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 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
Msg: 165
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!Page 9 of 10    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10)

I think this is a troll thread.


Well why has it lasted for so long? What was I trolling for? The topic for discussion was posted over a year ago and suddenly rekindled after 8 pages of input.


I don't care how old this thread is or why it's been "revived".
What I want to know is how this missed the attention of the moderators to see the light of day for any length of time.


Please report me then. Here's the link: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts15466776.aspx


If he was a big man, how could he have fit into a "tiny nighty"?


Exactly. I was revolted. He looked horrendous. Please read msg 54 and 60.

Anyway, this topic is for discussion only. I said why I left him and I wont repeat myself.
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 166
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It's just not fair, man!
Posted: 8/29/2013 9:04:04 PM
So why can women wear our clothes, but we can't wear theirs without them freaking out? That's just not fair. I'm going to write my congressman. Something has to be done about this. Next time a woman is wearing my shirt or pants or undies, I'm gonna scream and holler "oh god that's gross! You're a freak! You're disgusting! You are creeping me out! Get out of my house, I don't want to see you anymore!"
 Luv_Life_Now
Joined: 8/6/2013
Msg: 167
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 8/29/2013 10:22:03 PM
There is only one man on the entire planet who could pull off crossdressing and still climb in my bed and get some: Eddie Izzard (of course, I would naturally insist on a performance of Cake or Death beforehand). Otherwise, I prefer the Russeel Crowe type, very masculine with a little facial hair. And lingerie and facial hair just don't go together in anyone's world. Hopefully. Lol
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 168
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It's just not fair, man!
Posted: 8/30/2013 9:00:03 AM
^ hahaha!

I dunno...I knew a guy who often wore women's panties because he found them very comfortable. And, many men will say that they're not wearing women's clothes because they're fighting their masculinity, but instead it's because it either makes them feel closer to their girlfriend, woman-kind, are missing their girlfriend, or because they're so in love with woman-kind, as a heterosexual man, that they like woman-things such they'll wear them sometimes. Might seem like weird logic, I'm sure, but there it is. Many cross-dressers will tell you that - they're not fighting their masculinity at all and are very heterosexual and masculine, but they love women's clothes just because they love women so much. How many women have men's clothes for this particular reason? And what about the practicality of a man carrying a purse? They say men had purses before women. But how many women would freak or be turned off if a man carries a purse of some kind? And I just can't count how many times I've been told by other men on an outdoors blue-collar jobsite to wear panty hose in the winter because they're very effective in keeping you warm.
 anita_lay
Joined: 12/19/2012
Msg: 169
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It's just not fair, man!
Posted: 8/30/2013 2:43:37 PM
^^Plenty of ''indy'' guys wear purses...big leather ones that cross over their shoulders. Handy for bike riding and standing in queues when buying your lattes.
I don't think the OP was worried about her ex wearing her knickers for comfort reasons. He was wanking in them. BIG difference.
And, as she pointed out, he told her he did it because he was a fvcked-up individual who was violent towards women. His fantasies weren't about textural qualities.
So this particular scenario has nothing to do with fighting his masculine side. It's about violence and revenge and all sorts of ugly stuff.
Good to hear you left him asap, Holly.
And Holly is NO TROLL.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 170
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It's just not fair, man!
Posted: 8/31/2013 3:33:51 AM

And I just can't count how many times I've been told by other men on an outdoors blue-collar jobsite to wear panty hose in the winter because they're very effective in keeping you warm.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

My techs ( many of them) wore them in the winter before the garage was heated.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 171
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It's just not fair, man!
Posted: 8/31/2013 5:18:14 AM
^^^^^^^^Ha!

It SHOULD be against the law



A true "down in the swamps" Carolina native will freeze to death if its under 60 degrees and a breeze comes by.

The "transplants" not so much.
 motown_cowgirl
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 172
It's just not fair, man!
Posted: 8/31/2013 5:25:15 AM
I remember how disgustingly HOT wearing nylons was in the summer in DC. I can see where they would totally keep you warm in the depths of a 50-degree SC deep freeze, particularly if you were wearing them under your pants. I never found my BF wearing them though.

found elsewhere:

"I wear pantyhose,(sheers in various color tones) and Tights (also in various colors) every day with shorts, whether running errands, bike riding, or just hanging out. They do wonders for my legs and circulation, besides making a nicer appearance.(Suntans look great).

