33 AM
I would have ran to. No way would I ever have been attracted again to someone who I caught wearing anything of mine.
 justanormalman2121
Joined: 6/25/2012
Msg: 117
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/6/2012 3:20:49 AM
it is not acceptable too wear womens clothes or underwear its quiet sick i mean a man is man a women a women to me that is just deviet behaviour the scary thing is what else does he do
 Msholiday282
Joined: 8/28/2012
Msg: 118
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/6/2012 3:23:23 AM
I would not be revolted at all. He is the same guy you loved before, he hasn't changed, he would still have those qualities that you thought highly enough of to move in with him. No big deal and wouldn't be a deal breaker to me, and probably a lot of fun. Can't see what is revolting about all this?????
 Googleplus
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 119
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/6/2012 4:20:07 AM
Now I know if I want to end a relationship I have a good chance to make her run off than to talk about it. I'll just do it to get rid of her the easy way. If she doesn't mind then I'll have to do more work. lol
 TD625
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 120
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/6/2012 6:12:03 AM
yuk! I have no problem wearing his boxes but him wearing my panties wouldn't sit well with me. lol
 hazey42
Joined: 8/2/2010
Msg: 121
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/9/2012 4:00:26 PM
Men all have a femine side. lol. you should have taken pictures.
 vancitygurl78
Joined: 7/6/2012
Msg: 122
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/10/2012 8:33:05 PM
Wow not sure wat to think about it except he's really into sex and kinky stuff if u ask me.

I never had any of my bf's do that. The only thing my ex did was grab my bra off his bed, and pretended to put it on to see wat it was like to have huge knockers. I wanted to take a picture for fun but he said no..

Currently the guy I'm interested in rite now, I told him when we start to date and evolve into a relationship thereafter, I would like to get him to wear my purple thongs. But that's only and purely for jokes. But it's funny to watch him squirm everytime i mention I would do it to when he's sleeping!
 RedCapSue
Joined: 5/20/2012
Msg: 123
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/12/2012 4:00:57 PM
I don't know..its kind of weird and maybe I'm weird but it sounds kind of like a turn on to me..like a nice little kinky side surprise you didn't know about..but again I'm weird. lol

Sue
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 124
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/12/2012 4:47:05 PM

I have lost so many boxers from women wearing mine over the years....that nothing really surprises me at all.

You know you've really made it when your woman starts wearing your shirts and boxers, a girlfriend once told me it's because they want to feel close to you when you're not there, to smell your scent... such a turnon too!
 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
Msg: 125
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/12/2012 9:50:25 PM

The way I see it is that when a woman does what a man does, her status is raised but when a man does what a woman does, his status is lowered. That's not saying much for women.


Im unsure of the relativity of your statement, but thankyou for your input.

All Im saying is I was revolted when I caught him masturbating in my dirty underwear, squeezing his stocky body in his tiny waist length nightie, stretching my underwear to the point of ripping them, then he complained I had nothing nice to wear. I was pissed off as well as revolted.
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