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 lightninbug22
Joined: 6/23/2009
Msg: 144
If a person initiates contact with you on POF, do you expect for them to have read your profile?Page 7 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)

....and the reason why logic goes out the window, unless one is only searching for a one night stand, in which case looks are the main consideration, versus a long-term relationship, the success of which depends on so much more than just looks.


Geez--I forgot about the people looking for one night stands. I just don't tend to think in those terms; that way of thinking is very foreign to me. I guess if searching for one night stands, everything else would take a back seat to physical attraction. That will give me something to think about the next time I get a message and it is obvious that they have not read my profile.
 WolfSpirit29
Joined: 11/22/2012
Msg: 145
If a person initiates contact with you on POF, do you expect for them to have read your profile?
Posted: 12/7/2012 4:36:12 PM
Yes! Yes! Yes! To me if they don't take the time to read my profile, then I don't have time for them. If they can read, they can get to know a lot about me and they can figure out after reading it if they are interested or not. It's SO very easy to do men! Suck it up, take a few mins to read the ladies profiles and be real! :)
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