My SO does not mind, and now she is also wearing lots more to eliminate leg fatique. Most ppl have too much on their minds to notice or care.

Try it, they feel great and massarge your legs. It is a win win."

---- HoseGuy, Tampa, Florida

don't judge. ;)
 motown_cowgirl
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 173
It's just not normal, man in tights!
Posted: 8/31/2013 6:40:28 AM
yeah I don't understand the whole massage thing. really?? IME nylons were hot in the summer, cold in the winter, and got long runs in them if you looked at them the wrong way. fukkers. when I used to feel compelled to wear nylons back in the day, I wanted to use a pair to strangle (slowly) the man who invented them.

looks like a lot of men get excited pretty easily over silly stuff.... and they call us emotional. never heard of a woman going all ooey from wearing boxer shorts and a jock strap.
 ouija2013
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 174
men are fookin weird
Posted: 8/31/2013 6:45:55 AM
I always enjoyed wearing the One size fits all - to have the crotch down to my kneecaps and then tugging them to make runs and holes. Good times those.
I'm sure there is a jockstrap girl somewhere
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 175
It's just not normal, man in tights!
Posted: 8/31/2013 6:51:14 AM
There's no need to wear panty hose for warmth, there are plenty of effective base layer tights on the market in varying weights. Panty hose would probably be about a silk weight or lighter nylon layer. I've worn silk weight polyester, it doesn't add much insulation. I prefer a mid weight Merino wool layer for cool weather.

The reason nylon hosiery helps keep a person warm is moisture transport. Most people wear cotton or other inappropriate clothing next to their skin when it's cold, which traps moisture and can lead to hypothermia. So panty hose would be an improvement, however they often just cover the nylons with another layer of cotton which would negate any gain.

SOME men get excited over women's garments, not all. Hosiery, high heels, you name it do nothing for me. A beautiful female body is what catches my eye...
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 176
men are fookin weird
Posted: 8/31/2013 7:39:03 AM
Hmmmm.....wool? Never heard of wool undergarments. .....I bet they WOULD keep someone nice and warm. That is if they didn't itch them to death. For some reason when I think of wool.....I think "itchy"??


The red shirt I'm wearing in my profile pic is Merino, you can just see the collar.

Merino wool is very soft and doesn't itch for most people (some do experience itchiness). Not to be confused with "standard" wool. Smartwool, Ibex, Patagonia, and Icebreaker make excellent next to skin garments from Merino (they are also pretty pricey).

As for those wearing panty hose with shorts, I have to say I don't find that to be a very good look.

I wear tights fairly often. They work well on the trail, it's easy to add another layer over them without it getting bulky.
 Irish Eyez
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 177
men are fookin weird
Posted: 8/31/2013 7:47:45 AM
Pantyhose AKA tights in Britain, many, many soldiers wear them in the winter to keep warm.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 178
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men are fookin weird
Posted: 8/31/2013 8:43:46 AM
I live in tights myself if under 70 degrees. I love dresses and I FA-reeze esp indoors at an event/restaurant.

Silk long johns are the warmest imo and very thin.
They are also about a 75-100 bucks for a good top and bottom.

Do not suggest heating them in the microwave to warm up..Use the dryer

Will melt and smell like burned hair!

I didn't really do that, did I? Uh yes.

Non itchy wool? Hmmm
 MS.ICENI
Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 179
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men are fookin weird
Posted: 8/31/2013 10:36:45 AM
I love wearing men's boxers in the summer...they're cheap and comfortable. As I type this I'm wearing a pair of Spongbob boxers I was given by a guy who wouldn't wear them. However, don't let me catch him in my panties. Is it a double standand? Absolutely, but that's how it is. Can't explain everything in this world...just accept it.
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 180
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I like to ballet dance in panty hose while I shop in WalMart
Posted: 8/31/2013 10:40:38 AM
I love to go shopping dressed in panty hose, with a skirt barely lower than my buttocks, and a wig that looks like a cheer-leader's pom-pom. I've found that this keeps me warm in the winter. I've also found that chicks really dig it, man. My girlfriend is always pleasantly impressed when she walks in on me dressed this way in the bedroom.

I feel so good dressed this way while shopping in the winter, that I ballet dance everywhere I go, tugging my ever-filling shopping cart behind me. I love to do spins, and throw my leg over someone's head. Now and then, I'll suddenly stop in the middle of a leg-fly, placing my foot inside someone's cart, leaning closer to them, and in a deep manly voice I say "made for a woman, but strong enough for a man, byatch!"

MS.ICENI...I don't know if this ^ is a double standard. But you shouldn't try to understand everything in this world...just accept it.
 ouija2013
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 181
I like to ballet dance in panty hose while I shop in WalMart
Posted: 8/31/2013 11:56:53 AM
^^^ we're going to need to see pictures
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 182
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I like to ballet dance in panty hose while I shop in WalMart
Posted: 8/31/2013 1:26:22 PM

and throw my leg over someone's head.


Can we get a wide lens shot of that like they do surfers in the ..Whats it called? Tunnel? Barrel? TUBE????
 HappySingleSpirit
Joined: 9/10/2011
Msg: 183
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Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 8/31/2013 2:52:53 PM
Like I said before, why would this topic be of any interest to OP to even bring up? Making fun of people is not nice. If you really wanted to understand what makes a man wear your underwear you could study the subject. I don't see OP being curious or wanting to understand it.
 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
Msg: 184
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 8/31/2013 5:05:12 PM

Why are you asking our opinion on something you don’t even care about and moved on?

....To Single Spirit.....it's the topic I wanted to discuss, like many people do about things which happened in the past. I don't care about HIM whatsoever ........and it's a pity he's not doing time........


....To Single Spirit....I already answered you question as above in msg# 200. As for me understanding? I undertand - whatever floats their boat I suppose but it's just not my thing.

And, as she pointed out, he told her he did it because he was a fvcked-up individual who was violent towards women. His fantasies weren't about textural qualities.


That's true, Anita, he was fvucked up for sure and like I said, It's a pity he's not doing time....or maybe he is now, hopefully.

I didn't mention about his violence at the beginning of this thread because it wasn't for topic of discussion. Violence in a relationship is for another thread. I said I left him for other reasons and not simply because he wore my underwear.

Drink? You're hilarious. Throwing your leg over someone at WalMart dressed how you described? That's a classic.

vvvv Lol Peppermint....I can just imagine their faces. :)
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 185
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Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 8/31/2013 5:16:07 PM
I put a spandex/cotton mini dress on one night when with my ex and we were a bit tipsy and I suggested he try it on.
So we switched clothes.

We had a bit of a fun night.

Made me a wee bit jealous though.

With his very firm thighs ( athletic trainer) and his waist long thick blond locks.

I had a very short pixie at the time.

It was a hoot.

Then........................The kids ( teenagers) came home.
16 and 12 ish at the time.

We had some "SPLAININ" to do!!!
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
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Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 8/31/2013 6:57:41 PM
^ Oh, just great. Poor kids. I hope their therapy doesn't cost too much.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
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I like to ballet dance in panty hose while I shop in WalMart
Posted: 9/1/2013 2:20:39 PM
A violent man in panties?

"That there's shot gun talk".

Makes the target easier to find though.


Poor kids. I hope their therapy doesn't cost too much.

^^^^^^^^^^^^
ONE seems to be doing fine.

The one that got therapy.. mmmm, not so sure.
 ouija2013
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 188
I like to ballet dance in panty hose while I shop in WalMart
Posted: 9/1/2013 3:14:25 PM
Never did get the pictures.
Can't imagine a man being able to fit in my undies.
 elmuchoburrito
Joined: 8/27/2013
Msg: 189
I like to ballet dance in panty hose while I shop in WalMart
Posted: 9/3/2013 9:35:21 PM
dont date some one your size - and it should put a crimp on them 'shopping' in your underwear drawer
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